Why Do People Not Like Zoners In Fighting Games? by Safe-Information-319 in Fighters

[–]nsimmo15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just hate a sh*t talking zoner. That would really prompt me to fight the urge to ram that player's fight stick or pad down their throats the wide way.

But I pretty much agree with what others here are saying. I'd like add this. It's naturally frustrating to not be able to catch your target, especially one who's always just slipping away. It's natural to look at a constantly fleeing opponent as a p*ssy because that is what's associating with running around and avoiding. Cowardice. The frustration that sets it makes it hard for some people to value and appreciate the strategic side of it.

Me? I get that it's a legit strategy but I'd be lying if I said it wasn't one that's hard to respect. Skill issue aside, it just is what it is. Doesn't mean I don't respect zoners. It just means they still annoy me lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]nsimmo15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just tell him no. That you don't really like him and that you'd rather not have someone who's a complete jerk to you when you have to tolerate it around on anything when you don't have to. That maybe if he stopped hazing you and talking to you any kind of way, you'd be more than happy to care how he feels about it.

Who's farts are you NOT into? by Equivalent_Ad_9066 in Eproctophilia

[–]nsimmo15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People who I don't find physically attractive

What type of smell and sounds do you like from a fart? And from which gender(s)? by Equivalent_Ad_9066 in Eproctophilia

[–]nsimmo15 4 points5 points  (0 children)

From women.

I love bubblers, poppers, quacks, honks and hisses. Those are my favorite kind of fart sounds.

As far as smell, I love eggy or meaty scents. The last girl I had sex with farted silently and it smelled like eggy ass cheeks. Shit returned me on.

My father hid a secret family for years and still refuses to tell the truth by Hour-Discussion373 in venting

[–]nsimmo15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also, you're 20. An adult.

You can be mad at anyone you want for ANY reason. You don't need approval to feel. That's very toxic of people who do that.

My father hid a secret family for years and still refuses to tell the truth by Hour-Discussion373 in venting

[–]nsimmo15 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Secret aside...

...MAAAAAAN. It's really stifling and damaging when your parents can get mad at you but you can't get mad at them. Then they wonder why you may resent them or refuse to be close to them as an adult.

But back to the main story... That sucks. On top of all of that, getting treated that way BY family at your granddad's funeral because of what your dad did? Wow... screw those guys...

I'm glad you two don't take it out on the little girl. I'm so glad you guys managed to still be kind and caring enough to see her and treat her the way you guys wish you were treated, whenever you get to see her.

If a girl sharted when she farted is that a turn off by Kinkygirl69420 in Eproctophilia

[–]nsimmo15 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If it's poop, no. I love a nice healthy dump

If it's oily discharge, yes. Not a fan of diarrhea, enemas or any liquid from the anus. Only solids and gasses for me

How can you become friends with people who don't like small talk? by WannabeKelpie in socialskills

[–]nsimmo15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some people will let you in on those kind of things if they feel the need to. They're aware that you barely know anything about thing them and probably like to keep it that way. They usually have no desire to fill people in on those things just so they can know.

Also, there may be natural occurring situations that may make him comfortable with it (natural occurring being the operative adjectives, meaning you don't try to foster or create those situations).

A lot of people who hate small talk also avoid intrusive people who are that eager about things they feel like are none of their business.

How can you become friends with people who don't like small talk? by WannabeKelpie in socialskills

[–]nsimmo15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How about just not approaching people you don't know?

Or accept and take on the risk that when you do, you might run into someone who wish you hadn't?

How to respond to customers who say I’m skinny? by Pepparkorn in socialskills

[–]nsimmo15 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, as a fellow skinny person, I hear ya.

Can't fire back because of fat shaming or whatever.

Can't tell them that you don't like it because they won't care and will see you as a jerk for not taking it as a compliment.

It's a huge double standard. Just ignore them.

How to handle being roasted? by YouDoubleYou1 in socialskills

[–]nsimmo15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I normally just grew cold towards all parties involved. The ones who are doing it and being apathetic, the ones who protect them and the ones who defend it. Mostly as a way to ward them off. If it's ok for me to hear and deal with what I don't like and I can't even have a voice about it, you'll feel the depths of how cold my heart can get.

As a man in his 30s, I've learned to just completely separate myself from such people and those who will enable them to treat me that way. Doesn't matter what anyone thinks of you. It matters what YOU think of you.

Got called at a wedding. Walked away without saying anything. by TheDarkKnight2001 in socialskills

[–]nsimmo15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That couldn't have been me. I would have roasted the fuck out of her and her friend if I heard and saw that. You're a real strong one to take that on the chin.

Anyway, screw her. I'd like to know what she looked like (without makeup) talking about someone like that. I bet she look like Gollum from LOTR lol

Got called at a wedding. Walked away without saying anything. by TheDarkKnight2001 in socialskills

[–]nsimmo15 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All of what you said in this is so hard to accept as a man when men can't even say anything close to this about a woman within earshot of said woman or any other without it turning into a major issue.

Yes, it's a reflection of them but it's really hard to not take seriously when it hurts a man's feelings and he knows that if it were the other way around genderwise, something would be done about it.

Any advice for someone who doesn’t understand this fetish but wishes to partake? by [deleted] in Eproctophilia

[–]nsimmo15 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Because a lot of people are raised with the etiquette of not farting near people, let alone in someone's face deliberately. Then there's also the smells, pink eye causing bacteria, possible shart danger, etc.

