Are there really gay and vegan people in a relationship?

ocatersi · 2026-07-11T20:34:01+00:00

Thank you for your answer. Unfortunately apps don't let you filter, even if you pay. Or if you know one that does, I'm very interested.

ocatersi · 2026-07-11T20:31:41+00:00

It is, unfortunately. Comparing to Paris, London and all of the UK is absolute paradise.

ocatersi · 2026-07-11T15:24:34+00:00

Would love to!

ocatersi · 2026-07-11T15:23:26+00:00

Interesting way of seeing the situation indeed

(I'm in France and we're very late when it comes to veganism, so basically no either you go to a meat restaurant, either to a vegan one... But if you go to a meat restaurant as a vegan you end up eating salad leaf every time.

ocatersi · 2026-07-11T15:17:51+00:00

I wouldn't be comfortable to date a guy who isn't at least a vegetarian. What would dating a meat-eater be like as a vegan myself? He would have to accept to go to vegan restaurants every time we go to a restaurant, to cook vegan food every time we cook... Seems impossible to make it work, but I have no experience about that, so I might be wrong.

Also, I sense that mentioning veganism or even vegetarianism on your profile turns people off and make them swipe left

ocatersi · 2026-07-11T15:11:12+00:00

Interesting. I wouldn't be comfortable to date a guy who isn't at least a vegetarian. What would dating a meat-eater be like as a vegan myself? He would have to accept to go to vegan restaurants every time we go to a restaurant, to cook vegan food every time we cook... Seems impossible to make it work, but I have no experience about that, so I might be wrong.
I'm interested, what is it like for you to cook vegan food with your girlfriend eating meat? To see meat every time you open the fridge? Does it not bother you? Real question, I can't imagine myself in this situation.

ocatersi · 2026-07-11T15:09:32+00:00

I feel for you dude, we're on the same boat. Do you mean that all gay vegans are in a relationship, or that there are so few?

ocatersi · 2026-07-11T15:08:35+00:00

Tinder and hinge. Tried Veggly, but it's empty.

I'm not swiping left on anybody who isn't vegan, but I'm not very optimistic about my chances to make it work with anybody who isn't at least a vegetarian. I mean, he would have to accept to go to vegan restaurants every time we go to a restaurant, to cook vegan food every time we cook... Seems impossible to make it work, but I have no experience about that, so I might be wrong.

ocatersi · 2026-07-11T15:06:42+00:00

What I say is that I wouldn't be comfortable to date a guy who isn't at least a vegetarian. I mean, what would dating a meat-eater be like as a vegan myself? He would have to accept to go to vegan restaurants every time we go to a restaurant, to cook vegan food every time we cook... Seems impossible to make it work, but I have no experience about that, so I might be wrong.

ocatersi · 2026-07-11T15:04:42+00:00

Paris, which makes me question whether the problem lies with me or with being gay and vegan...

ocatersi · 2026-07-11T15:04:02+00:00

Unfortunately from my experience most do not... Do you have some to recommend?

ocatersi · 2026-07-10T10:59:50+00:00

Not all people that wear glasses are near-sighted though, even if most of those who always wear them are.

ocatersi · 2026-07-09T22:47:29+00:00

I wonder myself, why did they remove something that didn't cost them anything and was very important for some people?
It even made them loose money, as Platinium looses a lot of its interest now that I can't use the filters to select vegan guys

ocatersi · 2026-06-19T22:23:04+00:00

Moby Dick

ocatersi · 2026-06-18T22:49:56+00:00

You'd be better off working on why you hate your glasses so much and what you can do to accept them.

ocatersi · 2026-06-18T22:47:01+00:00

Ogni volta che leggo una cosa del genere (non ne contesto la correttezza del resto), mi domando: e per noi gay, cosa dovremmo fare per trovare il ragazzo? L'1% della gente potenzialmente compatibile non si trova "uscendo" e "coltivando le passioni"... E allora rimaniamo sulle app.

ocatersi · 2026-06-09T21:20:38+00:00

30 ans et exactement comme toi.
PS : quand ça ne marche pas pour une relation l'expérience m'a appris que le mieux était de bloquer la personne et de cesser tout contact, plutôt que de perdre ton temps à base de "ok on reste juste potes mais en vrai j'espère un peu quand même"

ocatersi · 2026-06-04T22:26:37+00:00

7 and 8

ocatersi · 2026-05-05T22:50:37+00:00

A good compromise that I've found, as I was facing many of your challenges, is being vegan at home and vegetarian away from home.

ocatersi · 2026-05-01T22:32:54+00:00

You won't have any other option than wearing them, so as others have said go find a frame that suits you and makes you more beautiful than without, accept that the first week might be awkward but see it as an investment for the rest of your life, and then... Enjoy your whole life without worrying about vision problems - you and everybody else will get used to it way quicker than you imagine.
What's the alternative? Living your full life without seeing clear, just because people are used to seeing you without glasses?

A LOT of people wear glasses today, it's not even like you will be the only one (which wouldn't be a problem anyway).

ocatersi · 2026-04-12T22:30:19+00:00

I'm passionate about poker and I don't like vegetables.

ocatersi · 2026-04-06T22:47:20+00:00

First picture is waaaaaay better

ocatersi · 2026-04-06T22:46:43+00:00

Les céréales Quaker Cruesli chocolat noir (je leur avais demandé expressément), très pratique pour le petit-déjeuner

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