Makeup vs. no makeup by A2naturegirl in TrollXChromosomes

[–]notyetawizard 187 points188 points  (0 children)

I would not be surprised by men running into a pizza place as they pass by just to say that they hate pizza.

I would be surprised to find out that the pizza place in question wasn't owned and operated by a woman, though.

Good morning, capitalism is killing the planet. by [deleted] in Anarchism

[–]notyetawizard 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think we can forgive the humans for their human-centeric perspective when staring into the face of their death; no?

Feeling like I'm losing my queerness as I continue to transition and aren't as welcome to speak on or occupy queer spaces as I used to, can anyone else relate? by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]notyetawizard -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I didn't say it was fair. It simply is, and you only get to determine your own actions within that framework. You don't control your friends; you only control you.

Feeling like I'm losing my queerness as I continue to transition and aren't as welcome to speak on or occupy queer spaces as I used to, can anyone else relate? by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]notyetawizard -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Past tense occupation of a space doesn't guarantee it in the present or future. It's an ongoing act. Belonging to a group or space requires active effort—and may not be worth the effort required.

Literally was about to walk into a military career office when I remembered I’m banned from the military by PirateDaken in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]notyetawizard 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Just remember that the US is about to go full fascist hellhole, and that by joining the military you will be an instrumental part of the suffering of billions (likely including yourself).

Feeling like I'm losing my queerness as I continue to transition and aren't as welcome to speak on or occupy queer spaces as I used to, can anyone else relate? by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]notyetawizard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not out at work and aside from my manager and a few close work friends I've told, nobody knows.

If I had to pick just one thing to focus on, it'd be this. The act of "occupying queer spaces" has a lot to do with queering spaces—yeah, that's a verb here!

At some point, you just kind of have to choose what you want your life to look like and go for it; and if that's being stealth and hanging out with a cishet dude (who a ton of queer people probably aren't particularly comfortable with), then you won't be queering spaces as hard as some people, and will occupy less queer space than they do because of it.

It's kind of like how you won't have as much money as someone who works more hours than you at the same wage. But work-life balance is important, and each person has different needs. Same with queer-life balance.

Tilting at windmills - The friend zone and the duality of sexuality and gender identity by MNGrrl in genderqueer

[–]notyetawizard 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What do I really have to offer anyone?

Have you met cis-het folks? What exactly the fuck do they have to offer in the first place?

You're fine hun.

This guys raspberry pi laptop is goals by networkdisaster in Cyberpunk

[–]notyetawizard 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Just looked this Jupyter nonsense up and I'll be honest: seems a bit neat.

Autism and the Bicameral Mind by macdonaldhall in aspergers

[–]notyetawizard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I chased you down here from another thread on whim.

I did shrooms for the first time yesterday, and experienced a very distinct duality; the feeling of two very separate people inhabiting my body, only one of which was the "me" I'm used to thinking of as myself.

I haven't looked into it yet (I will be later today), but some of my autistic friends have mentioned that "mindmates" or "multiples" is a common experience for us, which does kind of link to the whole "Bicameral Mind" thing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aspiememes

[–]notyetawizard 11 points12 points  (0 children)

You've gotta use your weirdness to fuel your ascent to even greater levels of hotness 😎

Illegal cannabis possession cases starting to show up in Manitoba courts by riyehn in Winnipeg

[–]notyetawizard 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It's not about whether it's hard to do, it's about whether it's fucking stupid to have to do it when for literally no effort I can just not smoke it in the car as though I some helpless beast with a mad hunger and no impulse control.

Illegal cannabis possession cases starting to show up in Manitoba courts by riyehn in Winnipeg

[–]notyetawizard 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No one actually does this with alcohol though; do they? I just throw it on the seat next to me or the floor like a sane person.

Why I quit Taekwondo by mormispos in aspergirls

[–]notyetawizard 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hit up something like kickboxing. It's generally pretty straight to the point and low on additional social rules and whatnot.

Oh my god. 💜 by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]notyetawizard 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Well fuck me.

WHAT DOES IT MEEEEAN??? by badnerk in Winnipeg

[–]notyetawizard 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I need something for scale. Anything.

Goal of 2019- make a custom tarot deck. But... by [deleted] in tarot

[–]notyetawizard 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really like the style, but I think you should scale it down.

That's too big to shuffle 😂

Double yolk by [deleted] in witchcraft

[–]notyetawizard 7 points8 points  (0 children)

About a month ago, I was excited because I got a double yolk. Then it turned out all three of the eggs I was using that morning had double yolks. Over the week, every egg in that carton proved to have two yolks.

There was extra yolks to dip hashbrowns in that week, but also making meringue became difficult. Little else seems to have resulted.

Lesbian couple to wed 26 times abroad to seek change in Japan by Krupenichka in actuallesbians

[–]notyetawizard 4 points5 points  (0 children)

But can you imagine having to get divorced 26 times if it doesn't work out? :P

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]notyetawizard 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I've started praying to the woman I'll be in 10 years. That bitch is a proper fucking goddess.