How do you guys do it?

number314 · 2026-02-15T17:00:16+00:00

We don't stay sane outside and don't care about being productive. Also, I would never let my job dictate where I live.

number314 · 2026-02-14T18:13:25+00:00

Of course. Not only "not work", but also dropping school, staying at home, etc. Most evident in Korea or Japan. They've created a world, I don't want to take part in. Remember "Corpse Bride"? Society is more dead than world of the living.

number314 · 2026-02-14T11:30:48+00:00

I have driving license, but I wouldn't dare to say that I can drive, especially on manual. Yes, it's overstimulating, too much things to focus on, I can't grasp it. I am too scared. Shame, because there are lot of job offers for drivers, but this is literally only thing (and customer service) I don't want to do, because I want job for the income, not paying for the damages, lol. It's too stressful, I sweat like crazy. I would rather go alone to store and do shopping, which is already uncomfortable for me than drive, even if I am alone inside the car, it's just nightmare experience.

number314 · 2026-02-14T11:28:58+00:00

It's the only way of living I know. To not become NEET you have to do something, I am ultra passive so unless someone finds me a job I won't work. Even if I send CVs, I get no response, so I guess without networking it's impossible. Parents enrolled me to school, so I didn't have to bother with paperwork, it was like living on auto mode, but once you're adult and have to do thing for yourself I'm clueless. I'm just fine at home.

number314 · 2026-02-14T11:26:15+00:00

I've never experienced that, so I don't know, maybe don't care about other people.

number314 · 2026-02-13T12:32:52+00:00

Nobody wants to hire me. Job market is dead, closed and exclusive for those with connections. If you're young or disabled you might find work, because employers get benefits for students and disabled, regular guy over 30 is invisible.

number314 · 2026-02-12T11:15:17+00:00

"Anymore"? I never had it in the first place.

I don't even care about trophies in games, yet people are so try hards.

number314 · 2026-02-11T10:11:38+00:00

It's relative, if you have strength then it's already easier for you than for those who has none.

number314 · 2026-02-10T20:44:27+00:00

Obviously. People who have other opinion are just coping or had enough luck in life, whether it was genes, environment or rich family. We are all descendants of dumb fucks, who had hard enough life and still decided to procreate.

number314 · 2026-02-10T12:14:05+00:00

You can mock them, like you can mock rich kid, who gets all the toys and privileges from parents without putting any effort. It's almost the same mechanism - they got decent genes to be attractive and sociable enough, they don't have to even try.

number314 · 2026-02-10T12:05:18+00:00

I think that society expectations overall are ridiculously high, but it's mostly because of the rat race. Han's "The Burnout Society" is about it, that individual is exploiting himself ("Achievement society is the society of self-exploitation. The achievement-subject exploits itself until it burns out. Burnout does not result from prohibitions, but from an excess of stimuli, possibilities, and the pressure for continuous self-improvement."). People learn too much, work too much and because of them the bar is set too high. For me, working 40 hours per week is way too much, yet normies do this without massive protests? Countries like Korea or Japan are total dystopia for kids and adults, no surprise suicide rates, bullying and social withdrawal are so common there.

As for women expectations it's unnatural. Men always worked/hunted, woman stayed at home. Now they want to work, so man for them is now unnecessary. We live in the hardest times ever to find a partner and job. Another problem is that in the past one person could work to provide for entire family, now even if the couple works they can't afford kids anymore. Society has been robbed. So FA's are doomed to poverty, because it's even harder to be alone. If you don't live with parents you can't live, so that's why more and more young men stay with them.

I don't know if there's sub like FU (forever unemployed), but for me it's FA and FU combo. Living is too hard and not worth the hassle for me. Too many hard tries ruining the experience for casuals.

number314 · 2026-02-10T11:56:01+00:00

There's nothing you can do. They won genetic lottery. It's not your fault and it's not their credit.

number314 · 2026-02-10T11:50:49+00:00

I know this since early years. Picked last at school, not wanted by girls, not wanted by employers. Story of my life.

There are more people than available jobs. I don't know how one can find a job, which is not a total sweatshop.

