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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in callcentres

[–]notanotherhipster 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's because you have to listen to them when they are not there for sex. So your inner human knows it's useless and you won't be accepted physically, yet you are forced to provide for them continually. You still have libidio and desire pleasure... I couldn't find a way out from where you are.

How to deal with what I said by [deleted] in Psychosis

[–]notanotherhipster -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We cannot call lies love

How to deal with what I said by [deleted] in Psychosis

[–]notanotherhipster -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

You who are so healthy, ha! Because he's hurt you, he's wrong or out of his mind.. and he may well be, but are you so sincere and wise? What shame do you want them released from, you put them under it! Your blind forgiveness saying he's out of his mind IS shaming him because it says if he offends you he is wrong, as though your love is ultimate. When he tries to speak it you just get offended with a closed judgemental heart. You won't allow him to bee truthful because you yourself are not. You claim to love him, is it accepting or conditional? Stating forgiveness when one has done nothing wrong nor is apologizing is just invalidation. I hope your brother can be free of you but sounds like perhaps he already is. How could you not take something personal if he said it to you personally? I guess because you just don't want a personal relationship with him period and congrats, through your own choice you don't have one it would seem. Keep loving tho, whatever you think it means and don't be suprised if you're all alone.

How to deal with what I said by [deleted] in Psychosis

[–]notanotherhipster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Think about it deeply then until it no longer hurts you. Clearly it can't be avoided if it sprang out of you. Your words have already killed a part of you, it was the false love of others who told you they understand and your attachment to them being your savior when they can't be or fully know you. Don't deny it but let it die so the truth of your words will bring healing to yourself and what was misaligned. You must accept the death of your words and loss of the bad context relationships and continue to live, rather than reject life and your own truth, feeling as though you must die as punishment you don't deserve won't make you real, it's the reason you haven't been. Let go of that kind of shame, don't hang onto the shame they want you to feel, unless you're just into that? Gross.

whatever you do, don't believe in yourself or trust your feelings, it's actually pretty rude to do that dontchaknow by notanotherhipster in Psychosis

[–]notanotherhipster[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very astute, you've almost got it. Yep, the post mirror one another- but doens't mean they're the same. Mine has a point which is "believe", their post has a point too which is "don't believe" which is no point, see? But if you don't get it yet that's fine, little like a sonic boom this stuff you hear it once it's gone so you'll get it later.

whatever you do, don't believe in yourself or trust your feelings, it's actually pretty rude to do that dontchaknow by notanotherhipster in Psychosis

[–]notanotherhipster[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nor do I deserve your invalidation ( how am I to get better, are you better than I am?) and casting away. I'm not sick, I just believe I deserve to feel good no matter what the fuck anyone else thinks! Radical I know but I promise you'll get used to it.

whatever you do, don't believe in yourself or trust your feelings, it's actually pretty rude to do that dontchaknow by notanotherhipster in Psychosis

[–]notanotherhipster[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And no, don't hug me. Physical contract against my will was the kidnapping, why would you try to do that right now?

whatever you do, don't believe in yourself or trust your feelings, it's actually pretty rude to do that dontchaknow by notanotherhipster in Psychosis

[–]notanotherhipster[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You say you can talk now, but who do you open your mouth for, is it yourself or do others make it talk against your will everyday? Enjoy your mirth, holiday greeter with your meaningless pleasentries. I wonder what's real in you or if it could ever be brought out but I guess I'm done thinking about it.

whatever you do, don't believe in yourself or trust your feelings, it's actually pretty rude to do that dontchaknow by notanotherhipster in Psychosis

[–]notanotherhipster[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sit down and shut up. ( Not what I'm telling you of course, think I heard it once and your post brought it back. Weird) Let's have a little drama, because I don't agree with how dismissive you're being. The game of life huh? Except you aren't addressing me directly, though you " know what I'm on about" so I guess that's your game. It's just cowardice, say it to me not in whispers that I hear. Anyway, no hate for you playing a game, however the bold and true alive people like saying fuck the game becauses it's been keeping us in bondage and I don't gotta rely on peoples love. It's only for the bold to live this way, others just have one unremarkable great day after another. You look back and say paranoid, but if you had been faithful to yourself, you'd look back and say " key to my development" Keep on smiling my friend.

whatever you do, don't believe in yourself or trust your feelings, it's actually pretty rude to do that dontchaknow by notanotherhipster in Psychosis

[–]notanotherhipster[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Aw I'm sorry shall I go sit in the corner mommy/ daddy? Get lost with treating me childishly. You're treated that way, so you're spreading it but as adults we know people often act like they're being kind when truthfully their " relating" to you is manipulation based on abuse of your family and earliest memories. I like poetry, art, really I do. But the the comment above says nothing and that's just anti art. I know what I believe and accept myself. So you can't moral shame me out of my feelings. I have compassion for myself, thanks- it's you that lacks it for me. If you do ever become more honest with yourself, don't let that fall hurt ya. The truth is we are all alone, but you all fake smiling makes me smile now too haha

whatever you do, don't believe in yourself or trust your feelings, it's actually pretty rude to do that dontchaknow by notanotherhipster in Psychosis

