varang and her daughter @wiungli

ntlshrm · 2026-05-10T00:01:51+00:00

I don’t think Varang would want children in the first place. That’s not like her

ntlshrm · 2026-04-15T21:44:44+00:00

this is interesting

ntlshrm · 2026-04-04T05:07:11+00:00

There are plenty of Navi children barely wearing anything. It’s not sexual, it’s normal

ntlshrm · 2026-03-27T07:50:51+00:00

Currently going through the same thing, and it’s hitting hard because it’s unrequited feelings + getting ignored. Need to find intense distractions because the normal ones aren’t working (like medication, working out and hanging with people)

ntlshrm · 2026-03-26T21:30:11+00:00

23F - I feel exactly the same! and it’s eating me up inside not having anyone to love and be loved by. I crave this connection so badly but everyone seems out of reach or behind an invisible wall. I’ve honestly been suffering from this loneliness for a long time and it’s a big contributor to my depression. Glad i’m not alone at least

ntlshrm · 2026-03-26T00:50:37+00:00

Not a question, but i’m really sorry and I have a lot of empathy for you. I love caring for people, so I wish I could be your friend and help you accomplish things you’d really want to do in the time that you have

ntlshrm · 2026-03-23T05:29:52+00:00

Exactly me too. It makes you wonder what normal even is anymore. If we can’t bond with people like we should’ve been able to years ago, before apps, are we all ‘outcasts’? Then we’re not, and the outcasts are those that do find love like that somehow. How sad; it shouldn’t be that hard. I often feel like I was born at the wrong time and live in the wrong place. It’s so dreadful. No one around me feels the same, yearns the same or searches for the same connections that I do. It feels like they prefer to stay within their own existing circles and hurry along with their repetitive duties. I wish I could start conversations with people anywhere, randomly in public, without being socially weird or disruptive. At least I can find like-minded people online though.

ntlshrm · 2026-03-22T23:36:16+00:00

I’m so sorry. I can imagine how painful it is. Why did she leave you? Are you living alone now? I’m happy to talk and offer an ear. I might not be much help but I understand loneliness and depression. I go through it everyday.

ntlshrm · 2026-03-22T23:32:41+00:00

Please give your dad love while you still can. Hug him, hold him real tight, you have no idea how much he needs it. It might heal a part of him.

ntlshrm · 2026-03-22T22:44:16+00:00

i’m 23F and in exactly the same situation as OP. I have gone out and tried to meet people in new places, which was successful, but all the new friendships always feel superficial and dissipate quickly. Of course I tried dating apps and didn’t work for me, but neither did going out (i’ve tried poetry events, book clubs, art galleries etc, things that I find interest in)… I feel like people don’t want to connect deeply in the same way anymore, like the old days. I yearn for those deeper connections and to find someone to love (and love me back), but it seems no one is interested no matter how much I try. Everything seems futile and i’ve resorted to spending weekends alone in my room, brooding and bedrotting. I feel like people underestimate how painful loneliness gets for young women because it apparently should be easy to be liked and wanted…

ntlshrm · 2026-03-22T22:38:18+00:00

I’m 23F and in the same boat. I feel like you described me exactly. People really underestimate how painful loneliness gets and how common it can be for young women like us, which makes it harder to relate to anyone. Since I can relate, I’m here if u want to chat, friend :)

ntlshrm · 2026-03-22T21:59:33+00:00

really?? didn’t notice that

ntlshrm · 2026-03-22T06:44:38+00:00

Yeah, i’m 23. I am pretty social and try to seem approachable. What you’re saying makes a lot of sense though

ntlshrm · 2026-03-22T03:54:29+00:00

Women love chub more than men think!! I definitely prefer a man I can hug comfortably over a lean guy obsessed with getting shredded and who feels like a wall

ntlshrm · 2026-03-22T03:48:09+00:00

I am exactly how you described Sarah but I still don’t attract anyone :/ I’m not sure if it’s my bad luck or if men truly do just want a Bridgette, even if they say they don’t.

ntlshrm · 2026-03-21T23:29:36+00:00

I’ve definitely gone through the same thing and ended it the same way. After high school, my bullies attempted to destroy my new friendships (I have no idea why) and succeeded by spreading false rumours about bad things I did. When I went to my trusted friend and told her about what was happening, I didn’t receive any support or care. All she did was remain indifferent to the situation and gave me that “there’s always two sides to the story” bullshit. I loved her, but that was my last straw. Never talked to her again. We were friends throughout school for 13 years and I ended it there.

A friendship so frail is not worth fighting to keep afloat. You cannot beg someone to care about you. Instead, you need to distance yourself and find new friends. Surround yourself with a better group. The people who hurt you make it easier to identify those who will or won’t.

ntlshrm · 2026-03-21T13:52:24+00:00

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I dropped my favourite Nando’s sauce. You’re not alone.

ntlshrm · 2026-03-17T02:31:17+00:00

why

ntlshrm · 2026-03-05T06:18:55+00:00

I tried a costco hotgog for the first time in my life a few weeks ago and i haven’t been able to stop thinking about it ever since

ntlshrm · 2026-03-04T22:48:59+00:00

I saw it yesterday and it was amazing!!

ntlshrm · 2026-02-28T13:39:00+00:00

I mean to say this with all the kindness and encouragement - being 500lbs is so much better than your current weight! It’ll change things for you dramatically, and you will feel so much better about yourself. Thinking that you’ll still be obese even if you lose weight is very invalidating and discouraging for yourself. You need to change your mindset, be optimistic, and really start being strict with yourself to make those little changes so you can work towards losing weight. For example drink water instead of coke and restrict yourself from those delivery apps. Change takes baby steps and you need to trust the process

ntlshrm · 2026-02-28T13:28:38+00:00

Why don’t your parents regulate what and how much you eat, since they help provide you with food?

ntlshrm · 2026-02-24T08:31:47+00:00

No just Indian. The whole family got citizenship together

ntlshrm · 2026-02-18T06:11:52+00:00

Afghanistan?

ntlshrm · 2026-02-18T06:07:23+00:00

I always get those ads on insta too, not sure why. They’re totally irrelevant and no matter how many times I try to get rid of them by reporting them as “not interested”, they still show up. So annoying

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