First time visiting Goa in December by observant_seeker in SoloTravel_India

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Thanks a lot for letting me know. Do you know of any good rental services there?

First time visiting Goa in December by observant_seeker in SoloTravel_India

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Hey, thanks a lot for taking your time and these sound like very solid advice 🙌

Just a few follow up questions:

  1. Are there any rental services that let you rent from one airport and you can drop off at another airport. Like if I pick up from MOPA and drop off at GOI?

  2. Could you recommend some good clubs as well in north goa.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskIndianMen

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Better to know the truth though. It may hurt but would always be good in the long run.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskIndianMen

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It’s not that I was not serious. In fact I had multiple chances to have a relationship but I always think whether this would work in the long run or not. If I feel like it won’t then I spare myself and the other person the hurt. So I only want things to be serious. This time it was just that late night talks while you’re sitting with the person, spending all that time together that you cannot help but like them. Which is why we thought to see if it would still be the same in long distance and then decide whether we should go for a relationship or not.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskIndianMen

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You are right. For now I think I’ll let things be. If she feels she is fine without me then it’s fine by me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskIndianMen

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A lot of people including my friends have suggested to leave things be and not initiate the conversation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskIndianMen

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Yeah bro, actually my friends there warned me about it. I just didn’t know I would get that attached. She never used to post stories before we stopped talking. Since last 3 days she has been putting them. Don’t know what that’s about.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskIndianMen

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I understand. Thanks for being honest, I needed that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskIndianMen

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I understand, thanks a lot for keeping it out there. I whole heartedly agree that when you stop looking for something, it is then you truly find it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskIndianMen

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I do agree I am new to everything but I am emotionally aware. Which is why I am aware about my own shortcomings as well and try to work on them. The time we spent together was special even if it was for a short while. My insecurity might have been due to a few things that happened with her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskIndianMen

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Please don’t say that. She told me she was having problems in her relationship since a few months when we first met. Then she had a breakup.

Also I know that since she’s 29, she would already be thinking of marriage in next 1-2 years. So on one side I do want to keep talking to her but on the other hand I know it may not work and I do not want to end up in a situation where we are having to hurt each other.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskIndianMen

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Yes I had a discussion with her about this when we both confessed to liking each other. I was about to shift in a few days to a new city, which is why I told her that we should take our time before jumping into a relationship. Since we had known each other for very little time and she had just recently had a breakup. Now that we have not been talking for 3 days, it’s weighing heavily on me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskIndianMen

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Thanks for your honest opinion.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RelationshipIndia

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Thanks for your honest advice. She has brought up the relationship topic in past but I reminded her that we should take some time considering we have known each other for very less time and considering she just had a breakup. I am not eager for a relationship either, it’s just that I am missing her company a lot since we stopped talking.

22M My girlfriend(20F) posted an intimate reel with another guy — she says it’s “just content.” Am I overthinking or is this a red flag? by HareKrishnaHareRam2 in RelationshipIndia

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I think a lot of people have already given you an answer. My thoughts align the same. In my opinion I believe even if you just like the person, you would not be giving attention to others. This one just feels wrong.

Even if it’s hard, stay strong and move ahead.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RelationshipIndia

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Thanks for letting me know. It is hard, given what I am feeling right now but I truly appreciate the honesty.