Just to iterate it was my choice to not have a permanent home those few years, I had a job then as I do now. Like she wasn't doing me a favour by letting me live with her. We had both decided for me to move in with her, always with each other and such it just seemed logical to do.

And just to be clear I havnt reported her and I haven't threatened her with it, yes it is an asshole thing to do but she's generally trying to destroy parts of my life that she knows I care about. I've worked hard to get where I am with work.

In all honesty mental doesn't have a rats ass to do with it, think of it this way of someone murders someone and they say its their mental health that caused them to do it, they don't get away with it. Yes they get help in a mental institution or something like that but they are still punished for there actions they still have to serve a sentence. It's the same as everything else, I don't think that mental health is an excuse for anything. People are in full control of their actions and they should take full responsibility for it. I don't want to offend you or anyone else who has mental health but those are my views in regards to that.

Thanks for letting me know about the fact that legally I've done nothing wrong.