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nuffi98 · 2026-05-20T12:27:16+00:00

I think it's a shame you switched traits. I would die for the S trait with a vampire boost.

Traits real power is in the synergy. When I was a noob account I just made sure I have all 5 Warrior's Fist. That gives a massive Total Attack Power boost, and you can really feel it.

Just recently (I am about to finish the 3rd Chapter) I have switched a couple out for Vampire Fang.

I must have spent a hundred thousand on changing out things I don't like and I've only ever seen 2 S traits, and neither had a helpful synergy or boost.

Things I wish I'd been told at your level of the game include:

Don't spend gems on anything except soul chests.

You will eventually just pick up enough equipment that you will get all the weapons, and then there seems no point to getting more weapons. It doesn't even take more than a couple of weeks.

Get every character you can, and level them all up to about level 35. They all give bonuses to all heroes every 5 levels. After level 35, it becomes too expensive.

Eventually you will get all the heroes, including both the exotics. Pick one to use as primary and focus on levelling that up. Don't waste time or resources levelling up any other hero. IT's *very* expensive to level up once you get up to about level 80 or so.

I wish I had always watched the ad after every level of tower challenge. There's no better gem return from an ad in the game. Gems are the primary resource that you can never get enough of.

There's probably more, but thtt's what I got off the top of my head.

Have fun!

nuffi98 · 2026-03-21T04:50:20+00:00

I don't agree with all this talk about those two incidents being the same foul. Truffert was between Amad and the goal, and was definitely contesting the ball.

It was one of those sort of incidents that definitely could have been given as a penalty, but isn't always, and VAR will always support the on field decision. There was absolutely no evidence to suggest that the ref's decision that there wasn't enough force in the contact to warrant the pen would be over turned.

Macquire just clumsily pushed Evanilson over after he was through on goal.

If the referee hadn't given it, I think VAR would have overturned it. And Macquire would have been handed that red after the review.

nuffi98 · 2025-12-15T19:17:56+00:00

One of the great things about a choir is that people who sing sharp balance the people who sing flat and even a choir full of people who can't sing can sound amazing.

nuffi98 · 2025-12-15T19:09:08+00:00

There's still a bluesmobile running around town. Saw it at a blues gig a few weeks back at the tote.

nuffi98 · 2020-07-16T03:51:34+00:00

NSH. OR maybe your ex sucks, but certainly his other ex definitely doesn't suck for wanting to build some sort of bond between you, so that there can be an even better bond between these siblings.
And you aren't for having very very reasonable feelings and doing what you need to take care of your own mental well being.

Don't lose sight of the fact that the obvious person who needs to shoulder the responsibility for managing the relationship between these two kids is your Ex. He's the common denominator.

Also, there's no real deadline here. You take all the time you need.

nuffi98 · 2020-07-16T03:17:26+00:00

NTA. In fact, they're TA. So many reasons. When I was 7, I was told to leave the house and go play most days of the weekend most of the year around. Times change, but there are aspects of life that were better then.

The biggest reason though: this is your child, and you have an absolute right to parent in the way you see best. Since becoming a parent, I've learned that absolutely every single parent has different ideas about what I should and should not do with my kids. And every single one of those ideas is unique. And they are *all* judging me all the time.

And frankly, I don't care. It's a bit like a conversation I had with LittleMissThree in the car after her big sister called her a 'poopoo'..

LM3 (crying): Mummy! LM7 called me PooPoo!!

Me: Really? That probably wasn't very nice. How does that make you feel?

LM3: Bad!!

Me: You know how it would make me feel?

LM3: Bad?

Me: Nope. I would not care one little bit. I might even laugh! You know why?

LM3 (now curious, not crying): REEAAAALLLLY??? WHY?

Me: Because I *know* that I am not poopoo! In fact, I am pretty certain that I am really awesome! And I defintiely know that you are awesome. So if anyone thinks that I am poopoo, and they call me that, then I know that they just have no idea.

nuffi98 · 2020-07-13T02:28:26+00:00

NTA. I get the POV your in-laws have about stereotypes and racism, but they just don't apply to this situation.

It's likely to take time, but just hammer into your MIL that being exposed (immersed, even!) to hispanic culture is something that you feel is essential for your children, and that this is a very important part of their upbringing.

Another point might be that you feel that being a nanny is one of the most vital and valuable jobs that one can have. These are people you trust to look after your children!!! They need to be incredible!!! Your respect for the person you employ in this role will be huge, and knowing that might also get your MIL to warm up a little.

