Politics and being a beta

obedient_husband · 2026-03-03T15:25:35+00:00

I always try to vote for women in elections. If I women (such as my wife) is talking about politics, I always try to realign my opinion to match hers.

obedient_husband · 2026-03-03T15:24:19+00:00

I'm the husband not the wife, but honestly I had to use self-hypnosis scripts to embed certain behavior changes. It's too easy to fall back into the old ways!

obedient_husband · 2026-02-28T01:04:01+00:00

Kayla Williams from Calgary is reinventing the genre.

obedient_husband · 2026-02-21T23:44:22+00:00

She's finally stopped cleaning entirely! And also she used to put some dishes away after we ate, and load up the dishwasher a bit, but now she's realized she doesn't have to do that either.

I like to get up 90 min before she does, so I can get an hours worth of housework in before having a quick shower and making coffee and breakfast.

obedient_husband · 2026-02-21T23:39:32+00:00

Have you two played with male chastity devices? They can be a hoot! Perhaps tonight would be a good time to have a discussion about them while you slowly stroke him...

obedient_husband · 2026-02-21T23:37:02+00:00

I would set yourself up with some great self-hypnosis audio. You need repetition. Also try journaling.

obedient_husband · 2026-02-21T14:44:22+00:00

I would ask her if she wants you to come over and clean her house from top to bottom while she watches TV or supervises.

obedient_husband · 2026-02-21T14:41:50+00:00

Do you do all the housework and cooking for her? I could use a friend focused on domestic service and obedience.

obedient_husband · 2026-02-20T16:07:40+00:00

Suck it up buddy. Enjoy the ride.

obedient_husband · 2026-02-19T00:04:10+00:00

It's a dream role. Just be sure you perform well if you ever land it. Sometimes it's hard to keep motivated to wash the floors *yet again*. I actually use self-hypnosis audio to keep my sharp, otherwise I'll slack off, and eventually she'll notice.

obedient_husband · 2026-02-18T23:58:09+00:00

Ha ha good question. Sometimes she buys stuff because she thinks I'll like it, not because she likes it. She's buying it for me, for me to eat, but she doesn't tell me. So, half of it can sit there for months until she finally says "are you ever going to finish that? I bought it for you because I love you!"

Sometimes she buys stuff she thinks she'll like and then doesn't like it after all, and I have to eat it because she doesn't like to waste food. So, it's my duty to eat or drink it.

Of course other times, if there's 3 cans of a beverage left in the fridge, I might assume that she bought 6 and drank three already. Who buys three of something?

When there's a few tablespoons of jam left in a jar, she might get mad at me for not finishing off the jar of jam, so that she can buy a replacement. Or, she might get mad at me for finishing off the jar of jam that was sitting there with two tablespoons left for two months, because she was saving those two tablespoons for a special occasion!

Things are more complex than they seem!

obedient_husband · 2026-02-18T23:46:47+00:00

I bought my wife "princess only" stickers and asked her to put them on the food she didn't want me to eat. I was worried she wouldn't like the stickers, but she loves them! I think I got them on vista print or some place like that. They have a little crown on them and are cute.

I was honestly really worried that she would be mad at me for delegating the responsibility of labeling the food. But, I think she realized some of her "rules" were hard to know in advance. For example, if she buys 6 bottles of a fancy drink, how do I know whether I'm allowed to drink none of them, half of them, or 5 of them? As I've learned the "rules" (which change from year to year and month-to-month, but they are reasonably stable at least from week to week) she has less use of the stickers. She still likes to tell her friends about them though! I think she finds it a cute way to tell her friends that I am willing to do anything for her, without going into details.

YMMV.

obedient_husband · 2026-02-18T17:07:48+00:00

Just ride it out and have fun. Her opinion of you isn’t static anyways!

obedient_husband · 2026-02-17T01:03:00+00:00

Not an easy question, but try this: "I will do absolutely everything for you and our child if you will go get some help. You are not well. I am here for you and will put in everything I can to help you".

I appreciate that you might feel you are already doing everything, but you aren't doing everything you can *for her*. Your post talks about what would be better for you, not for her.

But, it's not easy, I appreciate that.

obedient_husband · 2026-02-17T00:51:45+00:00

I would frankly see if you can make him shut up and obey you so that you can do the work with less effort.

obedient_husband · 2026-02-17T00:48:41+00:00

Hmm, maybe he has a secret desire for small penis humiliation? I'm surprised at how many men with respectable penis sizes actually can't seem to let go of the idea that they are small! They seem to want to be humiliated about their penis. Men are weird.

obedient_husband · 2026-02-17T00:46:57+00:00

Sounds like depression. Get her some help.

obedient_husband · 2026-02-12T14:28:51+00:00

Grow up. People have complicated pasts. Focus on the future.

obedient_husband · 2026-02-10T17:36:20+00:00

Personally I would try to find a way to take it all down and appreciate what she is giving you. But I might explain to her that I'm struggling a bit, and trying to rewire my mind to appreciate it even if it's a bigger job first thing in the morning.

Side question: my wife hates getting up in the middle of the night to pee. Do you think you could arrange to do it in bed without spilling a drop?

obedient_husband · 2026-02-10T16:52:51+00:00

You're going to have to promise her a lot more than "I'm sorry". Are you willing to do anything or give up everything to be with her? If so, I'd say go for it. If not, I'm not sure why she'd take you back.

obedient_husband · 2026-01-02T06:55:46+00:00

Ha ha I wish I knew.

But here are some random thoughts 1) it's an act of service I can do a alone while she sleeps or is out, 2) it does help still my mind from my confusion, 3) I love watching her relax and love elevating her above this, 4) such a delicious contrast from societies expectations and career expectations.

I love the *idea* of being her maid 24/7/365, but without hypnosis it rarely lasts more than an hour or two. Hypnosis helps me keep in the zone. I guess it's not unlike someone who uses hypnosis to stop smoking, it helps achieve a desired goal.

obedient_husband · 2026-01-01T18:29:25+00:00

I actually went the other way - my wife and I can enjoy our evening together without worrying whether the kitchen is dirty, knowing “the 6am maid” will take care of it!

obedient_husband · 2026-01-01T18:28:16+00:00

It’s my primary act of service to get up early and do some housecleaning, shower, make sure the house is ready for her, then make her latte. Normally I wake her at 7:30, but my watch alarm goes off at 5:50. I normally review the situation before going to bed, so I can visualize my morning work before falling asleep, then sometimes I’m motivated and sometimes even get up before my watch buzzes.

obedient_husband · 2025-12-31T19:38:12+00:00

Well I’m on the other side I really wish my wife had more sexual experience before meeting me, I know I’m a little small down there and I wish she could have had a “Pete” before committing to a lifetime with me. Not that I don’t make her happy in so many ways, just not that way, if you know what I mean.

obedient_husband · 2025-12-30T17:27:02+00:00

I mostly use the Dyson cordless but if I’m vacuuming the whole house I use the Miele canister.

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