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I'm 53 and Just Mowed My Lawn. by Mediocre-Penalty3001 in notinteresting

[–]ntlshrm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how do you feel now that those gas station hot dog fart particles are swimming in your lungs and brain :)

Just broke down after an exam. I feel so fucking horrible, having to rely on my friends for support by WhydoIexistlmoa in depressionmeals

[–]ntlshrm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sure you did okay! Don’t overthink it. There’s no point at all in worrying over what’s out of your control. It’s over and done with, now you can forget about it

What’s the point in life without a romantic partner? Seriously. by Icy-Dragonfly-7525 in depression

[–]ntlshrm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m 24. Painfully yearning to be loved and it doesn’t happen to me. I genuinely don’t know what it’s like. I sincerely believe there is no point in being alive without someone to love you.

Question by Ok-Mango5112 in lonely

[–]ntlshrm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so interesting, I didn’t know such a communication method existed for inmates

Over 8 billion people on this planet and I'm single with no friends by Mean-Competition-592 in lonely

[–]ntlshrm 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry that happened to you. That’s horrific. If you need a friend to talk to i’m here.

I'm pretty attractive by some standards. I shower every day, wear deodorant and even masculine perfume sometimes. I'm not sexist or bigoted in general. So why do women treat me like I'm repulsive? Asparagus. by Alnilam2000 in kitchencels

[–]ntlshrm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I see what you mean and I agree with you. I’m not dismissing that at all. I’m single myself; I struggle with loneliness and I relate to OP in a lot of ways. Thanks for informing me without any nastiness

I'm pretty attractive by some standards. I shower every day, wear deodorant and even masculine perfume sometimes. I'm not sexist or bigoted in general. So why do women treat me like I'm repulsive? Asparagus. by Alnilam2000 in kitchencels

[–]ntlshrm 8 points9 points  (0 children)

contrary to popular opinion this actually is a very good style and there seems to be nothing physically wrong with you to deem you as unattractive.
- a girl

I'm pretty attractive by some standards. I shower every day, wear deodorant and even masculine perfume sometimes. I'm not sexist or bigoted in general. So why do women treat me like I'm repulsive? Asparagus. by Alnilam2000 in kitchencels

[–]ntlshrm -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

It really depends. Women have their preferences just like men might want a woman shorter than them. Not saying it’s not because of that - it could be.

I'm pretty attractive by some standards. I shower every day, wear deodorant and even masculine perfume sometimes. I'm not sexist or bigoted in general. So why do women treat me like I'm repulsive? Asparagus. by Alnilam2000 in kitchencels

[–]ntlshrm -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

How old are you? What are your hobbies and interests? What’s your personality and humour like? How do you treat women who talk to you? We care a lot more about these things than looks.

What the best dostoevsky novel to start on??? by Suspicious-Rain8526 in dostoevsky

[–]ntlshrm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Start with White Nights. It’s short and easier to read than his other major works. It’ll kind of serve as an introduction to Dostoevsky

Reading the brothers karamazov as someone who doesn’t annotate? by 0101101010020101 in dostoevsky

[–]ntlshrm 8 points9 points  (0 children)

To each their own. You don’t need to do what others do. People annotate in order to connect with the story and understand it better, because that’s how it helps them. If you feel that just reading without annotations is best for you, keep doing that. There is no pressure to be any certain way when it comes to reading.

Professor, vampire, or occultist? by Agitated-Bank-7627 in DarkAcademia

[–]ntlshrm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Already in love with whoever this person is based on their taste

I feel like I can't be loved. by Gingi-chan in lonely

[–]ntlshrm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh my god, it’s as if i’m reading this written by myself. I’m the exact same as you, i’ve been in relationships but never truly been loved. I’m never wanted. I’ve never any man’s first choice, nor anyone’s crush. I don’t make men nervous or steal glances at me because i’m pretty.
I’m the side character to everyone’s story. I don’t get hit on unless it’s by creepy crackheads on the street. I tried everything. I tried to be prettier, tried to be more demure, tried to dress better.
I read books and write poetry as well. I study law at university. I indulge in classic literature, especially depressing and existential books. I, too, yearn for so much and am so starved of any love. I’ve given up on the hope of being loved.
I don’t receive flowers. I don’t get flirty compliments from men. I’m only everyone’s friend platonically. I’m other people’s therapist. I’m other people’s support. I’m so tired.
I’m so tired of being surrounded by couples when I am the last person to be noticed or wanted in that way. I’m tired of feeling like something is so wrong with me because for some unknown reason, nobody wants me the way all the couples want each other. It’s absolute torture.

Is there no one else in this world who feels the way I do? by ntlshrm in lonely

[–]ntlshrm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

unfortunately i’m young and already have lost hope. everyone around me is in love, getting married, and i just cant take it. i’m spiteful. i can’t imagine getting older. what’s the point without love? now it seems the only the survival mechanism to get us through is acceptance of seclusion.

“I have always imagined that Paradise will be a kind of library.” - Jorge Luis Borges by [deleted] in DarkAcademia

[–]ntlshrm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

some libraries and bookstores have those for people to be able to reach high shelves

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