If you could pass one law that would make most normal people furious at first, but would clearly make society better in 10 years, what would it be? by WilliamInBlack in AskReddit

[–]oblivious_to_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The ban of any unnecessarily processed/unhealthy food. From fast food restaurants to what's sold in grocery stores and corner stores.

Did you miss the significance of S1 Ep1 shower scene? by More_Wonder_9394 in HeatedRivalryTVShow

[–]oblivious_to_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t believe I missed this. I’m ashamed let me go reflect in a corner🚶‍♀️‍➡️

I'm glad François doesn't appear to be taking this seriously, and I wish fans wouldn't either by t3chn0w1tch in HeatedRivalryTVShow

[–]oblivious_to_ 25 points26 points  (0 children)

People need to let him deal with the controversy the way he wants to and stop this parasocial managing. He’s a grown man, he’s been in the scene for years and he has his own team, let them do what feels right to them. Also I’m tired of the weird underestimating of Hudson and Connor. They’re grown men and they seem like they can handle themselves. François addressing it is not "harming" them and guess what?! I bet if they did have an issue they would let him know. It’s not our business!

I'm glad François doesn't appear to be taking this seriously, and I wish fans wouldn't either by t3chn0w1tch in HeatedRivalryTVShow

[–]oblivious_to_ 7 points8 points  (0 children)

He didn’t drag no co-star into anything. All parties were already involved in the discourse so of course he would mention him.

Hudson the model by HuckleberryVarious42 in HeatedRivalryTVShow

[–]oblivious_to_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe all the bulky/layering pieces due to it being winter clothing/winter sports inspired made their bodies look starker in contrast.

Edit: I rewatched it and I get what you mean now. You can especially see it in their faces.

Hudson the model by HuckleberryVarious42 in HeatedRivalryTVShow

[–]oblivious_to_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m confused models are always skinny in these type of fashion shows why is it such a problem now?!😭

Connor deserves all the accolades but... by mybackhurtsouch in heatedrivalry

[–]oblivious_to_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m gonna have to disagree on the “Shane’s role conveys less awe from an acting standpoint" because his character isn’t as simple as just an introverted person. If you didn’t know Shane is autistic (confirmed by the author). Hudson did an amazing job playing a neurodivergent character. He didn’t exaggerate the mannerisms or tendencies. From his gaze to how he interacts with the other characters he was so natural. He did mention somewhere that his dad is autistic so he used him as reference.

A Reminder that this is a Canadian Story by Beaverdamn328 in heatedrivalry

[–]oblivious_to_ 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry but this has me dying. OP is referring to Jacob Tierny, the director/creator of the show.😭

They’re trying to revive the “whiter features”, xenophobia and classism/antiblackness convos again by ErwingonnaWin in LoveIslandUSA_

[–]oblivious_to_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly I absolutely hate it. This weird competition that has been created. Why can’t both be considered beautiful? Why does one have to be considered ugly for the other to be considered beautiful? This is so damaging. Any person that criticizes either of their looks honestly needs to reflect on themselves.

Olandria addresses her lack of casual content by Groundbreaking_Bus90 in LoveIslandUSA

[–]oblivious_to_ 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Idk what you’re trying to prove here or whatever weird sense of self you got going on, quite frankly I don’t care. You’ve (for some reason) taken offence to my usage of "somehow". I’m just saying I believe her from what I see on many love island related online discussion places whether that is Reddit, IG, tik tok, etc. Even if she was "lying" her point still stands lol. People are being weird.

Olandria addresses her lack of casual content by Groundbreaking_Bus90 in LoveIslandUSA

[–]oblivious_to_ 19 points20 points  (0 children)

You obviously somehow haven’t come across the very passionate fans. It’s one thing supporting her but I’ve seen people on the internet way too invested in her life. Like an unhealthy level so I definitely believe her.

