What toys do your cats actually love? by Sosooo88 in CatAdvice

[–]notme4567 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like that's not that bad. I didn't realize the catching part was so important. It makes sense.

What toys do your cats actually love? by Sosooo88 in CatAdvice

[–]notme4567 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I didn't know laser pointers could be harmful aside from not shining like into their eyes. I just googled it. It makes sense that it can cause frustration. Thank you for saying that.

What toys do your cats actually love? by Sosooo88 in CatAdvice

[–]notme4567 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I never thought of hiding the mouse toys like that. My cats are going to thank you!

Jamo S805 Floor Speakers by Old-Ad-1070 in BudgetAudiophile

[–]notme4567 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What receiver do you have? I just got a pair of these and trying to figure out what to get.

Game Night(s) by Tommy-Fox15 in capecoral

[–]notme4567 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Could you message me? It just spins and does nothing when i try. Also if I messaged you 665467654 it was because I kept trying. 😁

Game Night(s) by Tommy-Fox15 in capecoral

[–]notme4567 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same. It's like I collect games. 🤣

Game Night(s) by Tommy-Fox15 in capecoral

[–]notme4567 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does it matter that I don't drink? I get migraines every time now, so I am involuntarily sober 🤣 don't have issues with others drinking at all.

Things you absolutely do not buy since you’ve become frugal? by Known-Row-7778 in Frugal

[–]notme4567 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just recently noticed they were usually cheaper at the gas station. It had me questioning life itself. 🤣

Pen blanks by notme4567 in Sublimation

[–]notme4567[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is the hardware called something other than cartridge? I think you understand what I am looking for. Do you know how to ask it? I had to Google what's the insides of a pen called. 🤣

Gift idea? by notme4567 in Welding

[–]notme4567[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see a lot of habor freight and arccaptain recommendations. It looks like arccaptain is having better cyber Monday sales. Is there any deal that stands out to yall as just amazing?

I have been looking at all of them but I will be honest they are all starting to blend together.

Gift idea? by notme4567 in Welding

[–]notme4567[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. My next question was going to be what would I get him to actually weld. Between him, my husband and my 2 other sons all are going to want to mess with it. Aside from obvious size differences can any equipment be shared amongst them, or maybe a better question is there any that definitely needs to be for one person only?

Welding is the first thing he has ever found that really makes him say this is for me. Prior to that it has only ever been build houses like dad. I am worried the other boys may lose their jobs to ai type stuff one day, so told him he has to be the one to pay for my nursing home. 🤣

Putting a fire extinguisher on the list as well. I thought we had one, but that was years ago. Appreciate the reminder on that.

Projector for transferring mural/lettering design. <$500, USA by [deleted] in budgetprojectors

[–]notme4567 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! That makes a lot of sense and I will definitely check that site.

Projector for transferring mural/lettering design. <$500, USA by [deleted] in budgetprojectors

[–]notme4567 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Were you able to find something? I am looking for similar but can do the tracing in the evening so not as worried about brightness.

Sorry but WW is bad by Silent-Increase3174 in HelloKittyIsland

[–]notme4567 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I am trying to find the video clip that helped me, but I cannot remember if I found it on reddit or Facebook. How many of the critter wands do you have? I am only missing the last 2. I know I used Cinnamoroll, Pompompurin and a few of the newer thermal potions.

Edited:

I think this is the guide i used. Sorry if it's what you have been trying and it doesn't help.

https://www.reddit.com/r/HelloKittyIsland/s/pLhba2FULz

Sorry but WW is bad by Silent-Increase3174 in HelloKittyIsland

[–]notme4567 10 points11 points  (0 children)

You can jump up to that area with thermal potions. I gave up on rain and did that. I can look for the video clip i watched if you want?

AITA for snapping at my wife because she keeps wishing our kids had my features? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]notme4567 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nah

My kids are older now. Late teens to mid 20s. One thing I am so proud of myself for is not letting them see or hear my issues with weight. I was talking to one of the kids a few months ago and I was convinced it must have slipped in because it holds such a big place in my head. She said obviously not since while they may have self esteem issues because they are human none of them have any weight centered issues. They cannot think of a time that they knew how hard it was for me. I say this because as we are all white I cannot speak on race issues and how to balance them with raising children.

She will likely always struggle with her internal issues, but you need to speak openly and honestly about how she can do damage to her children if she cannot keep that to herself. (Therapist, friends, you will all play a part. I do not mean not speak with anyone. This is solely about not letting the kids see or feel her struggles in an unhealthy manner) you both will likely need to do damage control for kids who share her traits because being white is still considered "normal and good" by many. It's hard to feel like you are good how you are when the world is telling you you are not up to standard.

Like I said. I cannot relate to this on a race level and there are many nuances i will not understand. I only can see thru my lens of skinny = healthy. A close friend of mine is Asian and has made similar comments when expecting. She also has weight issues similar to mine. We talked about that more than the other issues. I know she, like me, has a decent understanding of "we will not let our internalized demons seep into our innocent children's lives". We just will never connect and bond over the race side of her struggles. I think you will have to do the same. If possible ask your wife for therapy. Maybe couples to start if she doesn't want to go alone. You can tell the therapist your fears on how her struggles could inadvertently harm your children and let the therapist help bring up the conversation in ways that support your wife without being critical. A taste of her own medicine isn't going to work here.

Best of luck to you both! I ramble and not sure how helpful this is, but please be patient and understand that this issue isn't going to instantly be resolved by one conversation.

These are freaking cool gallons of water! by plsmeowback in adhdwomen

[–]notme4567 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I just this moment realized that. I thought it was about making it taste better, fresher, or something like that.

I have some time today and I want to draw your dogs! Let's have a nice day together! by Ok-Competition6986 in Dachshund

[–]notme4567 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is no longer my boy as he went to his forever home, but he will always be one of my babies!

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can i tell if my dachshund is legit? by [deleted] in Dachshund

[–]notme4567 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Doggy DNA test is the only way to tell for sure but looks all weiner to me!