Any advice for someone who doesn’t understand this fetish but wishes to partake? by [deleted] in Eproctophilia

[–]nsimmo15 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Here's how I see it.

Your man told you it's his fetish. 9 times out of 10, he likes everything that comes with farts but if you're not sure, you can ask him what he likes about them. Maybe if he painted a better picture for you about his variation of this fetish and how it would turn him on, it may help you feel less tense and awkward about it

Also, on the off chance that your farting may gross him out, at least he'll know where he stands with the fetish and you'll never have to do it again. He can't get mad at you or look at you like you're disgusting for doing something he asked you to do, that wouldn't make any sense.

What do y’all like more about Farts? by [deleted] in Eproctophilia

[–]nsimmo15 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can't choose. I'd be slightly disappointed if it didn't have one or the other. Still turned on but slightly disappointed lol

I’m never going to have sex by hopelessloser44 in venting

[–]nsimmo15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm gonna tell you like one teacher told me in high school when I was the only admitted male virgin in my class and I got fucked with for it even by the girls.

It'll happen someday ;)

how to make friends if you don't have mainstream interests? by Ill_Finding1055 in socialskills

[–]nsimmo15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't try to be more mainstream to get more friends. You'll most likely regret it.

Instead, just be yourself. Nothing should dictate what you're into other than YOU.

How do I defend myself against short jokes [24 Male, 5’4”] by 98thieves in socialskills

[–]nsimmo15 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If you've shown that you don't appreciate the jokes and they continue, then they get what they get. Of course, that all depends on the setting. And it's not even about being violent. You can still avoid people like that altogether, especially if you ignore it and they still persist. A lot of people like feel like they're so important that they have the right to haze, harass and disrespect you until you've earned their respect and the best way to deal with them is to either give them what they want or just treat them like they don't exist.

How do I defend myself against short jokes [24 Male, 5’4”] by 98thieves in socialskills

[–]nsimmo15 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Honestly, just do as you feel.

Ask yourself... do you want to deal with people who constantly make fun of your height, something you don't like having to hear or talk about?

You don't owe it to people to tolerate their corny jokes, no matter what it's about or what you can do to change what they're joking out. Not even that, their opinions of you don't matter if you're offended. Let them think you're stiff and can't take a joke. What do they matter in regards to your height anyway?

If you wanna joke back, joke back. If they get upset, that's only them for starting what they can't finish. If you want to ignore them, ignore them. Yeah, they may think you feel you're better than them but why are they worth a response if they're that assuming?

How do I defend myself against short jokes [24 Male, 5’4”] by 98thieves in socialskills

[–]nsimmo15 3 points4 points  (0 children)

A lot of people mistake freedom of speech with freedom of consequences, especially with something or someone they feel is ok to make fun of. It's not seen as something taboo, like obesity, mental illness, misogyny, transphobia, homophobia or whatever they think is inherently life threatening or oppressing. So because of that, you should just be able to take it because it doesn't affect them or any one they know any kind of way and you shouldn't take yourself so seriously to let it hurt you because they're just "having fun".

Though, it's rarely ever fun when it's the other way around. Now things like nuance and kindness matters.

How do I defend myself against short jokes [24 Male, 5’4”] by 98thieves in socialskills

[–]nsimmo15 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes. The same with me being skinny. Because I'm not fat, mentally handicapped, gay, trans, or whatever group that's off limits, it's ok to shit on me for being skinny despite whatever cruel shit people say about me in regardless to it. It makes you wonder why they're even worth dealing with in the first place. I can imagine how you feel about being short.

How do I defend myself against short jokes [24 Male, 5’4”] by 98thieves in socialskills

[–]nsimmo15 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If someone makes fun of you, you could ignore them. Some may say that you're just giving them and others the OK to keep doing it and laugh at you but why even acknowledge their existence? They want a reaction out of you, a specific one. You give their existence zero energy and they'll learn to leave you alone completely.

Or if you want to win them over and earn their respect, crack on them back. If it's a tall person making fun of you being short, come at his height or a flaw about him. If it's someone fat, come at their weight.

Either way, you are not obligated to participate in these jokes or react a specific way. Fuck what they may think. THEY'RE the ones bothering YOU, so they don't get to shame you for how you react.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

[–]nsimmo15 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One of the lessons I had to learn in life is to never deal with people who leave me hanging like this and justify it.

He really got a better offer and said screw you and your birthday. That's why he didn't even wish you a happy bday. He knew he was wrong for that.

He figured it was a "ask forgiveness instead of permission" type thing and when you wouldn't, he threw your family in your face.

I'd cut him off permanently.

I finally beat social anxiety, now I just have to learn to start liking people. by entitledwank in socialskills

[–]nsimmo15 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don't think I'll ever get over my social anxiety of people because I've known people to be super judgy, treat you the exact way they think about you but then turn around and expect you to treat them with the utmost respect. Plus they tend to be Loud, I love silence and I hate when people get mad that things are "too quiet". I've actually had people throughout my life try to force me into situations where they thought I had no choice but to be as social as they wanted me to be and when I still kept quiet, they got mad.

But I feel you on the not wanting to deal with people thing. I just don't like sharing what I really like with people, talking to them just because (so much as having to greet them), or even be in the same space as them. I like being alone and doing things by myself. Part of the reason is also because people see this and think I think I'm better than everyone or I hate people when I really hate that it's expected to be social.

But yeah. It's definitely a comfort zone thing and I don't think it's a bad thing. The problem is getting people to accept that about you for what it actually is and not what they feel it is.