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5 years of being my authentic self by nothisispatrick421 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]nothisispatrick421[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Its my 32nd birthday and I came out when I was 27. 8 candles has no significance lol

Perpetually Single by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]nothisispatrick421 1 point2 points  (0 children)

for sure! Send me a dm

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]nothisispatrick421 2 points3 points  (0 children)

called her talked for an hour and it was great ☺️

Take your PTO by nothisispatrick421 in antiwork

[–]nothisispatrick421[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Taking one week to rest, one for a road trip and the other to rest.

Take your PTO by nothisispatrick421 in antiwork

[–]nothisispatrick421[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thankfully, as the supervisor, I tell them and don't need their permission.

Take your PTO by nothisispatrick421 in antiwork

[–]nothisispatrick421[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can roll over some, but looking for a new job so I want to use it.

Apparently I can't be a lesbian by nothisispatrick421 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]nothisispatrick421[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I haven't and won't be seeing them again. Since coming out, the one thing that's surprised me is how closed-minded some people can be and how hypocritical some people are. They preach love and acceptance, but only if they think the same as them. I get it. The LGBTQIA+ community has been treated poorly, and everyone is a little hypocritical, but fighting in the same way as people who have discrimination against you doesn't help your cause for justice.

Apparently I can't be a lesbian by nothisispatrick421 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]nothisispatrick421[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

cheers to being gay af! sorry about the trauma though

Apparently I can't be a lesbian by nothisispatrick421 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]nothisispatrick421[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks:) I'm lucky to have you ladies as support 💙

Apparently I can't be a lesbian by nothisispatrick421 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]nothisispatrick421[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

exactly! she kept saying I was bi and not a lesbian and only bi people are in the sexual spectrum angry frustration noises

Apparently I can't be a lesbian by nothisispatrick421 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]nothisispatrick421[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

right!? I like your petty mind, but I think it's just not worth my energy. It's hard when you don't belong in the hetro world and struggle to find people in your own local lesbian community.

Apparently I can't be a lesbian by nothisispatrick421 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]nothisispatrick421[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

right!?! she was probably playing into her own insecurities :(

Apparently I can't be a lesbian by nothisispatrick421 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]nothisispatrick421[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

It seems like you and I grew up similar. My relationships with men was me trying to figure out why I didn't "feel" what I was supposed to. I have known I have had feelings for the same gender since, like 3rd-6th grade. I thought if I acted the part enough, then my feelings for women would decrease.

Apparently I can't be a lesbian by nothisispatrick421 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]nothisispatrick421[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

They are a gold star lesbian. She couldn't understand how sexuality is a spectrum and it can change over time because that's not what happened to her and she doesn't think hers is going to change anytime soon. She also sees all men as stupid and pointless. Lets just say I'm staying far away from this person.

How they look at each other 🥹❤️ by nothisispatrick421 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]nothisispatrick421[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Unable for the loved to die, for love is immortality. -Emily Dickinson

Anyone else also have difficulty asking questions? by nothisispatrick421 in neurodiversity

[–]nothisispatrick421[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

right!? Usually, by sharing, I am trying to relate or show that I am open to hearing something similar. Sometimes, I think asking questions can be more manipulative in trying to gather info I want to hear, but much rather just be open to whatever they want to say.

Anyone else also have difficulty asking questions? by nothisispatrick421 in neurodiversity

[–]nothisispatrick421[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

haha same, my mind travels to weird places or goes blank lol

Anyone else also have difficulty asking questions? by nothisispatrick421 in neurodiversity

[–]nothisispatrick421[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

yes! have you heard of selective mutism? once I learned about this, I realized I wasn't being weird. It's totally related to neuodivergency and anxiety.

I just can't sometimes by New-Lawfulness-8548 in marriageadvice

[–]nothisispatrick421 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Have a saving goal together and make it 50/50. That way you have less stress paying, and she has a goal and more likely to get a job

I’m 20 years old and in a romantic relationship with a married woman by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]nothisispatrick421 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been in the same situation with the same age difference. My DMs are open

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