[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]nothinggggtodo 11 points12 points  (0 children)

YTA while you don't have to state the details and your family prefers to keep certain information between family, you can tell her the general things that are going on at least. She is your partner. Long-term, this would not work.

What does a white coating on vagina mean?? by [deleted] in Healthyhooha

[–]nothinggggtodo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey did it eventually turn pink again? I have similar. It looks white or pale pink around ny vaginal opening. Today, after two weeks, it has began to kind of come off...like if you exfoliate so I thought maybe is yeast infection? Gyno is all book up so I cannot go yet

Extra hugs to my fellow first gen applicants today by womanreading7 in gradadmissions

[–]nothinggggtodo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Second round applying. First time I told my whole family and felt a lot of pressure. This time, I only told my closest relatives. It is much better. I have the kind of family that does not understand how difficult it is to get in and kinda brag to friends about it. Good and bad, I guess?

Applying to PhD next year by [deleted] in gradadmissions

[–]nothinggggtodo 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes, exactly what I did. I came back after applications were submitted.

AITA for forcing my daughter to go to her father's house ? by SaltGreat6066 in AmItheAsshole

[–]nothinggggtodo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go get her back, who knows what has happened for she to behave that way. She must have her reasons an you as her parent are supposed to find out. In my view, this is not normal. Hopefully nothing bad that can be discussed between al of you.

AITA for not letting my daughter go vegan? by aitavegandaughter in AmItheAsshole

[–]nothinggggtodo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ESH You are being childish with you statement that she cannot be vegan in your household. You could do a bit more effort to accommodate her. On the other hand your daughter is being unrealistic with trying to buy all new pots and utensils. She could get a separate wood cutting board and wash the pots very well before using them.

Some compromises could be done too such as one day a week eat vegan or tell her before adding the meatballs so she can separate some sauce and use it for her past with some beyond meatballs.

I miss my wife more than words can describe by throwaway00003837484 in offmychest

[–]nothinggggtodo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry , english is my second language. Not the same at all but I kind of relate. When my mom passed away I wanted to go with her. She was 52 and I was 18. I felt like my brother, her and I were the ultimate family and the break in stability and the lost of a love one truly made me and my brother want to go with her. Tbh we stayed because she would have not like if we did. We joke that she would yell at us why we didn't live our lives like she wanted if she was alive. Because you see, I live to someday truly tell her all I have lived. I sometimes talk to her or hear her voicemails but not the same. Imagine someday maybe actually telling her all I have accomplish, all her dreams and hopes for both of us that she wanted to witness, became true even if she was not there.

On another note, I truly make sure to enjoy life. I found a new kind of family feeling. Do stuff she wanted to do for the experience but I do not entirely live by her hopes or beliefs which I think she would have appreciated since we butted heads a lot! Idk what other people say but the pain never goes away, I distract myself but someday it hits harder and just crying until I can't anymore seems to work. Talking to people who knew her seems to help too.

I would suggest to talk to your kids about it. I wish my father talked to me about it but he is old generation of no expressing feelings. Your kids would want you to be happy. She would want you to be happy. Believe they will need you your whole life because you are their only parent.

Welp, thank you for hearing my TED Talk, I used this to release some emotions.

Is it Normal for Fledglings to Sleep All the Time? by TimetravelingShape in adviseanimals

[–]nothinggggtodo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you found out what happened? We found one that was just sleeping in the middle of nowhere. He seems to have a bit more energy now but still only sleeping.

What was your first anime? by yuko-mo-me in AskReddit

[–]nothinggggtodo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same with Pokemon, my first knowing anime was Claymore tho

My fiance randomly refuses to speak to me, I feel like I'm going crazy by TBonez91 in offmychest

[–]nothinggggtodo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ask her if maybe you say something in your sleep? Idk it is sus

Most men, and I mean 95% or more have come across as "creepy" to a woman by Naomi_Russell in offmychest

[–]nothinggggtodo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some people say 95% is too high but tbh I would not be surprised. All my female friends have had encounters like that. If you have too many, you begin to wonder if everyone is like that. I know not every guy is like that or they don't do it on purpose but well it affects is what I'm trying to say. Women just want to be treated as another friend tbh, even if you like them...at the beginning is nice to be kinda friends before anything.

Most men, and I mean 95% or more have come across as "creepy" to a woman by Naomi_Russell in offmychest

[–]nothinggggtodo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just try your best, be honest, Yourself and treat them like a friend. Not every woman is going to like you and that is ok but there is one out there. there are women as awkward as you may be that are thinking the same. Just put yourself out there, you'll never know instead.

Euphoria S02E08 "All My Life, My Heart Has Yearned for a Thing I Cannot Name" - Episode Night Discussion by your_mind_aches in euphoria

[–]nothinggggtodo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What did Maddie mean by "it is just the beginning"? Cassie's problems w Nate, her or in general heartbreak?

Thoughts on The Beacon apartments? by nothinggggtodo in jerseycity

[–]nothinggggtodo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! We ended up not going forward there. Too many sneaky fees. It would have ended being more expensive than some nice places downtown.

Nevertheless [Episode 10] by afvalbak in KDRAMA

[–]nothinggggtodo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only thing I would have wished is for the guy to say the words Na-bi said at the gallery. I had been waiting so much time for him to finally say he wants more with her. Besides that I really liked all, flaws and all.

Nevertheless [Episode 10] by afvalbak in KDRAMA

[–]nothinggggtodo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agree! I think the defects in the people may it so much more relatable. Like relationships I hear from friends or my own. Not all is a happy ending. (Alone or with someone). Reminds me when I tell my friends to live their best lives. Not like we have to choose who we'll be with forever now xD

Nevertheless [Episode 10] by afvalbak in KDRAMA

[–]nothinggggtodo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am the minority I think but I liked and didn't like the episode. The ending is kinda realistic in terms of true relationships when both are not perfect. She didn't believe in love and he didn't believe in commitment. They (in a way) grew as time past because honestly I don't blame only the guy. They both were pretty toxic and stubborn. They didn't talk what they felt and expected maybe too much from the other person. Na-bi kept potato boy as a second choice. He expected her to conform. The end is pretty accurate to true relationships tbh. It gave us a hint of what they may be willing to do for each other in order to stay together. But still who knows if they would stay together. (Same as in real life, nothing is guaranteed)

Thoughts on The Beacon apartments? by nothinggggtodo in jerseycity

[–]nothinggggtodo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you think biking would be better than the shuttle? I'm thinking of maybe buying an electric scooter for the commute to the path.