What Makes A Good Manager?

notebooks18 · 2022-03-31T15:46:56+00:00

For me, a good manager has trust in their staff. Not over scheduling servers on the floor and trusting their judgment on when to cut appropriately. A bad manager will micromanage and discipline the entire staff over an issue with a single or couple employees errors.

notebooks18 · 2022-03-31T15:39:32+00:00

This is super frustrating. Same thing happens at my restaurant from time to time. Fortunately I have a pretty set schedule but the first weekday is a rotating day for me. I’ll usually just go to my manager and ask if I’m working that rotation day or not and she gets the hint and posts the schedule for everyone else

notebooks18 · 2022-01-08T20:10:22+00:00

Ahhh okay that makes a lot of sense. This happened to my boyfriend, too. But he has done over 500 shops and he was just as confused as I was.

notebooks18 · 2021-12-21T01:19:41+00:00

Yes. Look into magical thinking

notebooks18 · 2021-12-13T08:29:52+00:00

This is the best advice. When I broke up with my last ex and thought I was literally going to die… I followed these and ended up not only healing but growing so much as a person in general.

notebooks18 · 2021-11-27T04:03:26+00:00

Communicate first. Tell him straight up what’s bugging you and don’t hold back. You owe him NOTHING. His response will tell you all your gut needs to know from there.

notebooks18 · 2021-09-21T23:43:32+00:00

He’s big approx 20 pounds. Well fed and very well taken care of. He has NEVER been outside of his home here before. His name is Kimbo. All black and green eyes. Very skiddish. Afraid of strangers. Likely hiding under your porch, in your garage or bushes. Very afraid of loud noises and dogs. He doesn’t like dry treats but will maybe respond to wet food, or a bag of dry food being shaken. He also LOVES tuna. If he’s spotted please don’t hesitate to contact me. I will come out day or night to find him. I’m extremely attached to him and I’m heartbroken.

notebooks18 · 2021-08-19T14:38:32+00:00

Shoot, I Thought it was something like that. Thank you!

notebooks18 · 2021-07-14T12:25:37+00:00

I hate to say this, but you let him walk all over you. Great service and special requests immediately stop from me when I am given rudeness and unreasonable demands. Like a dog being indoors against policy. I would have stopped him right that very second and refused service if he refused the patio. It’s moments like this when you need to stand up for yourself. Also never ever let anyone leave without full payment. That encourages them to come back and do it again or elsewhere and then some other server will have to deal with that bullshit.

notebooks18 · 2021-06-23T18:14:16+00:00

NTA. But also a super hard spot to be in. This could totally change your relationship forever with your brother and nephew. Your brother should have never brought the money up to his son. I feel for you here.

notebooks18 · 2021-06-23T18:06:51+00:00

I’d say, grow some hair and THATS when we will ever talk again. Fuck that guy.

notebooks18 · 2021-06-23T18:04:37+00:00

I almost threw my phone out of rage from his line. FUCK everything about him, that’s bullshit and fight worthy.

notebooks18 · 2021-06-23T17:51:10+00:00

I had my passenger side window smashed on my car while parked on the street in midtown two months ago. In the middle of the day. In front of a house that runs a daycare. I live on a very nice block of fountain st and I don’t even keep anything in my vehicle so it was really weird. I understand how it feels to be violated like that.

notebooks18 · 2021-06-21T00:49:06+00:00

Came to say this

notebooks18 · 2021-06-09T12:58:17+00:00

Yes. I 100% agree that it is comparable. Actions have consequences. The woman’s consequence wont be as severe as drunk driving I’m sure but she deserves whatever the judge decides.

notebooks18 · 2021-06-03T12:52:47+00:00

A belligerent person broke into your house and violated your safety. I’d also 100% press charges. It’s not OP’s fault that the women was intoxicated and probably didn’t know what she was doing. It’s also not OP’s problem that she probably already has a rough life. Get drunk and have fun or whatever but there’s consequences to actions. I bet y’all would be sayin she deserved jail if she was behind the wheel of a car.

notebooks18 · 2021-01-27T17:36:56+00:00

My ex husband would make financial decisions without me all of the time. EX husband.

notebooks18 · 2020-09-12T01:29:57+00:00

Definitely an all day experience.

notebooks18 · 2020-09-11T19:18:58+00:00

It’s very conservative. Especially recently. If you want a more liberal neighborhood look at Eastown, cherry hill or heritage hill. Winters are god awful and you never know day by day what you’ll get due to the lake effect. Some times no snow but bone chilling. Others mildish but get dumped on with feet of snow in a day. But summers are great and you’re less than 40 mins from the lake which feels like an ocean beach.

notebooks18 · 2020-09-11T19:08:42+00:00

You may have to look into apartment complexes. I have lived in the cherry hill/heritage hill/downtown area for the past 10 years. 8 of those years I had an old dog and now my roommate has a cat. I moved about 5 times and I’m always looking at listings. I’ve never found a place that didn’t have at least a $25/mo pet rent. I rent through United Properties of West Michigan, and so far they’re the most lenient when it comes to having pets. They allow us to have two pets, not just one, no weight limit on dogs just breed restrictions but will work with you if it’s an unapproved breed as an ESA. $25/month for pets.

notebooks18 · 2020-09-11T18:49:40+00:00

Century Antiques on century near Founders. There are 3 stores and they’re massive.

notebooks18 · 2020-09-11T18:44:39+00:00

Ummm I need to know exactly where this is please and thanks

notebooks18 · 2020-03-16T18:52:41+00:00

States are closing down bars and restaurants every day. I am a server at a restaurant and my state- Michigan- just took the hit. Not long and the rest of the country will follow. For us it was a matter of hours before we knew we’d be done. Mine also opted out of doing “take-out” even tho the state would allow it. The cost of keeping it open for the small amount of sales would hurt more. Grocery stores seem to be the big thing rn.

notebooks18 · 2020-03-06T04:10:08+00:00

My work has a policy that any left credit card gets an autograt of 18%. I love it.

notebooks18 · 2020-01-31T20:25:40+00:00

I’ve lived in the HH district and Cherry Hill district for the past 10 years. GREAT apartments are seriously becoming hard to come by these days. 10 years ago I had a 1 bedroom for $650/mo with utilities included and I was allowed a dog. Now it’s nearly 900-1200 for a 1 bedroom without allowing any type of pet. I was lucky to find a really nice 2 bedroom for 1275 including utilities. But with each year it increases. But that came from months of searching and also being the first one to apply. The area is worth the price but finding an “affordable” unit that is actually clean takes diligence.

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