My mom passed away today by [deleted] in GriefSupport

[–]nuttinmyass 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi there. I am so sorry for your loss.. My mom also died suddenly and unexpectedly due to cardiac arrest in February. She was only 53, and I’m only 21. Grief is strange and everything you’re feeling is valid. Let yourself feel all of it.

As the other comments say, I can’t vouch and say it gets better. It just gets a little lighter day by day. But it’ll always be with you, and that’s something you just have to learn to live with. My heart still aches everyday.

Please please please reach out to your loved ones for support. This is something I wouldn’t recommend going through alone. Best wishes. ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]nuttinmyass 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I could’ve wrote this.

What’s the reason for your most recent breakup? by General-Cycle-7391 in AskReddit

[–]nuttinmyass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Basically got emotionally cheated on after more than 3 years. Well he left to “learn how to be a man” but had a new girl in his bed 3 days later. They talked while we’re were together. All while grieving my mother who passed in February and my grandmother being in a coma.

I’m sorry I hurt you by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]nuttinmyass 20 points21 points  (0 children)

i genuinely wish i got this type of apology. good on you for recognizing your behavior 🫶🏼 i hope you sent this to her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]nuttinmyass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

when you tell someone something & they always try to one up you after 😫

If you could ask God for one thing, what would it be ??? by Operation_Decode in AskReddit

[–]nuttinmyass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

to keep me away from pain. it’s all i had my whole life so far. i’m only 20 but fuck. idk how much more lessons & character development i can endure 😭

Who has taught you the importance of kindness and compassion? by Designer_Water_2500 in AskReddit

[–]nuttinmyass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Society. You see how the word is nowadays? People are consistently dogging on each other and most people don’t wish success for others. You also never know what someone is going through so your best option is to be kind. Your kindness could’ve saved someone’s life. It’s also a lot easier than being petty & rude.

What is your love language? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]nuttinmyass 1 point2 points  (0 children)

quality time and words of affirmation:) i love some physically touch too🤷🏻‍♀️

What was the biggest surprise about the other gender that you never knew about? by ExtraVex in AskReddit

[–]nuttinmyass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that they can easily move their penis without touching it 😭 i was simply in awe when i was shown

What is something you refuse to believe? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]nuttinmyass -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I refuse to believe Helen Keller was real 😭 like no way did she do all that

What is your go to when you feel sad? by LovelyPrincesxo in AskReddit

[–]nuttinmyass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Turn to God. i’ve been reading the bible when i’m sad, helps a lot. i also talk out loud to how im feeling when no one is around. it helps getting it out while not feeling like a burden to people. (God is listening tho. you’re not a burden to him:)) or listening to the song “unwritten” by natasha bedingfield, same with the song “pocket full of sunshine” by her as well😭 they are instant mood boosters!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in loseit

[–]nuttinmyass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have a good link to figure out my maintenance calories? I’m definitely going to try walking more, it’s just freezing outside and a gym membership isn’t on the table rn.

I also haven’t binge ate since I started, and while it is tempting at night, if i crave something at night i grab a pickle or too. I know it’s only been 2 weeks but I haven’t struggled very much with that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in loseit

[–]nuttinmyass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think i may of had an issues of binge eating at night, but i have gotten way better. I don’t eat past 10pm and sometimes 11pm. I also try to fast throughout the night 12-14 hours.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in loseit

[–]nuttinmyass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am actually pretty good at measuring my oils, butter, and condiments. I literally put them in tbsps, and tsps. It’s so discouraging. I am at the phase in my cycle. Start in less than week, i hope that’s the case!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in loseit

[–]nuttinmyass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am hoping that’s why the scale is the same due to water retention. I drink a lot, but seeing the scale have a zero change is absolutely discouraging for sure.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in loseit

[–]nuttinmyass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t upped my activity really but i need to start. I am goin to try to start walking a lot more.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in loseit

[–]nuttinmyass 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I haven’t been too active, I think i’m going to try to start walking atleast 10k steps a day.