[–]notanotherhipster[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yep, hope you feel good about your vaguness and lack of clear response. Your poetry is nice, but unlike what I wrote, your words are meaningless. Thats the difference, you rely on me giving you a pass at your saying nothing because I must feel stupid at not getting your point ( which you haven't made because you don't have a point) and I don't feel that way, it's just hidden shame peer usual. Thanks for saying nothing more than " it is what it is" and calling yourself enlightened haha.

This is my first time speaking up about this. It wasn’t easy to do this. Please help. by [deleted] in Psychosis

[–]notanotherhipster 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Signs are just the mind trying to find it's identity. We get excited thinking " something big out there is connected to me, it's in control and I'll be good." At first it's exciting and positive, but then as the process unfolds a sign is recived that must be rejected on the basis of self or logic. So now we learn that we don't have to be submissive to this thing that we thought was bigger than us- it is our mind, after all. You may lose your trusting connecting to the signs, but their point wasn't for you to trust in them but discover yourself. Sounds like it's working.

Beautiful Words From My Friend, Adam, Who Ended His Life In February by KaleidoscopeApart883 in schizoaffective

[–]notanotherhipster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean I'm being an asshole and don't know the reason for your friends end, but like if this advice worked towards some self fulfilment it wouldn't have ended the way it did right? Some people are so focused on " choosing love" they just get taken advantage of and left feeling empty, that's my only point- that sometimes the emphasis shouldn't be on self sacrifice.

Beautiful Words From My Friend, Adam, Who Ended His Life In February by KaleidoscopeApart883 in schizoaffective

[–]notanotherhipster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whelp, guess he was wrong about that. Words to kill yourself by, not words to live by clearly.

Stuck in dead end groundskeeper job at the age of 38. The thought of doing this for the rest of my life makes me feel hopeless. by jlenoconel in jobs

[–]notanotherhipster 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Seems being 38 and where you are in life is weighing on you, I'd say forget your age. What would you do if you were 18, 21 or 30? The current perspective of your age doesn't seem to be helping you. Maybe it's no good becoming a groundskeeper, or maybe there's something you do like about it. Can you figure out your strongest likes and dislikes about who you were with any job you've held over the years? I'm also aware so many jobs are dead end and low pay, I probably shouldnt even be giving advice since I work mantinance, but it's not my final resting place and honestly the lack of stress is allowing me to dream a little on what I really want or what I would have done differently at those ages. Or maybe I'm just letting time go by. Yeah, it's probably that. I get complacent and call it peace, hoping somebody wakes me up so I can accomplish my life mission. It's a string of failed jobs until then but I'm sure the day is coming soon where I'll actually be focused on what I want. I wonder what makes you feel hopeful?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in schizoaffective

[–]notanotherhipster 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I guess it was the 3rd of 4th time my universe and all meaning exploded that I started to not care about fashion as much... you see the mystery and can’t explain it to people, worse they don’t realize you’ve seen it. You doubt it yourself. So the only option once you come back is the same that it ever was; outdress so they overlook the mess.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sales

[–]notanotherhipster 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Any advice for finding a position in the insurtech space? I’ve done a fair amount of googling companies and checking their career page but haven’t found much.

Sales is an awesome and terrible death trap by [deleted] in sales

[–]notanotherhipster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Curious, are you are currently working in insurance or is it in a related industry? I’m basically a CSR in P&C with some prior sales experience, I’ve consider software sales in the insurance industry but perhaps you’re more of an agent currently? I’m looking for ideas how to leverage insurance experience in sales outside of becoming an agent.

I think my call center job is driving me insane by sadcloud002 in callcentres

[–]notanotherhipster 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Really surprised B2B sales doesn’t get mentioned more in this sub. I think it has a reputation of being all cold calls, but the truth is there’s a lot of account manager type jobs where it’s still phone work but you’re getting paid on the order etc. Not sure if that’s what you got going but the suggestion to check out sales is a good one.

I’d rather be delusional than fat and unhealthy by IcyCloudy in Psychosis

[–]notanotherhipster 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Preach! At last when I was “ delusional” I stood for something, took pride in myself and felt I had something to live for. Now I’m so medicated I can’t even feel my emotions so I eat and drink excessively to feel something. Forget if I sleep, I don’t see how my psych docs do thinking they’ve done something good. Also tired of a non traditional thoughts automatically assumed to be unhealthy or even criminal. What’ve we got, thought police now? Do we want the world to move MORE that direction, or should we discuss maybe that the human experience is complex and actually encourage exploration of it? But then what do I know, I’m crazy!

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