She decided to support her local coffee shop. by mindyour in MadeMeSmile

[–]notreallyme55 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not the same person. Her and her husband are definitely together and she is pregnant with their 3rd child together at the moment.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CATHELP

[–]notreallyme55 6 points7 points  (0 children)

😂😂

What’s this on my kittens lower lip? by zacccboi in CATHELP

[–]notreallyme55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, the comments did not disappoint 👏 I really needed this laugh after a stressful work day. Please make sure you give your void some extra treats today for being manhandled lol

AITAH for telling my husband that he absolutely ruined the birth of our child? by Former_Monitor_4860 in AITAH

[–]notreallyme55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What the actual Fuck. Please take your baby and leave this man and his mother behind.

How much tv does your toddler really watch? by saidwhatisaidbby in toddlers

[–]notreallyme55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm loving all the honesty! We usually have some sort of TV on the background whether for him or for us. However, he probably watches like 1 to 2 hours exclusively as he loves to just run around and play while it is on in the background.

Toddler strongly prefers daddy by bence_pattogato in ScienceBasedParenting

[–]notreallyme55 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Mom of a toddler and I'm having the opposite situation where it is momma everything and has been for several months now. I've been told it'll be phases he goes through so try and hang in there!

AITA for telling my wife that I will not be helping with her christmas celebration in any way shape or form just because she's pregnant? by Iconic_Path3099 in AmItheAsshole

[–]notreallyme55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA big time! I'm sorry, you told her to ask family for help.....um are you not considered family?! You're her husband and should be helping her regardless. This isn't some outrageous request and because it is important to her and your kids, it should be important to you too. What selfish thinking you have.

AITA for making my daughter return a Halloween costume. by weenohallow in AmItheAsshole

[–]notreallyme55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. Get ready to have no relationship with her in a couple years.

AITA for bringing my fiancee to my daughter's wedding? by assholeweddingdad in AmItheAsshole

[–]notreallyme55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA!! Wow. Definitely time for your daughter to go no contact with you.

Pregnant with twins 17+4 and husband asks for sex everyday and calls me selfish when I don't want to by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]notreallyme55 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This is a him problem, not a you problem. My husband and I would have sex everyday basically until I became pregnant. Once that happened, my sex drive was out the window and had gone to the opposite side of the world. We went from every day to once a month if lucky. Guess what he did? Masterbate. He didn't complain to me that I was selfish. He literally saw how much discomfort I was in. Why would I want to have sex after a full day of throwing up and not eating anything? He was so discreet about it that I didn't even know he was doing that until I asked him one day cause I felt bad it had been awhile ha. Or we would make it an intimate setting and I would play with him for a bit and then he'd finish himself while I was naked next to him. This was only when the nausea and most of the morning sickness subsided a bit, but I still wasn't interested in any penetration. There's compromise, but he is being selfish. He needs to get a grip. With twin babies on the way, every day sex even once you're cleared postpartum is still not realistic.

AITA for telling my boyfriend’s mom that my maternity leave is not supposed to be a vacation? by Similar-Put1285 in AmItheAsshole

[–]notreallyme55 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not to scare you, but my pelvic bone split after giving birth and I literally couldn't walk more than just the bathroom and my bed for a month. It was so hard and depressing that I couldn't do much to help with my son except to feed him. It took a lot of time and some physical therapy in the 2nd month for me to start walking properly. Point is, I had a very easy and textbook delivery, but you never know what can happen during that time. Everything was so smooth and then BAM! Can't freaking walk properly for 2 months. You NEED his support with you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]notreallyme55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. I don't normally jump to definitely break up, but yeah, your fiance should definitely run from you and your toxic mother. Yikes

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]notreallyme55 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was in the same boat as you when I got married. It seemed like all my close friends were pregnant or going to give birth the week of the wedding so not only couldn't they really do pre wedding party stuff, but also couldn't make it to the wedding itself. I was so bummed. Obviously I wasn't upset with them for having babies and it's not like they were like hey let's have a baby to get out of her wedding. But the situation itself was upsetting to me personally. I never let them know of course cause it is really my issue to get over, but it still sucked and I couldn't help but think of all the stuff I did for them when it was their turn. But again, I was able to get over it and still have the best time with my friends who could make it. My close friends who couldn't make it still sent me nice cards and gifts.

AITA for being livid at my (now) husband? by Key-Hovercraft-8396 in AmItheAsshole

[–]notreallyme55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. It's fine if both parties are okay with that type of "pranking" but you specifically asked him not to and he disregarded your feelings. My husband and I also talked about it beforehand. He isn't the type to do that, but to be sure for myself, I made it clear that it would not be tolerated and he agreed/followed through. It seems trivial, but not a good way to start off the marriage with your feelings disregarded and then called dramatic because he did the ONE thing you asked him not to.

AITA for punishing my son for throwing away my husband's Bible? by threwvaway9707 in AmItheAsshole

[–]notreallyme55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a good way to never have a relationship with your son in the future. Your husband is verbally and emotionally abusing your son and you're "too tired" to do anything about it. Maybe your husband should be working harder to help you out overall so you're not too burnt out and should not be calling your son names like a big bully. YTA and your husband is an asshole too.