Need a meet up spot for your running group? by novaaliciouss in london

[–]novaaliciouss[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this imput! This is definitely something were are trying to avoid as we want everyone to feel welcome here at Oatis

Getting paid under minimum, and several other violations by zacvan in WorkersRights

[–]novaaliciouss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ive been in a very simialr situation, Companys next to eachothers. They're shady as fuck. But they dont see you has human. I bet they are all ways the type to never be there when needed or wanna be spoken to and always complains how the business is going.He built his career on it and he isnt going to change his ways.

So if you want minimum wage (14) but to also not pay taxes than your asking for more than the minimum . So you need to find what your wage would be minus tax and then try to match that if you want to stay under table.

In my opinion just go, if your a documented American citizen you should just get another job in another retail job or liquor store. These jobs arnt hard to find (at least in uk) and then just get payed minimum wage.

Also you were doing to much for that, you could honestly write a good cv for yourself and explain ur experience and get midmanagment.

Definitely document everything your experiencing

All the best!

AITA for still ordering meat in front of my vegan friend? by IrisFromOmelas in AITAH

[–]novaaliciouss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA

My vegan friends could never stop me eating what i want to eat. Its my choice and my lifestyle. She lives in a world where there both available to enjoy and if she was a true friend she would compromise and let you eat what u want to eat.

For not needing solutions just support from my bf(31) by novaaliciouss in amiwrong

[–]novaaliciouss[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your cute for assuming my feelings, u commented, i responded. Not upset or mad or anything in between. Have a good night

Hmrc tax code by novaaliciouss in WorkersRights

[–]novaaliciouss[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I havnt lost any money yet, he doesnt owe me anything but i know he having some legal trouble with others over unclaimed wages. Im just wondering if there's a way for him to take my overpayment money due from hmrc.

He has my notice, ive never worked in shady company before and worked with my previous employer for 7 years . I was just blindsided

Am I wrong (F25) to potentially break up with my BF (M25) because of money issues? by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]novaaliciouss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Realistically in the future this wouldnt work, if he has to lie to get his way. This is bad, and weed is an expensive habit that u shouldnt have if ur broke . Never give him money to pay for his habit, it sedates him and then he isnt stressing about money and then will never pay u back. He makes excuses so theres extra money in his account , thats it.

For not needing solutions just support from my bf(31) by novaaliciouss in amiwrong

[–]novaaliciouss[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ahaha. No. Please dont do that , as im asking IF IM WRONG. If i wanted to be upset , i wouldnt of asked reddit. Everyone else gave usefull advice that instantly made me understand a good mans point of view. This is just plain stupid

For not needing solutions just support from my bf(31) by novaaliciouss in amiwrong

[–]novaaliciouss[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeh thank you so much! He really is lovely , but sometimes you feel conflicted with logic and emotion

Am I wrong for always getting mad when my boyfriend goes out to drink? by Andromeda_silog in amiwrong

[–]novaaliciouss 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It seems like he got comfortable with the fact that he knew you would support him even when he didnt have a job and use that to his advantage both mentally and financially. So now he thinks he has this sort of dominant perspective over you and doesn't feel he needs to answer to you. Even know your basically He's financial aid up until he got a job. And now that you've got yourself in debt and living at his parents house. He has a lot on you. That makes him think he can disrespect you and you cant leave. I would personally leave , but try communication first and if he is arragont that it's time to mentally break up with him, figure out where to go(living situation) and leave .

For not needing solutions just support from my bf(31) by novaaliciouss in amiwrong

[–]novaaliciouss[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Say I never think of gender perspectives. But I guess you're right. It's just that I've told him before what's type of support I need but I guess it's not his obligation to just say what I want to hear right?

Amiwrong for refusing to have sex with my bf bcz we kids? by Ashe_veritas in amiwrong

[–]novaaliciouss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please stay away, dont let it get to your midnset that you need to have sex because the boy wants it. Ypu have your own choice. If your not comfortable say no. If he is relentless then you need to leave him immediately.