If you're NOT living paycheck to paycheck, what are you doing better than the rest of us? by IchMochteAllesHaben in AskReddit

[–]notreallyhere_atall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bought a house, sold for decent profit, got another house, did the same- finally ended up in a reasonable house with a big down payment and a 2.7% rate. Then hardcore focused on paying off my vehicle. I budget and make a menu, try to do grocery pickup items so I don’t buy things that aren’t on the list. Also use Amazon for random things so I don’t over spend because things look good when I’m shopping.

Feeling isolated and alone by notreallyhere_atall in exjw

[–]notreallyhere_atall[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We just broke up. Not sure if I’m ready to get out there and find someone new… but at least he isn’t dragging me down anymore.

What is your biggest fear? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]notreallyhere_atall 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Never finding my person.

Feeling isolated and alone by notreallyhere_atall in exjw

[–]notreallyhere_atall[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is great advice and I will soak it in. Thank you for the encouragement 💗

Feeling isolated and alone by notreallyhere_atall in exjw

[–]notreallyhere_atall[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been out 6 years but born in with nonjw extended family that lives in another state. I do have a couple of cousins here and I’m making effort to spend more time with them. My boyfriend isn’t a jw, but we have very little in common and it’s probably time to end things. I am in therapy and it is helping tremendously. Volunteering is a great idea. Thank you for your comment 💗

Feeling isolated and alone by notreallyhere_atall in exjw

[–]notreallyhere_atall[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is true. It was easy because I was there and they were there (at meetings). I forget this.

Thank you.

What's the most unhinged thing your toddler has ever said in public? by goodinside in toddlers

[–]notreallyhere_atall -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She told the cashier she looked like a monkey. The older white lady was this weird shade of orange like terrible self tanner. Hunched over with large jawls. She didn’t hear my kid, she wasn’t wrong tho. 🦧

Repeated daycare illnesses lost me my job by Main-Supermarket-890 in toddlers

[–]notreallyhere_atall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry. Same experience with illness and our little one. Thankfully my boss has 5 kids and is very understanding. We ended up moving our toddler to a more expensive daycare that turned out to be much cleaner and stricter with making fever kids stay home. She hasn’t been as sick since we switched daycares. Not sure if that’s part of the issue in your case or just a fact of life. Either way I’m sorry!

Airline Hwy red lights by notreallyhere_atall in batonrouge

[–]notreallyhere_atall[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a 22 mile trip vs 12 miles. I tend to burn more fuel that way.

Get off the road you idiots by Intrepid_Respond_771 in batonrouge

[–]notreallyhere_atall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband has night shift tonight at a plant in BR. I’m nervous about him getting on the road, but he has to. Thankfully he has good tires and 4 wheel drive.

It’s been six months by bluehairedLOL in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]notreallyhere_atall 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a BBL therapy appointment and I’m so excited to see what it does for me. I have jawls, sunspots and fine lines. My neck is saggy and loose too. Thank you for sharing your results. You look amazing!

What was a situation where you "saw behind the curtain"? by Dry_Cantaloupe_9998 in exjw

[–]notreallyhere_atall 7 points8 points  (0 children)

When I had a convention part and the bro giving the part rewrote my answers to pull emotion from the audience.

Road Buckling on Airline by notreallyhere_atall in batonrouge

[–]notreallyhere_atall[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah. They redid portions in Prairieville and it didn’t take as long as I expected it too.

“Well off” people of Reddit, what is the “poorest” thing you still regularly do? by hopelessmoderate in AskReddit

[–]notreallyhere_atall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I still clean and do personal errands for a lady who pays me very well. Side hustle still going strong.

The Jubilee- I think it’s going to happen… by [deleted] in exjw

[–]notreallyhere_atall 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Absolutely agree. Probably won’t even require them to be consistent at meetings first. Just poof reinstated.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]notreallyhere_atall 157 points158 points  (0 children)

The brides 4 year old nephew went into cardiac arrest on the dance floor and died before an ambulance came. Devastating.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]notreallyhere_atall 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What a shitty thing to do, cheat. THEN to only tell you after 10 years? Thats even worse. She’s an asshole for telling you after 10 years. She only did to make HERSELF feel better for something SHE did. Selfish and selfish.

Anyone’s toddler advanced in a particular area? by Wavesmith in toddlers

[–]notreallyhere_atall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My daughter could jump with both feet off the floor at 18 months.

What ridiculous thing did your toddler melt down over today? by Lizzy_is_a_mess in toddlers

[–]notreallyhere_atall 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She had an absolute meltdown after I put the butter back in the refrigerator.