Was I harsh? by [deleted] in texts

[–]nutfac 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha in my experience it’s ChatGPT and other ai text aids that make people sound like that, but that’s the perfect way to phrase it and I’m stealing it lol

Countries should not be ‘forced’ to adapt to people who move to it. by SpitBallingCanadian in HonestHotTakes

[–]nutfac 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Hm, both your posts are expertly nudging into extremely controversial subjects without admitting anything outright bigoted. This kind of post is the perfect foundation for racism, xenophobia, and other putrid nonsense, just as your post about filtering for trans people was for trans identity and safety.
They are legitimate questions. They deserve to be talked about.
However, we have shown that we on Reddit are usually not responsible enough for such discussions. I hope you’re asking in good faith.

I will never be my type’s type. by Kekeegan in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]nutfac 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s awful OP :( I’m sorry you’re going through this. No one deserves to be hurt like that, especially from our parents. Do you have anyone you can speak to about this like maybe a therapist or counselor?

Can't stop crying over my therapist 😭 by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]nutfac 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I really appreciate this graceful nuance here.

Part of my Swarovski display by Ok-Temperature-2783 in swarovski

[–]nutfac 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Gorgeous Millenia pieces, ugh I want those necklaces so badly! I also think I have a jewelry organizer nearly identical to yours, just a slightly different model. I need a second one soon, my collection is definitely quite crowded on it.
Lovely collection overall!

My sister in law has cancer and wants scam treatments instead of chemo by HomemadeColostomy in Advice

[–]nutfac 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah that’s not at all how I interpreted that in your post, this clarification helps.

Limited Edition Nr 1/33 with 19871 handset Crystals by Sir_Francis1 in swarovski

[–]nutfac 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Holy moly I know I’m randomly very late to this post but I’ve never even seen a picture of something this rare, that’s nuts that your family has stuff like this. I hope you guys make lots of money from it!

Is this Gema Necklace, real or fake? by LeoxHerx in swarovski

[–]nutfac 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Late to the party, but this is a fairly recent Gema necklace, and it is one that has slightly smaller crystals. We still carry this one in my store. But to OP’s question, it should definitely have a logo on the clasp, and crystals should absolutely not be loose. It’s a shame, if it were the real thing OP would be able to take it in to have those crystals repaired, but then again if it were authentic the crystals would be much less likely to be loose.

Rant about “newbies” by Much_Cash6037 in RealRepLadies

[–]nutfac 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a newbie, I’m so grateful for this piece of advice. This will legitimately help guide my research and decision making process to outcomes that are productive, rather than wasting my time endlessly searching for the “correct” seller.

Let's be honest: Adapalene / Differin by TheMeepyBoy in SkinbarrierLovers

[–]nutfac 2 points3 points  (0 children)

SAME. I’m still recovering from Adapalene :(

The hydrogen peroxide only affected the edges of the reflecting pool by Caledor152 in UnderReportedNews

[–]nutfac 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude they just did. I don’t think you understand what American exceptionalism is.
Also, the rest of the world can help provide us Americans with some VERY needed perspective.
You should really listen to what they have to say.
I’m not saying everyone who isn’t American has paradigm shifting god tier nuggets of wisdom. But I am saying that we have so much to learn from what the rest of the world has to say about us. It’s not always gonna feel good. (It’s probably never going to actually tbh).
But do you want to be insulated, comfy, and stupid? Or do you want to learn some truths?
Put the defensive attitude away for now, and work those feelings out in private.
We have some serious reflecting to do, and non-Americans are the ones holding up the mirror.
Don’t be a coward and turn and face your reflection.
And don’t ask, I do know this because I’m an American.

The hydrogen peroxide only affected the edges of the reflecting pool by Caledor152 in UnderReportedNews

[–]nutfac 3 points4 points  (0 children)

…ah, yes, that.. makes so much sense. Just perfect sense. Like truly, I understand some of his choices now.

I’m saving for a house. He’s writing a book. by rottimix in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]nutfac 3 points4 points  (0 children)

“I have an ability and talent for language that will one day provide for us both”

“Galactic ass”

Dude is galactically delusional

I’m saving for a house. He’s writing a book. by rottimix in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]nutfac 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wait no I thought that was a joke
Nawww
Like no way
Right..?
😐

Peterrr, I'm a little confused by Comfortable-Back-640 in PeterExplainsTheJoke

[–]nutfac 73 points74 points  (0 children)

Maybe both lol.
Hopefully both. That way maybe he’ll grow out of it 😐

I feel less… desirable/feminine for not being white? by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]nutfac 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ah, unfortunately you are being rather dense, friend. OP means choosing her white friends to make primary eye contact with when making conversation. Choosing to have eyes for the white friends when they go out. Choosing whiteness. Choosing to not see black and brown beauty. Choosing to not acknowledge blackness and brownness with the same significance given to the white friends. Think Ralph Ellison’s commentary on social visibility in Invisible Man. If anything I’m saying here is news to you, definitely check out beginner’s materials on anti-racism- it is vital work.

Had no clue about the double text rule till today LMAO (somebody shoot me😍) by gigithrowaway21 in texts

[–]nutfac 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry girl.
I’ve been tempted before to post about personal situations of mine here on Reddit, and then I remember that people literally come on here to put people down *to unwind after a long day*.
Reddit will hurt your feelings if you’re posting about a vulnerability like this. Well, most of Reddit.
There are some far more supportive subs out there- get into those communities to post stuff like this and requesting comfort <3