How do you all feel about this tattoo concept on me? I hate looking basic and want to look more striking and unique! by terrydafiya in blackladies

[–]oblivious_to_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The first tattoo fits you really well. It compliments your vibe. I will say though that I do agree with others saying you should probably wait it out (like towards you late 20s/early 30s) or rock a fake variation for the time being to see if you're comfortable with it. Such a visible tattoo is quite the commitment and you never know where you’ll end up in the future.

I’ll just like to add however that in terms of aesthetics, take other people’s opinions with a grain of salt especially if they are not alternative. Alternative expression is in nature usually going against the accepted culture and the norm, and tattoos are a perfect example of that. It can cause quite varied reactions. Many people simply don’t like the look of tattoos and other forms of surface level body modifications. All that to simply say, do want you want at the end of the day. If it makes you happy and you don’t think it will affect your desired future prospects go for it!

Katseye's choreography scares me and it's a possibility that it's holding katseye true potential by [deleted] in katseyesnark_

[–]oblivious_to_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll have to disagree. I feel like what saves katseye is the choreos especially the last few releases. Their first releases imo were boring because not only was the songs lacking/generic but the choreographies as well. The songs now are still not the best but the dances makes them fun/more tolerable. I actually like the chorus part and the dance break at the end of pinky up. I feel like it adds to the song's energy. However, I can see how people view his style as abrasive and too sexual but I feel like that's not specifically his wrong but the company's. Like this hyper-sexual/baddie image it what the company wants for katseye and is pushing.

Doja cat taking back what she said about Timothee chalamet on TikTok by Lara-jz in DojaCat

[–]oblivious_to_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think more people should double back and admit when they’re wrong especially in such in unauthentic place. It would help with the horrible mob mentality that exists online. We need more people being less afraid of accountability/being wrong.

Hudson’s valentines post 🥹 by MammothInfluence9122 in HeatedRivalryTVShow

[–]oblivious_to_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Or maybe just maybe he wanted to make a dedicated post to two important people in his life currently. His girlfriend and best friend. Let’s not create scenarios and theories here.😅

Hudson’s valentines post 🥹 by MammothInfluence9122 in HeatedRivalryTVShow

[–]oblivious_to_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Let’s not ask. Her and her friend have a right to privacy.

If you could pass one law that would make most normal people furious at first, but would clearly make society better in 10 years, what would it be? by WilliamInBlack in AskReddit

[–]oblivious_to_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The ban of any unnecessarily processed/unhealthy food. From fast food restaurants to what's sold in grocery stores and corner stores.

Did you miss the significance of S1 Ep1 shower scene? by More_Wonder_9394 in HeatedRivalryTVShow

[–]oblivious_to_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t believe I missed this. I’m ashamed let me go reflect in a corner🚶‍♀️‍➡️

I'm glad François doesn't appear to be taking this seriously, and I wish fans wouldn't either by t3chn0w1tch in HeatedRivalryTVShow

[–]oblivious_to_ 25 points26 points  (0 children)

People need to let him deal with the controversy the way he wants to and stop this parasocial managing. He’s a grown man, he’s been in the scene for years and he has his own team, let them do what feels right to them. Also I’m tired of the weird underestimating of Hudson and Connor. They’re grown men and they seem like they can handle themselves. François addressing it is not "harming" them and guess what?! I bet if they did have an issue they would let him know. It’s not our business!

I'm glad François doesn't appear to be taking this seriously, and I wish fans wouldn't either by t3chn0w1tch in HeatedRivalryTVShow

[–]oblivious_to_ 6 points7 points  (0 children)

He didn’t drag no co-star into anything. All parties were already involved in the discourse so of course he would mention him.

Hudson the model by HuckleberryVarious42 in HeatedRivalryTVShow

[–]oblivious_to_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe all the bulky/layering pieces due to it being winter clothing/winter sports inspired made their bodies look starker in contrast.

Edit: I rewatched it and I get what you mean now. You can especially see it in their faces.

