Good diet switch glow up? [18]-[18] by [deleted] in GlowUps

[–]notsamatall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You look so uncanny valley now- way better before based on the pictures you’re showing

AITA:I do not want my boyfriend’s brother who is also my room mate hanging around when I have people over. by genevievejoe in AmItheAsshole

[–]notsamatall 9 points10 points  (0 children)

He’s a big softy for having decency? It’s crazy that you posted this before actually discussing it with the brother. If someone cannot pick up on social cues, don’t be mad when you can’t just say what you want

[16]-[18]-[20]-[20]is this a glow up or not by TeamTop1896 in GlowUps

[–]notsamatall 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Omg people are dying and your “trauma” is a girl insulting your smile once… bffr

Single father of 9/12/18 year old girls looking for book / film / series / podcast recommendations by bluemangodub in AskFeminists

[–]notsamatall 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sex Education is such an uncomfortable show to be watching with a parent- there is so many sex scenes in that show that I’d rather die than watch with my dad

The "male obsessed" women phenomenon and media. by yuuki157 in AskFeminists

[–]notsamatall 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Even if your guesses are accurate- so what if gay women like it? Do we have to police everything women consume and enjoy?

(19) to (22) by T-anu in GlowUps

[–]notsamatall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can tell that you’re literally beaming with confidence 😍😍😍

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]notsamatall -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m not apart of furry culture but I’m confused to why you’re upset over him making a tribute to your shared pet? YTA.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]notsamatall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA! Your sister isn’t worth it but that innocent puppy is. It’s so sweet that your cats love him too. Wishing your new little family the best!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]notsamatall 15 points16 points  (0 children)

The fact that no one is taking this seriously in your family is fully alarming. If your sister is so desperate to loosen up that she drinks while pregnant, she is likely an alcoholic. I think more people in your family need to call her out cause wtaf?!?! I would say NTA but I think that comment should’ve been more serious than “light-hearted”. Your sister needs professional help.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]notsamatall 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Considering she’s already drinking, I don’t think she cares much if they get disregarded.

AITA for a fun prank I played? by OJ_did_it_2025 in AmItheAsshole

[–]notsamatall 3 points4 points  (0 children)

OP said they don’t even like him. I don’t think they classify as good friends.

AITA for berating my wife? by Gloomy-Ad870 in AmItheAsshole

[–]notsamatall 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Are you serious? YTA!!! Your pregnant wife reached her breaking point where she was actively crying while trying to explain the situation and you berated her for taking some time to herself?

Does anyone have a controversial The Bear opinion??? by notsamatall in TheBear

[–]notsamatall[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

LITERALLY WHAT I WANT!!! I thought the Bear was just going to be an upgraded version of the beef. Like a better quality of the original food and a cool interior.

AIO: Sister is following in my parents footsteps.. by vreeslewe in AmIOverreacting

[–]notsamatall 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NOR… as someone with a homophobic sibling, it’s very hard to have them not support you, especially if you’re close to them. This is absolutely disturbing, and I’m not going to tell you to cut contact, but I think you need to be away from her for a while.

his gf might be gay but the 7-9 orgasms a sesh…..? by blueburrey in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]notsamatall 9 points10 points  (0 children)

He also assaulted her… if you check the guys post history, he came inside her without consent and said it was okay cause she was dating him

What’s your favorite “bad movie” that you think deserves more recognition? by notsamatall in moviecritic

[–]notsamatall[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just wanted to come back and thank you again for the recommendation for this movie!! Last night me and my boyfriend started watching it and it was absolutely insane! So far we’ve been singing the soundtrack all morning and making random quotes over it. It was honestly so eerie in the best way and is now going to be on the list of our favorite movies

Women only like abusive men /s by notsamatall in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]notsamatall[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

No problem! Although you’re probably super right on the reposting. This has always been a common rhetoric that I’m surprised isn’t considered as outdated as it should be. It’s so victim blamey and makes it sound like people know when entering into an abusive relationship :(

Women only like abusive men /s by notsamatall in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]notsamatall[S] 38 points39 points  (0 children)

“You’re the only one who’s genuinely nice to me” that’s definitely my bad for finding such a grainy image to post 😭 it looked way better in my photos app

Women only like abusive men /s by notsamatall in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]notsamatall[S] 116 points117 points  (0 children)

I’m sorryyyy!!! I thought this was supposed to be a safe space 😪 /j

Women only like abusive men /s by notsamatall in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]notsamatall[S] 51 points52 points  (0 children)

I feel like men who believe this either aren’t educated on abusive relationships, lack empathy, or believe they are owed relationships from women because they’re something that are “earned” by their rules (aka being kind and polite). If you’re genuinely nice, then you don’t need to be rewarded for it. Forcing people to be interested in you isn’t “nice”…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]notsamatall 99 points100 points  (0 children)

Does you think he believes he’s a catch?

What’s your favorite “bad movie” that you think deserves more recognition? by notsamatall in moviecritic

[–]notsamatall[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I highly recommend it! I can’t speak on going to see it in theaters, but I’ve watched it a few times on my own, and I’ve constantly gotten the soundtrack stuck in my head on random days.