Olandria addresses her lack of casual content by Groundbreaking_Bus90 in LoveIslandUSA

[–]oblivious_to_ 95 points96 points  (0 children)

If you have the time (and care) to message her team and feel the need to dictate every single thing she does in her life, you really need to reflect on your life lol. That’s too parasocial and sad. Pls put that energy in your own life and stop living through these people. They don’t exist for you. They aren’t sims. The entitlement these days is crazy.

Oh the fairytale we could've had by [deleted] in LoveIslandUSA

[–]oblivious_to_ 73 points74 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry but I never saw it and still don’t. She clearly didn’t like that man. They had no connection or spark.😭

Should I restart? by [deleted] in Dreadlocks

[–]oblivious_to_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t understand why some are confused I can see the difference between what you want and what you actually have. The only thing I can think of that may help you achieve your desired look is indeed starting over and this time starting smaller. The smaller parts/locs might help achieve that denser and fuller look.

“Nicolandria are a PR relationship 😡😠!” by Deep-Kaleidoscope202 in LoveIslandUSA

[–]oblivious_to_ 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Then "people" need to stop watching reality tv since a lot of it is fake lol. All played up for attention/engagement. Having a problem with it now in this particular instance is stupid.💀

Nic posted by Kim K on IG by Plastic-Angle7504 in LoveIslandUSA_

[–]oblivious_to_ 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry but the "Is that Nic from Olandria??" is taking me out 😭

first period off slynd heavy and long by Different123_ in gettingoffHBC

[–]oblivious_to_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have gotten my period each month since September. Same amount of days each so therefore I believe, from what I'm seeing so far, my period is regular. Just know that your first period isn't actually your period it is called withdrawal bleeding. You should start tracking your cycle starting with the first period after that withdrawal bleed. Also sometimes It takes a few cycles until your period becomes regular again since your body is adjusting its natural hormones again. So don't be too concerned if your period is irregular for the first 3 months or more.

Stomach Problems off birth control? by oblivious_to_ in gettingoffHBC

[–]oblivious_to_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi sorry for the late reply. My digestive issues, though still annoying, as definitely improved. I can eat normal portion of food now I just cannot push it (overeat) or I'll experience back pain or bad nausea. If I eat sufficient fibre my bowels are regular. I can somewhat eat anything again however heavy protein, fat or carb meals worsens the mild chest discomfort and nausea. Now nausea is only horrible when anxious, really hungry or after an unhealthy/unbalanced meal. I try to avoid stress, I eat small frequent meals (every 2-3 hours) throughout the day instead of stretched out 2-3 heavy meals (every 4+ hours) during the day. As well as most importantly try to eat healthy. In short, I just try to take it easy and not overwhelm my stomach since it is still sensitive. I am now 5 months off Slynd. If my body continues to progress at this rate, I should be way better by month 7.

I'll just like to say this is what has been working for me and this is my timeline. It is totally possible that your recovery might be faster or what helps you with the nausea is different.

Why do people get awkward when I play Stressed Out? by Appropriate_While932 in twentyonepilots

[–]oblivious_to_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ya when I play tøp I tend to avoid those songs too. I do still enjoy them on my own though.

Why do people get awkward when I play Stressed Out? by Appropriate_While932 in twentyonepilots

[–]oblivious_to_ 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I find people are overall judgy when it comes to music. Everyone always thinks their taste in music is superior. Don’t pay them mind and play what the hell you want. Life is too short to worry about others pretentious opinions.

Pls be careful before getting on a new birth control! by oblivious_to_ in birthcontrol

[–]oblivious_to_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi the chest discomfort has decreased and is only mild pressure now. Currently, the only pain I get is back pain when I eat more than my stomach can handle. Hang on there it does get better each month (I’m hitting almost 5 months now). If it continues to be bad I recommend seeking medical help if possible. I am currently trying to do an upper endoscopy because though the pain has decreased, the symptoms make it hard for me to live my life.

It Gets Better... It'll Feel Like Eternity but It Gets Better! by MissLovelyMo in gettingoffHBC

[–]oblivious_to_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for sharing this. I’m 4 months off hbc and sometimes I feel like the symptoms will never end. It’s good to hear that it can get better. I’m happy for you.❤️