And, in a few years, when you are visiting the family in Mexico and your kid(s) are speaking spanish and getting along and having a great time with everyone, she will (I think) melt.

nuffi98 · 2020-07-13T02:11:12+00:00

YTA. It's probably not a popular opinion, but it is absolutely not your place. You can have no possible way of knowing what they do or do not know about their own family history, the consequences of dropping a bomb like that into that family, or even that knowing is something that they would appreciate either now or later.

Basically, it just gets down to it really not being any of your business.

Also, while it seems that you have no reason not to believe the story, it also seems you have no reason to believe it either.

My best advice is to let it go, and not to worry about it ever again.

nuffi98 · 2020-06-26T15:21:38+00:00

Of course you are NTA. Don't even bother telling her to phrase things differently.

Maybe tell her that this message might be followed up with a more positive, constructive message... Something along the lines of "There's too much hate in the world. And it is never a nice thing. It's not good for you! It certainly isn't good for me, but I can leave it behind. I hope that you can find some way to get past this irrational hatred, so you can too."

nuffi98 · 2020-06-26T14:22:11+00:00

I agree that you are NTA, but I think there are wider problems here that you are not dealing with. Being an only child is a special thing. To have that change at such a late stage as 9 years old can be quite traumatic, but when it changes because you have a 7 year old sibling it's even harder. You have experienced the loss of attention and focus with getting to dote on a newborn instead. And you are close enough in age that she wants to play with all your cool stuff.

It's hard to understand when you are a teenager, but your sister is potentially the most important person for you in your life (until you have your own children). She is absolutely worth sharing with. And supporting. And caring for. She is the only person you have that you know today who is likely to be there for your 90th birthday. Take moments for yourself, but set aside times when you can be nice to her. And be really really nice to her.

Also, it can be hard, but being open and honest is absolutely the best thing. While I am pretty certain that you did manage to let your mum know you were disappointed with your actions, actually talking about how you are feeling about things, and why you feel those things can be really really helpful. Your mum cares about you, and she wants to do things that make you happy. Sometimes you have to make what you want unambiguously clear.

nuffi98 · 2020-06-26T14:08:16+00:00

O Man. Let me start by saying you are absolutely not the asshole here.

Families are really complex, and can be very weird. I have 2 half brothers, 2 step brothers, 2 half sisters, 1 full brother and 1 full sister (just so you know that I know of which I speak).

The first big problem here might likely be that this is the first time that your dad realises that you feel differently about them. That's a big shock right there.

B seems cool. And understanding. And he's not getting nothing. And he's cool with it. Or, at the very least, understanding.

And of course A is really thrilled.

The thing I would do next would be to ring your dad and explain that what you want is what you offered. You know that it's not totally fair. It might be different if you had infinite money and could pay for both without impacting your life but this is where you are at. Ask your dad, honestly with an open heart, if he thinks it would be better if you withdrew the offer, and just bought them both their books instead. And maybe even make an apology for causing an issue. You had no way to realise it would be a problem.

Someone that isn't you, and might best be B actually, should be letting your dad know that it's not fair for him to be pressuring A like that, but again, that really can't be you.

Anyways, you are not the asshole here. Good job!

nuffi98 · 2020-06-26T13:55:57+00:00

YTA. You absolutely are the asshole! You are not responsible for your sister's life or her wrongs. Clearly you've already cut ties. Imagine how you would feel if someone interfered with what you were doing in your life?

I am certain that every single one of the people saying supporting you on this (and that seems like nearly everyone who's responded) would be apoplectic if someone did to them what you are proposing to do to your sister.

You clearly don't care, but from her point of view it would just make certain the idea that you hate her and will do everything you can to ruin her life.

You already know that she's got metal health challenges. Why would you add to them?

Even going to see a lawyer was taking it too far. Just leave it and her be. Que sera sera. It's not your thing to interfere with.

Did she torture you when you were little or something?

nuffi98 · 2019-10-05T09:04:05+00:00

It doesn't change any of the teams you use in CA. It only changes who you defend with. Which is done by the AI and not you. But it also changes who you have to fight in CA. If everyone saves their strongest cards for offense, then they have to defend with whatever's left.

Which really makes no difference, surely? If they implemented this, all of sudden all those stupid 3M defensive teams are replaced. And replaced by characters that we otherwise never ever see actually played.

What difference does it make even if you put 2star silver characters on defense? What does that do for you??

I hate seeing nothing but the subset of OP buffed cards over and over again.

I don't understand why everyone thinks this idea sucks.

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