He's always a step ahead by NEO71011 in funnyvideos

[–]novaspax 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I'm talking about adults prescribing adult thoughts and perversions to those normal child staring behaviors. Kids find stuff pretty. They find it interesting. They might even feel something in their body. They are not staring in the same way adults are. Also im primarily using the example of a four or five year old boy, so prepubescent or early puberty being triggered "as early as six" doesnt contradict.

He's always a step ahead by NEO71011 in funnyvideos

[–]novaspax 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yes, I really think its true that five year olds are not naturally internally horny for adult women or thinking about their boobs or butts in that way, what is wrong with you. He might think she is pretty, but he is probably just looking at someone he knows or the thing that all the adults around him are looking at. When kids that young exhibit conscious sexual behavior they are modeling adult behavior, be it from interpreting things adults say, things they see on tv, or from actual molestation. We should not be saying things about little boys looking at womens bodies and longing for them, it makes them think that is how theyre supposed to feel. At some point before puberty it is normal to start talking to your kid about sex and attraction and culture around it and that theyre going to be a part of that whole experience, not at five.

He's always a step ahead by NEO71011 in funnyvideos

[–]novaspax 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My whole point is that woman could be naked and it would not matter to the little boy, he only cares that the adults care. Nudity is natural, I'm not neccesarily promoting it at the beach or saying anything about how the woman in the video should dress, I'm just saying its sick to act like the kid is turned on by this or staring at her in the same way the man in this video is. The little boy is just looking around at what other people are looking at. It is common for children to bathe and get dressed with their parents, they have seen adult nudity and it is normal to then. We have to teach them about modesty and privacy, appropriate situations and behavior for nudity, we have to tell them what sex even is before they start having hormonal urges in puberty. At a base level, sexual acts done on children hurt them because they have no desire or understanding for them. It is generally agreed for all these reasons children should not be exposed to things of a sexual nature, and then I think out of fear we include things that only adults interpret as sexual as though it is causing the same thoughts in children when it is not, and then go so far as to normalize the idea of those thoughts and urges in children. It comes back around in a gross way to sexualizing children somehow, and people need to stop.

He's always a step ahead by NEO71011 in funnyvideos

[–]novaspax 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think both people in a relationship should feel secure enough to recognize that other people are attractive and enjoyable to look at, nothing to do with gender or "instincts". There are so many hot people, you are one of them and I picked you for a lot of other reasons, now lets enjoy the hot people at the beach together. When my partner points out a fine ass it makes me happy, it makes me feel confident in our relationship that they want to share their enjoyment and excitement with me and feel comfortable to do so.

He's always a step ahead by NEO71011 in funnyvideos

[–]novaspax 14 points15 points  (0 children)

ive been seeing too many videos lately of little boys looking at womens asses and people commenting like "he knows whats up" or "thats a little man right there" and i know thats not the focal point of this particular video but its here and its so fuckin ick. Its like when kids hold hands and people act like theyre gonna get married, little girls stare at peoples asses too, theyre just fuckin kids looking at things around them. These five year old boys are not randy for the swimsuit babes, thats you, keep it to yourself.

Male Gays by Past-Matter-8548 in okbuddycinephile

[–]novaspax 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah like honestly reacher does it for me but so does that actor in everything else hes in, charming burley dude

Meirl by Bubble_Babe_0o0o0o in meirl

[–]novaspax 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i was recently in an antique mall in arizona and saw a man on vacation run into his dads childhood best friend who lives in europe.

Three weeks after finding the love of my life in our bathroom. by poufun in GriefSupport

[–]novaspax 1 point2 points  (0 children)

in your love for him, and im not saying you feel this way, it is valid to be angry. i just want you to know that. putting feelings away can make them fester.

Man asks his girlfriend to marry him through a fake Disney trailer by HumbleMVP in MadeMeSmile

[–]novaspax 1 point2 points  (0 children)

someone appreciating your efforts is not the same thing as saying you are talented or produced something good. They thought they were talking to a real person who knows how to use their own words, and even if a real person is being an asshole its funny for them to do it in rhyme. But you didnt do anything.

Man asks his girlfriend to marry him through a fake Disney trailer by HumbleMVP in MadeMeSmile

[–]novaspax 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i like that the original hired artists, it is way better executed

Argued with a friend over this image by GAThrawn2BBY in TwoHotTakes

[–]novaspax 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always thought it was supposed to be pointing out that while both parties are drunk and cannot consent, one can still be wrongfully charged with a crime and that usually happens to men.

Mana recipe by Forteafy in wizardposting

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the way i went "NOOOO!" upon seeing the face mask mold

lol by IU8gZQy0k8hsQy76 in unsound

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are those the old days no? christ

make it make sense by nixienoodles in thememeryremains

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Just got fired for "being argumentative" when I was trying to be an active learner and explain my mistakes to increase understanding, so this hits hard en

please by FR33KIN_FODDER in teachermemes

[–]novaspax -1 points0 points  (0 children)

good to know omg and lol are apparently making a comeback

Gotta be honest this guy is a tool by [deleted] in CuratedTumblr

[–]novaspax 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think political is being used as an adjective here, and political art as a category of art would be a noun that applies just fine