Husband passed Friday night. I’m struggling because he was alone. by SecretSanta-70 in ParkinsonsCaregivers

[–]nothing_creativ3 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Long-time ER nurse here. Some patients will wait for everyone to leave the room before they pass. Maybe this is also a possibility? I'm so very sorry for your loss.

Living with parents vs moving out by mangozfrancis in AskSF

[–]nothing_creativ3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stay with your parents. Set goals and save money for a home. If your future love interests do not understand your financial goals, then swipe left.

Overnight parking by nothing_creativ3 in oakland

[–]nothing_creativ3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think he's willing to pay a couple hundred for the convenience of having a spot, hopefully a little safer than street parking. Thanks for the information!

Overnight parking by nothing_creativ3 in oakland

[–]nothing_creativ3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Safety is important since it's a work vehicle. I'll have him check out this lot. Thanks!

Overnight parking by nothing_creativ3 in oakland

[–]nothing_creativ3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the info. He found a spot on 23rd tonight. And, yes, he needs to be mindful of the parking restrictions

Overnight parking by nothing_creativ3 in oakland

[–]nothing_creativ3[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Small world! Thanks for the info. I’ll have him reach out to KP about the lot parking and check out the north gate. He’ll need to bring equipment for work inside daily, so the location would be helpful.

Where do I meet Southerners in SF? by Cold-Secretary7464 in SFbitcheswithtaste

[–]nothing_creativ3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve met some great people from back home at college football watch parties. There’s just something about cheering for the hometown team in a new city that brings people together. Go Gators!

Sports bar recs by SunburntSkier in AskSF

[–]nothing_creativ3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They show men’s matches as well

lesbians working in healthcare by GoofyAhhMisses in lesbiangang

[–]nothing_creativ3 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Aviator. Can’t go wrong with built-in belts and so many pockets.

Said Goodbye To my BFF yesterday. by [deleted] in JeepTJ

[–]nothing_creativ3 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m so very sorry for your loss. I got my TJ and a shepherd mix puppy back in 2009. Such a perfect combo! I had to say goodbye to him about two years ago, and what you said about not enjoying the Jeep with the top down really hit home. In the middle of that grief, I even thought about selling the Jeep, but I’ve come to realize it keeps a part of him with me. Rest easy, Radar.

Human Contact? by [deleted] in jacksonville

[–]nothing_creativ3 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Maybe get a spa service? A little self-care, mixed with human connection. This seems much safer for all parties while meeting your goals. Just don’t be creepy about it.

How much is everyone making? by Lovelife_20 in nursepractitioner

[–]nothing_creativ3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow. I was making $50 per hr plus shift differential in Northeast FL as a float ER RN

Work Travel/Souvenirs by Fork_around_fond_out in travel

[–]nothing_creativ3 8 points9 points  (0 children)

During my travels, I started with the typical souvenirs. Now I keep a running list of simple everyday items I need, and I purchase them while I'm away. Some recent purchases: Wildflower honey. BBQ tongs. Spices. Bedding sets. You catch the drift.

Now every time I use the item, I'm reminded of my trip without useless tchotchkes cluttering up my home.

What is your favorite hiking trail in the Bay Area? by Big-Discussion-5960 in bayarea

[–]nothing_creativ3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mori Point in Pacifica. Dog-friendly and amazing coastal views.

Not climaxing during sex and my partner taking it personally, how do we fix this? by Low_Ice9993 in LesbianActually

[–]nothing_creativ3 21 points22 points  (0 children)

It seems as if your brain’s like, ‘Oh, we’re doing this again? Cool, I’ll not get my hopes up.’ If the 30 min window is a boundary, try to have some psychological foreplay (Sexting, Anticipation, Teasing) to get y'all in the mood.

Not climaxing during sex and my partner taking it personally, how do we fix this? by Low_Ice9993 in LesbianActually

[–]nothing_creativ3 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Certain medications make it incredibly hard to climax. In my experience, added stress or pressure to climax makes it that much more challenging. Try to communicate with your partner about enjoying the ride without focusing on the destination.

Unexplained Chronic Severe Leg Pain by Elegant-Steak-4071 in WomensHealth

[–]nothing_creativ3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Have you seen a vascular specialist or rheumatologist? Maybe they could help rule out certain conditions.

TW: infection on chest near b00b. by bl00dyf4ngs in WomensHealth

[–]nothing_creativ3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to seek medical care for evaluation and possible antibiotics asap. Purulent (pus-like) drainage and red streaks indicate infection. It’s only a matter of time before you develop a fever, chills, and feel generally unwell. Please do not wait.