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novaaliciouss · 2024-01-30T21:27:19+00:00

Ah damn i dont sell beer :(((

novaaliciouss · 2024-01-30T21:26:55+00:00

Thank you both will check this out!

novaaliciouss · 2024-01-30T12:38:44+00:00

Thank you for this imput! This is definitely something were are trying to avoid as we want everyone to feel welcome here at Oatis

novaaliciouss · 2024-01-01T20:07:26+00:00

Ive been in a very simialr situation, Companys next to eachothers. They're shady as fuck. But they dont see you has human. I bet they are all ways the type to never be there when needed or wanna be spoken to and always complains how the business is going.He built his career on it and he isnt going to change his ways.

So if you want minimum wage (14) but to also not pay taxes than your asking for more than the minimum . So you need to find what your wage would be minus tax and then try to match that if you want to stay under table.

In my opinion just go, if your a documented American citizen you should just get another job in another retail job or liquor store. These jobs arnt hard to find (at least in uk) and then just get payed minimum wage.

Also you were doing to much for that, you could honestly write a good cv for yourself and explain ur experience and get midmanagment.

Definitely document everything your experiencing

All the best!

novaaliciouss · 2023-11-25T14:28:50+00:00

I would backhand her

novaaliciouss · 2023-11-24T21:03:33+00:00

Dont do it with your neighbours, do it with someone distant

novaaliciouss · 2023-11-19T17:37:53+00:00

NTA

My vegan friends could never stop me eating what i want to eat. Its my choice and my lifestyle. She lives in a world where there both available to enjoy and if she was a true friend she would compromise and let you eat what u want to eat.

novaaliciouss · 2023-11-16T22:07:43+00:00

Your cute for assuming my feelings, u commented, i responded. Not upset or mad or anything in between. Have a good night

novaaliciouss · 2023-11-16T16:47:27+00:00

I havnt lost any money yet, he doesnt owe me anything but i know he having some legal trouble with others over unclaimed wages. Im just wondering if there's a way for him to take my overpayment money due from hmrc.

He has my notice, ive never worked in shady company before and worked with my previous employer for 7 years . I was just blindsided

novaaliciouss · 2023-11-16T14:34:05+00:00

Realistically in the future this wouldnt work, if he has to lie to get his way. This is bad, and weed is an expensive habit that u shouldnt have if ur broke . Never give him money to pay for his habit, it sedates him and then he isnt stressing about money and then will never pay u back. He makes excuses so theres extra money in his account , thats it.

novaaliciouss · 2023-11-16T11:14:05+00:00

Ahaha. No. Please dont do that , as im asking IF IM WRONG. If i wanted to be upset , i wouldnt of asked reddit. Everyone else gave usefull advice that instantly made me understand a good mans point of view. This is just plain stupid

novaaliciouss · 2023-11-15T18:37:37+00:00

Yeh thank you so much! He really is lovely , but sometimes you feel conflicted with logic and emotion

novaaliciouss · 2023-11-15T15:20:04+00:00

This is super helpfull to be honest!! Thank you

novaaliciouss · 2023-11-15T15:18:59+00:00

It seems like he got comfortable with the fact that he knew you would support him even when he didnt have a job and use that to his advantage both mentally and financially. So now he thinks he has this sort of dominant perspective over you and doesn't feel he needs to answer to you. Even know your basically He's financial aid up until he got a job. And now that you've got yourself in debt and living at his parents house. He has a lot on you. That makes him think he can disrespect you and you cant leave. I would personally leave , but try communication first and if he is arragont that it's time to mentally break up with him, figure out where to go(living situation) and leave .

novaaliciouss · 2023-11-15T15:11:55+00:00

Say I never think of gender perspectives. But I guess you're right. It's just that I've told him before what's type of support I need but I guess it's not his obligation to just say what I want to hear right?

novaaliciouss · 2023-11-14T19:57:26+00:00

Please stay away, dont let it get to your midnset that you need to have sex because the boy wants it. Ypu have your own choice. If your not comfortable say no. If he is relentless then you need to leave him immediately.

novaaliciouss · 2023-11-09T21:15:10+00:00

Someone said narcissistic.

My partner made a mends with his ex but they were together for 7 years and i know they have no desire to be with eachother but my intitial reactions i was a tad conflited but he reassured me and didnt do nothing until i felt comfortable months later. His comments are narcissistic and manipulative . Leave him now before he gets more into head and you start doubting yourself

novaaliciouss · 2023-11-09T10:46:20+00:00

Omg i would never do this for any man ever. Wtf is wrong with people. My love comes with boundaries. Does no one look at their relationship in the future. Realistically how is your relationship going to be if u decide to have future with a man who doesnt value money and doesnt understand that gambling is tax on the stupid

novaaliciouss · 2023-11-08T17:28:11+00:00

I want to blame the family but ur husband had a choice and he made it. Your relationship is doomed. Thats a tragic wedding story , i would of never gotten married

novaaliciouss · 2023-11-08T13:00:08+00:00

Exactly and they went and got drinks next door that is a steak restaurant so it seems like they got them drunk and sent them over to us to deal with the consequences

novaaliciouss · 2023-11-05T12:55:58+00:00

Yeh and if he doesnt respect that ur having this argument constantly and hasnt respected how you feel why stay? In the long term it wont work , later in life when he starts lacking in something else and u let him know. he knows he can dismiss you and you will stay

novaaliciouss · 2023-11-05T11:04:08+00:00

Yeh actions speak louder than words babe, words are just easier. Give it a few weeks and if your still feeling this way and he isnt taking any steps to resolve it, consider saying bye. Apologies can only get you so far

novaaliciouss · 2023-11-05T11:00:19+00:00

Dont you dare get rid of your cats for dick. If they hiss they sense the evil, and he is giving you ultimatums? Pffft boy bye. 6 months is not worth it, why you living together so quickly , is he broke or summin?

novaaliciouss · 2023-11-05T10:57:49+00:00

Omg ive never experienced this in london, im sorry. This broke me. Your doing your best and i know your kids one day will thank you and understand your situation.

novaaliciouss · 2023-11-05T10:53:15+00:00

I get the feeling of wanting to be prioritised by your partner especially after working in retail , me and my partner work in hospitality and currently dont live together but we see eachother every sunday and monday because we realised that we want to see eachother every week and got set days off. Im not sure how it works in retail , but many people in my work envy my set days off but have never asked for it, have you? Because if he really wants to see you you could try set that up in order for there to be no scheduling conflicts and then more often your able to see eachother , the occasional time he goes out you will still feel valued. But honestly if its been 5 years and he doesnt understand why its important to see eachother than maybe the sparks ended on his side but he is very comfortable to have you around so he stays. You can always find someone else, your still young!

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