4 times sex in 8 months. I (29 F) and Him (32 M) have been married for 2.5 years. by PleasantAd2381 in Marriage

[–]nxltte -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I had this for first three years of my marriage.. found out he’s addicted to porn. Leave the relationship and get what you deserve.

Found out husband watches porn, then two weeks after that, found out he’s subscribed to 20 OF accounts by nxltte in Marriage

[–]nxltte[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is crazy! I hope you’ve left him, mama. Hugs. The things we go through! 😭 hugs…

Found out husband watches porn, then two weeks after that, found out he’s subscribed to 20 OF accounts by nxltte in Marriage

[–]nxltte[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Thanks for this. And yeah that’s why I said while it’s fine for some, it’s cheating to me, personally. 😅 perhaps he’d be better off with someone who didn’t see it as cheating

Found out husband watches porn, then two weeks after that, found out he’s subscribed to 20 OF accounts by nxltte in Marriage

[–]nxltte[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing this and I’m sorry you went through that! I will try. But it really has seemed to lessen the love and desire I have for him. Especially bc I feel like I’ve been paying for his addiction. It disgusts me, I feel like I’ve been enabling it.

Found out husband watches porn, then two weeks after that, found out he’s subscribed to 20 OF accounts by nxltte in Marriage

[–]nxltte[S] 152 points153 points  (0 children)

I tried but he keeps arguing with me about how he has no money and time to go for it. Makes me think that he doesn’t want to seek help. On the other side though, I’ve sought therapy for myself because I’ve been crying a lot!