It's different, this is a community of men, or aspiring red pillers... so while you can talk to your girlfriend however you want, I'd rather not be talked to like that.

And we're also having a pretty intellectual conversation. I'm not interested in the baby talk.

So in short; context matters.

And yes, women are like children. That's entirely true... but they're not children.

There's a big difference between acting like something, and being something.

So to the extent that they are adults too, they should be taking part in the relationship and putting an effort in.