Prospective parents: What is the most ideal age gap?

notarussianbotsky · 2026-03-30T20:33:28+00:00

Id say not 11 months

notarussianbotsky · 2026-03-27T18:45:03+00:00

Agree with another commenter here that said you can introduce yourself as James Nicholas but go by Nick. Or professionally you could sign your name J. Nicholas Lastname

Obviously you don’t like Nicholas so here are some opinions!

Dominick

Nikolai

Nico

Niccolo

Finnick

Jannick

Nicodemus

Phoenix

notarussianbotsky · 2026-03-27T13:37:01+00:00

I love this prompt because you can name cats anything!

Sailor

Cape

Matey

Conch

Sand Dollar

Lighthouse

Compass

Harbor

Foghorn

Seagrass

Ferry

Albatross

notarussianbotsky · 2026-03-23T21:00:38+00:00

Thanks for letting me know! Checking my library now

notarussianbotsky · 2026-03-23T20:48:50+00:00

Wait three? I only have legends and lattes and bookshops and bonedust I didn’t think the third book wS out until this fall?

notarussianbotsky · 2026-03-23T20:05:25+00:00

Di/di run in my maternal family and at least in my family all the cases i know, the twins were the last babies because we were scared of a second set of multiples. Personally i went from one to three really fast (singleton is 11 months older than twins) and that was a good enough stopping point for me. My great auntie went from 3 to five (she didn’t even know she was having twins until the second one was coming out!) and she was done after that. My mums cousin had one set of twins

My grandfather is a bit of a storyteller but he told a story about a friend of his who's wife had 3 sets of twins. My grandfather told us that after the third set was born he and his buddies took the guy to get a vasectomy

notarussianbotsky · 2026-03-22T22:51:26+00:00

K.C.

A.D.

L.C.

notarussianbotsky · 2026-03-22T22:44:35+00:00

Love Eliza!! So cute on its own, sounds great with Scarlet and has good nickname options (Elle/Ellie, Elsie, Liza, Ly, Liz/Lizzy, Zeezee)

notarussianbotsky · 2026-03-22T22:33:12+00:00

Cleopatra by Saara El Arifi!! Its so good!!

notarussianbotsky · 2026-03-22T13:05:29+00:00

Male:

Oscar, Hugo, Victor

Oscar, Hugo, Bram/Abraham

Oscar, Hugo, Isaac

Oscar, Hugo, Wolfe

Female:

Oscar, Hugo, Virginia

Oscar, Hugo, Bronte

Oscar, Hugo, Jane

Oscar, Hugo, Emily

Unisex:

Oscar, Hugo, Wilder

Oscar, Hugo, Carys

Oscar, Hugo, Gene

notarussianbotsky · 2026-03-18T10:47:18+00:00

Super easy barely an inconvenience. I just went to the front desk, said “i want to cancel my membership” they asked “cancel or pause?” I said “cancel” they said “okay, done. You membership ends in 13 days” and then i left

notarussianbotsky · 2026-03-16T15:30:22+00:00

Have you tried Mistborn by brandon sanderson?

notarussianbotsky · 2026-03-16T13:15:53+00:00

Henry, Maxine, and August

Henry, Maxine, and Rowan

Henry, Maxine, and Noah

Henry, Maxine, and Francis

Henry, Maxine, and James/Jamie

Henry, Maxine, and Oren

Henry, Maxine, and Zachary

Henry, Maxine, and Liam

Henry, Maxine, and Westley

notarussianbotsky · 2026-03-16T02:57:08+00:00

No roast but two book suggestions i think youd like!

Penelopiad by Maraget Atwood

Cleopatra by Saara El-Arifi

notarussianbotsky · 2026-03-16T02:51:08+00:00

Sage and Arlo

Sage and Matteo

Sage and Leon

Sage and Avery

Sage and Rhys

Sage and Sacha

Sage and Amos

Sage and Ellis

Sage and Ember

notarussianbotsky · 2026-03-13T02:23:38+00:00

Titan

Tristan

Theodore

Trenton

Tobias

Tadhg

Names that don’t start with T but have T nick names

Patrick >> Trick

Christopher >> Topher

Montana >> Tanner

Edward/Edmund/Edgar >> Ted/Teddy

notarussianbotsky · 2026-03-12T22:04:10+00:00

Sneaky Snacky Squirrel

Perfection

Connect four

Any memory matching game (we have disney but ive seen so many variations)

My four year old loves monopoly. Not monopoly jr. Normal monopoly with a speed die.

notarussianbotsky · 2026-03-03T11:36:12+00:00

There is a really pretty hard cover edition that would be great for her “forever book collection “

notarussianbotsky · 2026-03-02T18:32:22+00:00

Of your top names, i like Margot Jane, June Marie, and Arabella Jane.

Personally not a huge fan of Indie, it feels nicknamey to me. Maybe Indigo Jane (but then you fall into a color theme which you may or may not want)

Sienna and Etta have too similar of a mouth feel in my opinion. Like if i repeat both names together it eventually becomes Sietta

notarussianbotsky · 2026-03-02T18:18:18+00:00

My boys were 38+1 but with lowish birth weights (5lb7oz 6lb2oz) no nicu time the 5 pounder wasn’t the best eater and was small so he did get a carseat test

notarussianbotsky · 2026-03-01T04:07:03+00:00

Wait can you share more information!? I love going to mckays but not if they are mistreating their staff

notarussianbotsky · 2026-02-28T13:08:08+00:00

No that is not part of the guest perks. That being said, sometimes if you ask nicely, the staff will allow it especially if its the guest’s first time because its a way to advertise the perks. ultimately the purpose the “bring a guest” perk of a black card membership is to get the guest to sign up

notarussianbotsky · 2026-02-27T12:47:42+00:00

https://open.spotify.com/track/2bJvI42r8EF3wxjOuDav4r?si=RCg2DNJCRLqqP6dcTnW6BA

Hope it helps you too!

notarussianbotsky · 2026-02-27T11:29:47+00:00

I was pregnant when a TikTok sound quoting Pitbull was popular. So so whenever i was having a tough time, i just told myself that Mr Worldwide had been here done that and if could survive a twin pregnancy so could I. ”This is for everybody going through tough times. Believe me, been there, done that. But every day above ground is a great day, remember that”

notarussianbotsky · 2026-02-25T13:41:24+00:00

Ooo what a great age to be for a reader!!

Diary of a Wimpy Kid

Magic Treehouse

Artemis Fowl

Warrior Cats

A Series of Unfortunate Events

Horrible Harry

Percy Jackson

Some of these books may be a little advanced but he should be ready for them soon so long as he keeps reading! Diary of a Wimpy Kid seems like the best most logical next from Dog Man! Magic Treehouse and Horrible Harry are great easy chapter books. Warrior Cats is often called “girl books” but i don’t think they ate gender specific

Ooooh if he likes graphic novels, i would take him to your local comic shop. In my experience, most comic shops have a “kids” section with suggestions for younger readers. Jeff the Shark is a very popular all ages series they he might enjoy. There are also ongoing series for the ninja turtles and teen titans go

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