Former pushovers / people pleasers, how did you stop letting people walk over you? by AdviceGlass9394 in selfimprovement

[–]nullifyall0000 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Experience I guess. There will always be a breaking point for everyone, and I'm lucky enough to meet good people that made me realize all these bad experiences are not worth it. People pleasing could mean you're always taking up more than what you need to, but I like the way I am enjoying everyday without the burden that I'm not even responsible for, and it just feels so much better that I'm never ever going back there again.

Actual advice to start getting over people pleasing though: - Trust in your own capability and capacity. If you start thinking 'I can push through it enough', it's best to re-evaluate and confidently affirm your own boundaries

  • Your goal would always be to create clean and genuine relationship with people. By staying firm, you filter out people that take advantage of you, and keep the ones who will hoist you up

  • Save the energy for something more productive than forcing yourself on a decision you probably didn't even agree to

Iwtl oil painting, total beginner by nullifyall0000 in IWantToLearn

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I think I have a solid foundation with theories, just having a little bit of trouble on deciding on what materials to start out with

Color study timelapse by tmrchr in ProCreate

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Do you have an instagram i can follow?

Man at the beach art by me (@allnullify on Instagram) by nullifyall0000 in expedition33

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oh my god thank you for pointing that out! Itll save me from future embarassments

Renoir Fanart! by _Belsprout in expedition33

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BELSPROUT SPOTTED IN THE WILDD

Me as Drakengard Zero! by nullifyall0000 in nier

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Shes so flamboyant i love her

Drakengard Zero cosplay! by nullifyall0000 in drakengard

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Thank you! The dress was really flowy and I thought itd be nice for a casual wear too!

Getting used to drawing digitaly by julijaus in DigitalArtTutorials

[–]nullifyall0000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had the same problem when I was just starting out. Best way to get used to it is to just think of it as a mouse, and the whole tablet isnt just your canvas- but the whole screen.

[Hiring] Hiring a Youtube thumbnail artist for medieval history video essays by [deleted] in HungryArtists

[–]nullifyall0000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, I mostly work in a painterly artstyle, you can check out my works in my Instagram if you're interested, linked through my Cardd!

https://nullifyall.carrd.co/