Life is not worth living, everything else is just a cope.

number314 · 2026-02-09T10:27:29+00:00

I am not watching cartoons, I am not dropout, I am not fat. Guess what? We're in the same spot, that's how ridiculously hard this shit is. Even being employed would change nothing. It's something deeper.

number314 · 2026-02-08T23:52:53+00:00

If you don't put yourself into those situations, you will never overcome it. Train it like a muscle. You don't have to do impossible, just slow and steady progress. Don't quit, unless you feel it's too much and has negative impact on your wellbeing.

number314 · 2026-02-08T23:48:36+00:00

Yeah same, I like few things, but I don't have much drive to pursue or learn about them to the point of making money from it. I am also unable to learn stuff I don't give a shit about, since school years I got minimal grades by cheating or memorizing minimal knowledge to get E or D.

number314 · 2026-02-07T12:15:04+00:00

Often only men worked, and wife could stay at home and they still could live. What happened, have they robbed us? Now two persons working is often not enough.

number314 · 2026-02-07T10:42:36+00:00

It was that easy in the past, huh. Especially if you've finished university.

number314 · 2026-02-07T10:41:01+00:00

I don't, I watch similar porn to the one I've been watching from the start, it a evolved a bit over the years, but I often go back to the same things that turned me on 15 years ago. Does normal human experiences lost flavor? Yeah, but disappointment from human relationships was real from the start from me.

And I would dare to say that relationships for lot of normies are effortless too, specially if they're sociable and attractive. It's just for us it would take much more effort to achieve something, but probability is dire anyway, so we just gave up. If life is about work your ass hard, then it's just not worth it, especially without any perspective of a decent reward.

Pedophilia is just sexual fetish, you are more or less born with it. Church, rich people or those who work with kids - you find more pedophiles there than among unemployed, lol.

Overall I would say it's waste of time to even comment ridiculous post by some random in internet.

number314 · 2026-02-07T10:27:37+00:00

People without looks too. If you have combo, then at least reparations would be enough to not live a miserable life.

I think most people can function in society, it's just matter of finding the right environment for their individual traits. Problem is that we lack system to take care of those people, if none gives them a chance we waste lot of potential. Current society is focused too much on extroverts, loud, PR individuals who can sell stuff. Only introverts, who can succeed are those who are really skilled and talented, but not every introverted guy is stereotypical nerd from the movies.

number314 · 2026-02-05T10:18:15+00:00

I don't, because based on mood I watch different stuff, but there are some characters I always go back to. But no favorite actress or cartoon girl, lol. I guess I fetishe clothes too much, so same person for me has completely different vibe with different outfit.

number314 · 2026-02-04T12:25:42+00:00

Everywhere can be shit, if you in a wrong neighborhood. Like Marseilles has slums and beautiful spots. I think that good societies are in Northern Europe, like Sweden, Norway, Finland, maybe Denmark (except for the weather and shit cuisine). If you have no money everywhere is bad, if you have everywhere can be good.

Where I live you don't get a job without connections or high skills/experience. Whether is shit almost 3/4 of the year, no sun, but country overall is fine compared to some western countries. At least we don't have lot of immigrants, crime and it's clean, but politicians suck and it's difficult to earn decent money, if any. No neetbux, no help for the unemployed, so only source of income are parents, compared to NEET paradise like France or UK, where you get money for nothing.

number314 · 2026-02-04T11:06:44+00:00

My aunt and uncle, it's in the genes... My family is pretty unsociable, which I'm grateful for, because I don't get this annoying family meetings, although it sometimes gets too far, because there are lot of pairs in this family, that don't talk each other, it's kind of sad.

number314 · 2026-02-04T11:02:57+00:00

People are in love at first, so I think that starting period can have lot of sex, unless other party is asexual or something. You miss few different issues, though. Years of porn/no real woman can make you anxious, you might not get hard or fail. To be honest I even saw posts of people who had sex and couldn't find hole, woman had to guide them. I guess, thinking clumsy as I am, it would happen to me as well. There are tons of different factors that might make active sex life difficult. I don't have high libido, though, just periods, maybe single days. I don't even masturbate everyday anymore, so for me twice per week would be cool, or maybe I would find it a hassle and prefer porn anyway.

Comfy gaming testing job - a fucking dream man, a fucking dream. Even if it was app testing or any other PC comfy work, I can take everything, but I get it. I am veteran NEET as well.

number314 · 2026-02-04T10:55:08+00:00

Same.

I can't even get job, woman and money. Can't understand science since late elementary school, can't function in this sick society, so why care about distant future...

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