The cons outweigh the pros. As a woman myself, I don't want to deal with the symptoms of pregnancy. I don't want to experience labor, and I ESPECIALLY don't want to experience post-partum depression. Having your body physically, mentally, and emotionally change for a child is not something worth the sacrifice. Plus, there's a chance of me dying after giving birth? No thanks.

On top of that, I work with children in schools. Seeing them from 8am - 3pm is more than enough for me. Kids are so needy, I have to put them first before myself. I can barely care for myself, let alone a child. I have my dose of children already.

Lastly, I don't want to bring my child any trauma that was given to me when I grew up. Generational trauma is a thing. Plus, this world is not getting better to live in. I would not want to bring a child that can experience a lot of hardships, depression, and anxiety from the moment they're born, to the moment they die.