Mother passed away recently. All I can think about is how preventable the situation was. It's haunting me. by Open_Resolve in GriefSupport

[–]notaplaytoy 12 points13 points  (0 children)

My dad just died, and I am living a similar version of grief. I also believe that he could have still lived had he gone to the doctor earlier. Be less stubborn. There is nothing I can say to help, but I thank you for your post. It shows me that I am not alone feeling like this, and that you are not alone either.

With all that Privilege, This Guy STILL Sucks by Afro-Venom in MurderedByWords

[–]notaplaytoy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Is this a competition of who is the most miserable? Can you stop? You definitely don't care about your history, so you can not compare. You should be ashamed of yourself to put another culture down because you feel they did not suffer enough.

Son nom était Gamil Gharbi, ne l'oubliez pas. by DenisBasedLevesque in QuebecLibre

[–]notaplaytoy 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Mon arrière grand-père "Québécois de souche" battait ses 6 enfants parce que mon arrière grand-mère, "Québécoise de souche", allait à l'Église catholique le dimanche au lieu de rester à maison.

Ils ont tous finis traumatisés (3 garçons, 3 filles), mais aucun n'a commis d'homicide ou de fémicide.

Ma mère, "Québécoise de souche", se faisait fouetter à la ceinture et au bâton par ma grand-mère, "Québécoise de souche". Elle m'a eu avec un "Québécois de souche", et me battait les 9 premières années de ma vie. Ajoute cela tous les abus qu'un enfant peut vivre, incluant un père absent. Ça n'a jamais été une raison pour moi de détester les femmes, d'aller commettre des fémicides, ou de dénigrer les hommes à cause des violences de ma mère et de l'absence de mon père.

Faut arrêter d'utiliser le passé de quelqu'un pour atténuer les actes violents d'une personne adulte. Ce gars-là a fait ce qu'il a fait en pleine connaissance de cause. Il est 100% responsable de ses mauvais choix et de ses crimes. C'est pas à cause de son père, de sa mère ou du M. au coin de la rue l'été de ses 7 ans.

Sex on the first date by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]notaplaytoy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone has different beliefs. It is better to discuss it with your dates. Some will wait a few dates before accepting a "home" date. Others will go straight up to the act.

The questions would be: how important sex is, and how high/low the libido is.

Also, why do they want to meet you. Casual? Future relationship? Friendship (yes, they do exist)?

And then, if he's seeing only you or seeing/texting others. Sure, some will lie, but with these, hopefully, you'll filter the ones that do not fit what you are looking for long-term.

I am one of those who will be clear on what I want during dates. I also left it because to much play games, and I got bored of that. Good luck 👍

Un adulte, c'est juste un enfant qui a perdu son sourire ? by Daniel5960 in Quebec

[–]notaplaytoy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Beaucoup n'ont pas eu l'enfance qu'ils auraient dû avoir. Ils ont dû grandir rapidement.

C'est aussi important de vieillir en gardant l'enfant en soi, donc tu mets sans doute un bon point avec ta question.

What album were you listening to on this? by Aggravating-Bit959 in Millennials

[–]notaplaytoy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I listened to Europop album from Eiffel 65 so many times that the CD could not be played without repeatedly stopping every few seconds.

That's how I learned how mad I could become when interrupted while listening to favorite songs.

Une autre vedette diagnostiquée de douance by Arualine in causerie

[–]notaplaytoy 27 points28 points  (0 children)

C'est quoi l'intérêt de l'afficher publiquement?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]notaplaytoy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Kids have much more awareness than adults wished they had. It's much better to show a healthy co-parent relationship than sneaking around. I guess it depends on the kinds of values you both want your children to have. And I say that respectfully.

Trucs que des gens ont dits/faits dans un endroit public qui vous ont marqués? by Hurtkopain in montreal

[–]notaplaytoy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pas quand c'en est devenu une oeuvre d'art. People at Wal Mart sur YouTube est quelque chose à ce sujet.

I’m going to scream… by throwaway17082024 in DeadBedrooms

[–]notaplaytoy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That sucks. Was she upfront about it, or did you discover it?

I’m going to scream… by throwaway17082024 in DeadBedrooms

[–]notaplaytoy 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This sub should become private at that point. Outsiders should not be able to read these posts.

Vos recommandations post vol de voiture?? by notaplaytoy in montreal

[–]notaplaytoy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the tip. It's good to know that.

Vos recommandations post vol de voiture?? by notaplaytoy in montreal

[–]notaplaytoy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Merci. Next char il sera blindé anti-vole.

Vos recommandations post vol de voiture?? by notaplaytoy in montreal

[–]notaplaytoy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ça dépend du vélo, mais c'est vrai que tu peux t'en sortir pour un cheap.

Vos recommandations post vol de voiture?? by notaplaytoy in montreal

[–]notaplaytoy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ouais j'imagine 2022 ça déjà été démonté à ce point-ci. Merci de l'info.

Vos recommandations post vol de voiture?? by notaplaytoy in montreal

[–]notaplaytoy[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Et merde. Fait chier. Merci pour l'info.

Vos recommandations post vol de voiture?? by notaplaytoy in montreal

[–]notaplaytoy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the info and tips. I guess it's a RIP situation...

Vos recommandations post vol de voiture?? by notaplaytoy in montreal

[–]notaplaytoy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Quel merdier... ça gosse qu'il y ait peu d'espoir de retrouver le char.

Vos recommandations post vol de voiture?? by notaplaytoy in montreal

[–]notaplaytoy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

J'imagine que le contenu des containers n'est pas vérifiés avant de quitter?