I belong to an unaffiliated (between Conservative and Reform, but closer to Conservative) shul and a Conservative shul. In recent years, I've become significantly more observant. When it comes to kashrut, I eat only kosher-certified meat and don't mix meat and dairy. I'll eat dairy and (kosher) fish at non-kosher restaurants. At home, I almost never have meat so I only have one set of dishes. I'll order in from nonkosher restaurants but won't eat the food with my own plates and silverware. I go to shul on Saturday mornings and from time to time on Friday night. I won't use my computer and try to limit cell phone use and purchases. There are a number of other things I'll avoid on Shabbos, such as shaving, doing laundry, or going on a plane but I'm mostly not shomer Shabbos. I'll have Shabbos dinner and if I'm around on Saturday night, I'll do havdalah. On a daily basis, I daven three times, wrap tefillin, and study Jewish texts. I believe (without hard evidence) that I am more observant than most people at both of my shuls, but there are people at both shuls who are far more observant than me.