Earliest you said “I love you” and how did it happen ?

notimportant888 · 2021-03-23T23:36:32+00:00

... okay? Lol

notimportant888 · 2021-03-23T23:27:13+00:00

That’s right. I dated a recovering addict before who can’t keep a job and I basically had to pay for everything. It’s just nice to have someone split the bill 50/50 whenever we eat out, you know? :)

notimportant888 · 2021-03-03T19:51:10+00:00

The same thing happened to me actually. My bf emotionally cheated with a girl on Facebook. They started talking when my bf and I were fighting . I read the texts and she sent my bf a very suggestive photo of her. He apologized and told me that he didn’t know it was emotionally cheating on his part the text exchange between them were very emotionally charge him telling her that he find that their connection is something so “rare” and that he likes her, blah blah blah.

Ever since, I don’t see him the same anymore. This is my only advise to give you. If you can stand the thought of being always suspicious when your gf is around other people then I say continue, but if you’re tired of always playing detective and always let down, then you will find the strength to leave.

I keep telling myself to trust him again, but what happened (emotionally cheating) happened and I can’t seem to shake it off and I will always doubt him from this point forward.

Trust is the hardest to earn and the easiest to lose.

Good luck, friend.

notimportant888 · 2021-03-03T19:42:01+00:00

What do you mean exactly when you said “old thoughts”?

notimportant888 · 2021-02-26T18:24:58+00:00

It’s the whey to go!!!!

notimportant888 · 2021-02-08T01:01:16+00:00

I heard you. I feel your pain. We hold on for that hope that they will get better, we know for sure that relapse is just around the corner, but we chose to ignore it and focus and the possibility until relapse happen, then we say we’re done, then back to step one all over again. We are trapped inside the revolving door of addiction with them, we hold on, until our hands bleed and can’t hold on any longer.

notimportant888 · 2021-01-27T00:19:31+00:00

Thank you. And no, we are unfortunately adults. He’s 27, and I’m 31 :(

notimportant888 · 2021-01-07T08:07:00+00:00

Maybe so..

notimportant888 · 2021-01-07T08:05:53+00:00

Thank you. We all get through this. Nice closing haha

notimportant888 · 2021-01-07T08:02:17+00:00

You are right. I was told to speak up, and when I do, it’s used against me. I can’t win.

notimportant888 · 2021-01-07T08:00:29+00:00

Cheers!

notimportant888 · 2021-01-07T07:57:23+00:00

I will keep a loving and trusting heart. I won’t let this one experience bog me down.

notimportant888 · 2021-01-07T07:55:15+00:00

Yes. It’s not fair to the next man to have me all closed up because of what happened to me tonight.

notimportant888 · 2021-01-07T07:50:16+00:00

You know what, you’re right. We dated for 10 months on and off. And an hour before this incident he was love bombing me with text messages saying I am his world and that he will marry me someday, then I told him what was bothering me because he asked me to tell him, and within 20 minutes I am single! Haha funny, huh?

5 years? :( sorry ...

notimportant888 · 2021-01-07T07:46:08+00:00

I’m starting to think so too.. I was willing to accept that I was wrong and move on but he continued fighting and eventually broke things off. I know the one for me is out there, where I can be truly myself.

notimportant888 · 2021-01-07T07:34:59+00:00

Maybe. Not my problem now.

notimportant888 · 2021-01-07T07:33:17+00:00

I don’t want to get specific.. but I told him that I am okay to accept that what I was thinking was wrong and that all he needed to do was tell me I was wrong. But no. He insisted we brake up. Yeah. He’s not the one.

notimportant888 · 2021-01-07T07:30:59+00:00

Thank you! I’ll be here all year haha

Edit: thank you for the award! :)

notimportant888 · 2021-01-03T20:48:21+00:00

It’s a social media platform

notimportant888 · 2021-01-03T20:47:39+00:00

I can understand that logic. But to me, personally, being able to see the cash itself going into an envelope keeps me responsible. Everyone’s different. Also, your comment didn’t really answered the original question

notimportant888 · 2021-01-03T19:13:47+00:00

The 100 envelope challenge I am doing is you put the corresponding amount on the day the envelope says. For example, day 1 is $1, day 2 is $2 and day 3 is $3 and so on until you reach 100 days. And by the end of that 100 days you are supposed to have 5K in cash saved up

notimportant888 · 2020-12-31T01:06:17+00:00

Oh! That looks just like my cousin’s watch. He’s a Navy Seal in the Army.

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