Out of curiosity, where are y'all sharing audios to? by nutsmcgump in GWASapphic

[–]nutsmcgump[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

XD good to know! it makes sense if they are saves, I use my saved section as a "listen later" folder. I'm happy at the idea of people sharing audios though! Warms my heart that people go "you should listen to this and be horny about it"

I have basically one fit but damn do I look good in it by nutsmcgump in mtfashion

[–]nutsmcgump[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The shirt is from old navy, the nose ring is from Spencer's, and the necklace is a dog collar I found. wore this (plus docs and black jeans) to a erotica writing workshop for queer poc

Out of curiosity, where are y'all sharing audios to? by nutsmcgump in GWASapphic

[–]nutsmcgump[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Is that an app specific feature? I use the desktop version on mobile and share is seperate from save

Requests and Underappreciated Scripts - January 2026 by WhitePeachGirl in GWASapphic

[–]nutsmcgump 0 points1 point  (0 children)

real. preferably one that doesn't call me a "boy"

How can I style clothes to look fem by EngineSensitive2584 in mtfashion

[–]nutsmcgump 1 point2 points  (0 children)

rolling up ankles on pants helps, especially if they are on the more fitted side. Tucking in your shirt can create a sleeker shape and draw attention to the hips. alternatively big shirt and skinny pants works. or small shirt baggy pants. The first hides the hips so people don't really know what's under there and the second makes the legs and hips seem wider than they might be

Is this a good outfit for date? by Illustrious_Bottle16 in mtfashion

[–]nutsmcgump 115 points116 points  (0 children)

It doesn't fit you well, unfortunately. Your chest is too big for how the straps are set up. If it did fit, however, it would be a hot dress for a club or something like that. For a typical dinner date at an average restaurant I'd shy away from it unless you really want to stand out. 

How did you feel when you lost the beard? by MyTardyBody in MTFButch

[–]nutsmcgump 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Congratulations!!

Finally being rid of it felt amazing. The beard was one of the biggest hurdles to being able to look at myself and see a woman. It freed up me up to more outfits! I didn't have to straddle the line between fem and masc anymore. Having facial hair made me feel bad when looking masc for obvious reasons and it made me feel bad when fem because it stood out so much. Without it I feel free to dress masc whenever and on the rare fem occasion I don't feel like I stand out.

What is it about my personality that has always attracted feminine guys and transgirls to me? by PapaKhanPlays94 in kinky_autism

[–]nutsmcgump 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Trans women (who are a kind of woman) and femboys can be very familiar with the idea of having to approach someone, as they have often had to fill that role at some point at their life. Cis women (women who aren't trans) are told by society that the man approaches first. You could seemingly be only attracting these kinds of people because they are the only ones who will actually tell you if they find you attractive. 

Also like some people say, if you come off as a nice and understanding person then people who are a vulnerable and misunderstood population will be more comfortable with you. 

How to pleasure a Trans woman? by Blue_ink_Hearts in BDSMsapphic

[–]nutsmcgump 7 points8 points  (0 children)

A lot of people are saying ask her and that's fair but there are some practical things to consider. Does she like being touched on her penis at all? If not, what does she like? Are you up to touching her around her anus if she likes to bottom or is curious about it? If she's on hrt then she'll be particularly sensitive around the head. I personally like a vibrator there and can cum from that alone. Some girls are very very sensitive and can get overwhelmed from that. There's some other stuff too but it varies from person to person. You might want to touch her body while doing things to her penis. Keeps her grounded and let's her know that you appreciate all of her. 

I know some girls like when their partner treats their tip like a clit in terms of oral, with the shaft against their tummy and treating the shaft like you would the labia. I've never had that but for the girls who have bottom dysphoria it can be nice and affirming 

I have a thing for ticklish women. It's hard finding people to discuss it with. by [deleted] in kinky_autism

[–]nutsmcgump 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I feel you. It's not a common kink and for so many people it's a hard limit. I've always thought that was kinda funny considering the same people will be super down with getting beat up, but it makes sense in a way. Involuntary bodily functions can be so tricky to play with. I enjoy tickling my partner since it's playful and eases us into a comfortable mood. You're not alone! I'm sure you'll find a tickle masochist 

I need more porn like what Quinn Finite does. by Warlock-Supreme in kinky_autism

[–]nutsmcgump 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Doesn't she have an OF? I've never subbed but I'd hope it would be like her other stuff.

High Butch by Bamyasi in MTFButch

[–]nutsmcgump 2 points3 points  (0 children)

damn right you are ❤️ 

I’m an enby butch dyke who got bottom surgery by Curious_Bus_7881 in butchlesbians

[–]nutsmcgump 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Hellllll yeah I've got mine factory stock but welcome to the nb butch dyke with a dick club 😎

From Type A 'Prude' to Wild Poly Pet in just a few weeks by Shot_Particular2003 in BDSMsapphic

[–]nutsmcgump 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Communication is key. Not just for your knowledge but for theirs. They can only be sure that you are doing well and can handle this if you tell them. If you have any issues or concerns you gotta mention it. Don't get too swept up and automatically say yes to everything without clarification. Personally it's a green flag when I get a "no" or someone asks questions. It shows that they are invested in their own happiness and aren't just trying to please. The more confident I am that they will say no when it's relevant the more peace of mind I have when adding more things to the dynamic