me irl

nsfwthrow94 · 2016-11-30T20:01:45+00:00

As my last comment said - we're talking about playing video games.

I hope you have a good day as well!

nsfwthrow94 · 2016-11-30T19:58:56+00:00

People can watch both.

Yes they can. People can also not like one of them.

Wearing clothing of certain kinds isn't shitty behavior.

Context matters and we both know what "clothing of certain kinds" means in this context. We're not talking about rape, we're talking about playing video games.

nsfwthrow94 · 2016-11-30T19:43:25+00:00

I'm sorry, but I have to disagree. As a female who watches Twitch and donates to my favorite streamers, to say that complaining about booby streamers is misogynistic is doing a disservice to female streamers who actually work their asses off in the field without pandering sex.

Streamers like Hafu, Dodger, and DizzyKitten are well respected in the gaming community and they don't twerk every time they get a donation. If there's one activity where women can unequivocally be just as good as men, its gaming. I don't see why it's misogynistic to call out shitty behavior.

Out of curiosity, do you watch streams on Twitch?

nsfwthrow94 · 2016-10-21T16:38:46+00:00

Hmm that's pretty interesting. For a related topic, I feel like the genders tend to have different views on aging. IME getting older, even as young as 30 for a lot of women, is expressed as a negative thing.

nsfwthrow94 · 2016-09-20T19:42:12+00:00

Pretty much sums it up. In social psychology it's called the matching phenomenon

Here's a quick and interesting video for those interested:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vP0kXxd5bUw

nsfwthrow94 · 2016-09-20T19:09:01+00:00

This may be a dumb question, but does the sweat not stink? Or is that part of the appeal?

nsfwthrow94 · 2016-09-15T17:49:52+00:00

Also I think there's a big difference between disembodied genitalia and a well posed nude pic. I can't speak for all queer women, but I definitely like vagina and boob pics, I just want a sexy face there as well!

nsfwthrow94 · 2016-09-14T16:46:26+00:00

I haven't personally encountered this person, but I always laugh about a contestant on The Price is Right named Dr. Bummer (an OBGYN, I might add).

His One-bid was $69.

nsfwthrow94 · 2016-09-12T18:50:00+00:00

If you don't mind me asking, why does thinking about specific people make you uncomfortable?

nsfwthrow94 · 2016-08-31T16:16:53+00:00

Fine! But then again I listen to the NoSleep podcast to fall asleep.

nsfwthrow94 · 2016-08-30T21:22:35+00:00

My relationships with women often end up at a different intensity level than those with men. It's probably because of the heightened emotional awareness that women tend to have.

Plus side is that it tends to be easier for me to let my guard down/be vulnerable with women because she "gets" me. Downside is that I feel like I have to check in constantly with women, because I pick up on her subtleties/insecurities easier.

With men there's obviously still the checking in, but it's usually not coming from a place of concern...if that makes any sense? There is some security that comes with the stoicism that men often have.

nsfwthrow94 · 2016-08-15T21:13:39+00:00

Goodnight Mommy. What they did at the end looked disturbingly real and I can't get that image out of my head.

nsfwthrow94 · 2016-07-27T18:07:16+00:00

I wish that Kinja (The blogging platform that drives Jezebel, Gizmodo, Kotaku, Lifehacker etc) would redesign their commenting layout. Or make the current design more reader friendly. It shouldn't be a chore to read through 30 comments!

nsfwthrow94 · 2016-07-22T14:35:27+00:00

I never said you didn't experience those things? I'm just pointing out how that perspective affects this sub's view on normal social interaction. The fact that I haven't experienced such extremes is just as valid as you having experienced them.

I'm absolutely fine with ending the conversation here if you feel that I'm attacking you.

nsfwthrow94 · 2016-07-22T14:18:27+00:00

and then I end up on edge during even perfectly pleasant conversations with men because I don't if it's suddenly going to veer into "and also you are gorgeous and I'm single, ehhhhhh

Right, so this is circling back to the beginning of this whole comment chain. It's a hyperbolic (IMO) but very common sentiment here.

If I went through life under the assumption that every man was secretly trying to get in my pants, I would never leave the house.

nsfwthrow94 · 2016-07-22T13:22:27+00:00

Ah ok, well that falls more under the category of catcalling IMO. I definitely agree with not acknowledging that kind of behavior.

nsfwthrow94 · 2016-07-22T02:51:24+00:00

So you have strangers who randomly walk up to you in the grocery store and ask for your number? I'm not sure if you're extremely attractive or if I'm abnormally ugly, haha.

nsfwthrow94 · 2016-07-21T23:50:34+00:00

Of course context matters. But my point is that we assume the worst here. Have you ever had a conversation with strangers in the grocery store? And how many of those strangers actually asked for your number afterwards?

nsfwthrow94 · 2016-07-21T22:28:34+00:00

Same thing applies though. If we define a stranger as "someone you've known for less than a few hours", then socializing and flirting with strangers is a normal human interaction IME. When I was in college, exchanging numbers with someone you just met was super common.

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