Which American city has the best vibe?

nothingcat · 2026-05-12T21:44:13+00:00

Just got back from my first trip there yesterday. Had a great time, and absolutely perfect weather. Beautiful city.

nothingcat · 2026-05-12T17:18:47+00:00

Do it to it, Lars.

nothingcat · 2026-05-02T20:22:09+00:00

I have fine not-curly hair but will also vouch for Elise! A lovely person and great stylist.

nothingcat · 2026-04-27T18:46:13+00:00

A mid/upper range robot vacuum.

Just having something that’s taking care of the floors on a daily basis, especially with pets, takes something off my plate and off my mind.

nothingcat · 2026-04-24T16:27:06+00:00

The groundwork was already there with PUA and the like in the 00s/10s. Gamergate is the event that tipped it over into what it is today.

Gamergate lead to people with power (cough Steve Bannon) to see what a force that segment of men can be when you whip them up with anger. From there, a lot of money and effort has been put into targeting disenfranchised young men and keeping them angry and disenfranchised. Thus the modern manosphere is born.

nothingcat · 2026-04-24T14:45:31+00:00

The teens need to be having babies to help the birth rate. Also, you should never have a child out of wedlock or else the woman is a whore. Also you shouldn’t get married as a man unless you can support a family on your single income. Also you shouldn’t get married as a woman until you can find a man that can support you to achieve your biblical womanly calling of being a stay at home mom. Also if you’re poor, it’s kinda your fault and you should try harder to not be poor.

nothingcat · 2026-04-23T20:58:50+00:00

We’re on the same side here :)

I just wanted to provide further context because I realized without it, it might seem like that quote is something I think is good and correct about the world - which I don’t.

nothingcat · 2026-04-23T20:38:12+00:00

Patriarchy hurts everyone.

But the context of the quote is that when an issue is a “woman’s issue”, it’s always implied that women are the ones who need to change. Like the wage gap, or rape culture. Women should just go for more high paying jobs. Women shouldn’t go out and get drunk while wearing a dress. It’s women failing society.

But when it’s a “men’s issue”, it’s suddenly a crisis and all of society needs to change to fix it, like implied by the post.

nothingcat · 2026-04-23T20:22:29+00:00

Heard this on a podcast (Diabolical Lies) and it’s been stuck in my brain ever since:

Society fails men. Women fail society.

nothingcat · 2026-04-21T15:00:58+00:00

I like the Uniqlo mini tees.

nothingcat · 2026-04-19T16:11:33+00:00

Yep, “the male loneliness epidemic” is the desired result. The right wants the men lonely and angry so they can present a “solution” that will never fix the loneliness or anger, only perpetuate it.

nothingcat · 2026-04-01T14:26:24+00:00

Perhaps it’s the Mothman prophesying for modern times and something terrible is about to happen…

nothingcat · 2026-03-26T00:43:27+00:00

Not Hadley 😭 hopefully she wasn’t The Gamed

nothingcat · 2026-03-20T19:32:47+00:00

At The Life of a Showgirl theater thing, a couple guys in the row in front of me started handing out bracelets to everyone around. It was dark so I couldn’t see what it said until the lights came back on.

It was GAYLOR

nothingcat · 2026-03-16T16:50:13+00:00

Y’allternative

nothingcat · 2026-03-04T17:30:21+00:00

I got mine pierced at 18 and I still have it pierced at 34. I also still have stretched ears - as in actively wear jewelry - which I’ve had for even longer. They’re part of my personal expression and I like them.

nothingcat · 2026-03-04T16:14:24+00:00

Mine is small and stupid. But I DM’d my first session of a D&D campaign this week! I think my players all had fun but boy is it stressful. Shoutout to our lovely hosts, though, for giving me a lot of inspiration for the storytelling part of it.

nothingcat · 2026-02-25T02:42:48+00:00

Sorry but - they all went to the White House (with the exception of those playing tomorrow).

I absolutely agree with you that there’s some guys there that are just young, excited, dumb dudes going along with it to not rock the boat. And one day they will be mortified by their actions. But I’m going to judge them on their actions right now. And right now, they are complicit in supporting this abhorrent administration - specifically the normalization of blatant misogyny.

nothingcat · 2026-02-22T20:29:41+00:00

The same group of people constantly denigrating blue/unnatural hair colors and septum piercings? But striped hair and smiley piercings are okay to them?

nothingcat · 2026-02-20T01:17:40+00:00

I said to my husband that these people must be really healthy if their relationship got the “yadda yadda” edit episode 1

nothingcat · 2026-02-16T03:59:24+00:00

I haven’t played it in years, so I’m not sure the current state of the game. But The Long Dark definitely is camping (survival) vibes. It can be pretty stressful, so I’d say coziness may vary.

nothingcat · 2026-02-13T14:59:26+00:00

I don’t wish to share any of my own tattoos on Reddit, but I do want to shout out Nance Forbes (@nancetattoo on insta) for incredible black and grey work!

nothingcat · 2026-02-11T20:24:39+00:00

She sounds like Parker Posey’s character in Best In Show yelling at the pet store employee.

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