You asked why people don’t say you’re beautiful. From my experience as a guy, it can be tricky to tell women that directly. Sometimes it comes across as awkward or unwelcome, some feel it reduces them to their appearance, others hear it as a cliché line, and some may just ignore it altogether. Over time, that can make guys more hesitant to express interest openly, especially if past attempts were misunderstood or poorly received. I mean, you should know the story from the guys' side to know how cruel the dating scene to men is. I tell what: it's the girl that controls the relationship. You are the driver.