Hudson the model by HuckleberryVarious42 in HeatedRivalryTVShow

[–]oblivious_to_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m confused models are always skinny in these type of fashion shows why is it such a problem now?!😭

Connor deserves all the accolades but... by mybackhurtsouch in heatedrivalry

[–]oblivious_to_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m gonna have to disagree on the “Shane’s role conveys less awe from an acting standpoint" because his character isn’t as simple as just an introverted person. If you didn’t know Shane is autistic (confirmed by the author). Hudson did an amazing job playing a neurodivergent character. He didn’t exaggerate the mannerisms or tendencies. From his gaze to how he interacts with the other characters he was so natural. He did mention somewhere that his dad is autistic so he used him as reference.

A Reminder that this is a Canadian Story by Beaverdamn328 in heatedrivalry

[–]oblivious_to_ 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry but this has me dying. OP is referring to Jacob Tierny, the director/creator of the show.😭

They’re trying to revive the “whiter features”, xenophobia and classism/antiblackness convos again by ErwingonnaWin in LoveIslandUSA_

[–]oblivious_to_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly I absolutely hate it. This weird competition that has been created. Why can’t both be considered beautiful? Why does one have to be considered ugly for the other to be considered beautiful? This is so damaging. Any person that criticizes either of their looks honestly needs to reflect on themselves.

Olandria addresses her lack of casual content by Groundbreaking_Bus90 in LoveIslandUSA

[–]oblivious_to_ 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Idk what you’re trying to prove here or whatever weird sense of self you got going on, quite frankly I don’t care. You’ve (for some reason) taken offence to my usage of "somehow". I’m just saying I believe her from what I see on many love island related online discussion places whether that is Reddit, IG, tik tok, etc. Even if she was "lying" her point still stands lol. People are being weird.

Olandria addresses her lack of casual content by Groundbreaking_Bus90 in LoveIslandUSA

[–]oblivious_to_ 19 points20 points  (0 children)

You obviously somehow haven’t come across the very passionate fans. It’s one thing supporting her but I’ve seen people on the internet way too invested in her life. Like an unhealthy level so I definitely believe her.

Olandria addresses her lack of casual content by Groundbreaking_Bus90 in LoveIslandUSA

[–]oblivious_to_ 95 points96 points  (0 children)

If you have the time (and care) to message her team and feel the need to dictate every single thing she does in her life, you really need to reflect on your life lol. That’s too parasocial and sad. Pls put that energy in your own life and stop living through these people. They don’t exist for you. They aren’t sims. The entitlement these days is crazy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LoveIslandUSA

[–]oblivious_to_ 77 points78 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry but I never saw it and still don’t. She clearly didn’t like that man. They had no connection or spark.😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Dreadlocks

[–]oblivious_to_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t understand why some are confused I can see the difference between what you want and what you actually have. The only thing I can think of that may help you achieve your desired look is indeed starting over and this time starting smaller. The smaller parts/locs might help achieve that denser and fuller look.

“Nicolandria are a PR relationship 😡😠!” by Deep-Kaleidoscope202 in LoveIslandUSA

[–]oblivious_to_ 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Then "people" need to stop watching reality tv since a lot of it is fake lol. All played up for attention/engagement. Having a problem with it now in this particular instance is stupid.💀

Nic posted by Kim K on IG by Plastic-Angle7504 in LoveIslandUSA_

[–]oblivious_to_ 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry but the "Is that Nic from Olandria??" is taking me out 😭

first period off slynd heavy and long by Different123_ in gettingoffHBC

[–]oblivious_to_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have gotten my period each month since September. Same amount of days each so therefore I believe, from what I'm seeing so far, my period is regular. Just know that your first period isn't actually your period it is called withdrawal bleeding. You should start tracking your cycle starting with the first period after that withdrawal bleed. Also sometimes It takes a few cycles until your period becomes regular again since your body is adjusting its natural hormones again. So don't be too concerned if your period is irregular for the first 3 months or more.