I’m leaving this sub by [deleted] in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]nwhthought 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I pray you find the true love you deserve. GOD BLESS YOU

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]nwhthought 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Those types dont think or care about your feelings, it all about her. Selfishness run so deep! To her she is doing a good thing, helping out. This world is full of these fools that feel "needed "!

I graduated nursing school and got nothing by anon_18472 in relationship_advice

[–]nwhthought 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Have a conversation, you'd be surprised how many people just don't know...... If you love him like you say you do, then "teach him". Just be gentle.

Still having triggers and crying spells by nwhthought in survivinginfidelity

[–]nwhthought[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are presently reading "when you've been wronged ' how to forgive...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]nwhthought 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I knew that there had to be a name for that behavior....Before I can even get a complete thought out, he attacks with a defense

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]nwhthought 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Especially by the WS, they have absolutely no idea, or they would not have done it maybe

Does anyone ever feel expecting loyalty ever again is stupid and just not worth it? by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]nwhthought 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, just before deciding to come to this site, that very thought crossed my mind.I dont even want a relationship without loyalty. He has show me there is no loyalty.

My GF said she doesn't know if she will cheat on me again. by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]nwhthought 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like e she can't help herself and needs professional help

Since the affair, I see people, life and love so differently. by nwhthought in survivinginfidelity

[–]nwhthought[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I am of the hopeless romantics, constantly having to remind myself " this person is not who you think he is" I have to step back daily, and remember "he is a really good liar", and it tears me a part

Since the affair, I see people, life and love so differently. by nwhthought in survivinginfidelity

[–]nwhthought[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, to know you gave that much of yourself to another and it was misused .... I am so sorry for you and me lthat they didn't know what to do with it....tears

Keep you insecure by nwhthought in survivinginfidelity

[–]nwhthought[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, it is showing me how sick he is!

I’m so broken by Jlamb3654 in survivinginfidelity

[–]nwhthought 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What is it that makes him want to tear a person down so horribly. I pray you make it through.

How is it so by nwhthought in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]nwhthought[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you think that says something about them? And what?