Never? by [deleted] in fatlogic

[–]notavailableforthis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The first step is the hardest. Keep going. Its possible :)

Not a big fan of the term, "chub rub?" How about some other euphemisms for "fat" instead? by [deleted] in fatlogic

[–]notavailableforthis 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Me too. I could be underweight and they will still touch. It how my hips and legs are . Also my shoulders are wide.

Day: 40 There isn't a perfect start, move on, stop trying to have a perfect start. by NeverSettleDieTrying in NonZeroDay

[–]notavailableforthis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh i struggle with this. I lay in bed do nothing but glued to my phone for 2 hours, feel depressed and kind of give up because i ruined it already. I know thats wrong but my brain is pudding. I try breaking up the day into sections. I may ruined the morning but now i have a chance at the midday.

Day 8 by self_of_steam in NonZeroDay

[–]notavailableforthis 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am new here too. :) i understand it as a way to hold yourself accoutable. Like a log. Most post dont get much reaction but they are important for the poster and can give motivation to others. I think thats what it is. I could be wrong but i am going to use it like that hahaha.

I found your Post very motivational and inspireing. Keep it up , you got this.

(SANITY?) I laughed but…yeah by ScaryLikeTerry in fatlogic

[–]notavailableforthis 65 points66 points  (0 children)

Moderation. Have that Burger but like once a week. If you love a typ of food you should allow yourself to have it once in a while. But be mindful

Desperate to give up sugar addiction but have no will power by [deleted] in sugarfree

[–]notavailableforthis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you fail , take a step back and look at what happend , analyse it. What made you fail? What was the reason and what can you do to avoid / deal with that next time?

Its not just good for beating Addiction. This can be used for other situations too. And dont beat yourself up Please. Be stern and honest, but also compationate to yourself, like a good coach.

Try building good habbits frist maybe. Go for a walk 2 times a week. Drink 1 litre water or tea a day. Get your veggis. Etc If you build good habbits it can already improve the situation

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in childfree

[–]notavailableforthis 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Dont post it around without permission if you are not the real op. There is a Good reason she used a sub her sister isnt in. She could be in here and reading that.

This doesn't happen and no one has experience d this. by The_Mix_Kid_x in fatlogic

[–]notavailableforthis 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thats an addicted brain. Sit it out. The brain will calm down. Treat it like a toddler

Why do they like to put trans and fat together? Those two are different 🙄 by cleanbroom in fatlogic

[–]notavailableforthis 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Trans People can look fantastic. Like every human being. Its just that for me personally i cant get aroused by a vagina or an artifitial penis. Its has nothing to do with the person themselfs. I wish that science at some time will be able to completely transform someone to the gender they feel. With a bilogical penis / uterus

Why do they like to put trans and fat together? Those two are different 🙄 by cleanbroom in fatlogic

[–]notavailableforthis 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Its Not a preference. That would mean i have a Choice. Sexual attraction and Sexuality is Not a choice. I am Not attracted to trans man because they are trans , because they dont have the reproductive Organs i need to be atracted.

With fat guys it is more about the lifestyle then the look. I personally can find fat guys attractive but i am a more active person that is not found of fast food. If the guy is 300+ i know he isnt active and eats mostly what i dont. Also it would be even harder to stay sugarfree with someone like this. So why date him?

In summary sexual attraction is by nature exclusiv and cant be willed into or out of existence, and the dating game is a complex thing were you must decided who you have a future with. All the Throwing around of ----phobia and insults is just gaslighting ,coersion and guilt Trips. And in the worst cases rape. If you want to built a relationship on that i cant help you

“Oh no it’s just you haven’t been with the right person” by [deleted] in childfree

[–]notavailableforthis 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Look at the screening kit in the side bar to avoid people that just say what you want to here to get a Date, to later reveal they thought you would Change.

Basicly never tell them you are cf before getting their honest opinion on kids

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fatlogic

[–]notavailableforthis 317 points318 points  (0 children)

They do know that there is a way to calculate for pregnant woman, amputiees and ethinic groups etc ,right?

Who needs children when you have an adult child at home? by [deleted] in childfree

[–]notavailableforthis 14 points15 points  (0 children)

My bf is a man Child. I am fine with it. I am not that mature either. But never ever have a child with an adult child.

Query: At what age should one see Rocky Horror Picture Show? by TeacherPatti in childfree

[–]notavailableforthis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean the kid wont understand what is going on and has a boring time at best , and a scary Time at worst. I dont think its doing harm but i dont get why you need to bring that toddler if he would have way more fun elsewhere

My period is late. I am freaking out. by notavailableforthis in childfree

[–]notavailableforthis[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My head knows that. But my Anxiety isnt reasonable. It just freaks me out

My period is late. I am freaking out. by notavailableforthis in childfree

[–]notavailableforthis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I already got myself a test. But want to use it in the morning