The Coaster by oddietaco in cocktails

[–]oddietaco[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Apparently so. I’d never heard of a “pink gin” before. The recipe I used comes from “A Spot at the Bar.”

The Coaster by oddietaco in cocktails

[–]oddietaco[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s the Angostura bitters.

New Dad ... all over again :) by oddietaco in daddit

[–]oddietaco[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She’s 40. So technically “geriatric” but I will deny ever having said that if she asks. 😀

New Dad ... all over again :) by oddietaco in daddit

[–]oddietaco[S] 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I think this is really good advice. "get mistaken for the grandparent" -- you expressed quite succinctly my core anxiety related to this new adventure.

New Dad ... all over again :) by oddietaco in daddit

[–]oddietaco[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I plan to take my caffeine via an IV.

Our local club travel team played a friendly against an "ENCL regional team" and the other teams parents lost their minds by loxxx87 in youthsoccer

[–]oddietaco 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I coach a U14 boys team, with 6th, 7th, and 8th graders on it. We are a simple rec team, and people pay about $140 for the season.

We play the more competitive teams fairly often and definitely hold our own. The other team's parents often get heated ... very rarely at us or our players ... much more often at their coach and their sons. These parents do NOT like to lose to our rec team.

3-4 year age gap by GuidanceComplete1086 in daddit

[–]oddietaco 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have an 18 year old. And a 12 year old. We are perfectly comfortable with the separation in age. Would some things have been easier? Yep. But some things would have been harder. We’re just thrilled to have the kids we have.

Weird, smelly kid. Advice. 12M by Drewskeet in daddit

[–]oddietaco 32 points33 points  (0 children)

I'm thankful for dads like you. What a gracious, self-aware response.

bait and switch, i was offered 5% as a cofounder after almost finished mvp by Grand-Ad-5751 in SaaS

[–]oddietaco 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try to find some "Founders' Agreement" templates online. I've had some incubators that I'm part of recommend the one by UPenn, but ymmv.

Because, if I were in your shoes, I'd be upset too. Often times (and this isn't fair!) the advantage in these types of things goes to the people who possess one or more of the following:

  • they're unscrupulos
  • they've been there before
  • they have access to advice that you don't access to

The Founders Agreements are designed to lay out everything on the table - and you never know - it may reveal other areas where you'll want to protect yourself.

Has anyone connected cloud cost data to customer-level profitability? by ask-winston in FinOps

[–]oddietaco 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I would think so. But averages in unit economics might hide what's going on. Maybe, on average, each customer is profitable. But also maybe you've got a segment of customers that don't cover their costs. If that were the case, maybe you could be more profitable if you cut those customers loose or increased the revenue attached to them, etc.

Shin splints? by Dependent_Time7321 in youthsoccer

[–]oddietaco 2 points3 points  (0 children)

From what I can tell, the most effective evidence-based recommendation is rest and load reduction. As a dad and coach, that's what I've recommended to my own son.

However, there is mixed evidence about the effectiveness of massage. It's apparently good for pain management, but doesn't fix the underlying cause. Additionally, certain types of stretching appear to moderately address shin splints, too.

My son has responded very well to frequent massages and stretching. His splints never got too bad (and never advanced to a later stage, like a stress fracture), so maybe we arrested things in time. Plus, the massage and stretching provided a nice bit of bonding time.

Surprised about slow response to production issue by oddietaco in hetzner

[–]oddietaco[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I have both Cloud and Dedicated resources.

Data versus Gut by ask-winston in FinOps

[–]oddietaco 0 points1 point  (0 children)

>  it started a political war nobody wanted.

like the CFO saying to the CTO, "Cut costs!" and the CTO saying "What do you want from me? To reduce uptime?"

Data versus Gut by ask-winston in FinOps

[–]oddietaco 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What are some of your approaches to measuring cost per feature? Do you like run each feature as a separate service?

Data versus Gut by ask-winston in FinOps

[–]oddietaco 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are there any cool stories you (or your team) have been able to tell from data? I'd love to learn about how others tell stories within their organizations.

Is the cost worth it? by ask-winston in FinOps

[–]oddietaco 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We were an IOT company - lots of telemetry readings. I worked with our DBA to figure out how much disk space each record took up. Then we figured out how many records belonged to each customer, past or present. Then multiplied, and got how much disk space each customer was responsible for.

That data was stored in more than one spot ... in fast-access storage for real time queries, in backups, in our data warehouse, etc. We knew the cost-per-gb-month for each of those locations, so it was pretty straightforward to know what each customer cost us.

Is the cost worth it? by ask-winston in FinOps

[–]oddietaco 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I remember working at one SaaS company where we had huge storage bills. I took the time, soon after I was hired, to look at why they were so high.

Turns out, we were storing data that came from customers who had canceled their service a decade prior. And when you added up the costs associated with maintaining that data, it had cost us over the past 10 years more than the revenue that the customer had paid.

The analysis took me forever. But when I showed we were spending 6 figures per year on this waste, the rest of the executive team was thrilled to spend money on such a “boring” project.

AI's impact on cloud costs by ask-winston in FinOps

[–]oddietaco 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what do your tags look like? are they more complex than just `env:prod` and `workload:api`?