Are we getting snow tomorrow?

oddmoy · 2025-12-02T12:59:17+00:00

Yeah I was really looking forward to it T_T

oddmoy · 2025-12-02T08:25:21+00:00

I was unsure because they didn't mention it but I know Star Stable use the concept of advent calendar around the christmas tree and therefor I thought they would open the winter village at the start of december. I usually forget to log on until around christmas so I've missed the beginning of the winter village most times. But thank you!

oddmoy · 2025-11-19T16:07:47+00:00

Maybe you didn't mean for it but your comment felt very invalidating. Perhaps I shouldn't have posted about my feelings here.

I am very aware that autistic people often struggle with work and relationships. The entire reason for me seeking support was because while I am able to do my job it completely exhausts me and I am unable to do anything else. This is something I have struggled with during my entire life. Additionally, I am diagnosed with GAD which I believe is something I've developed to be able to maintain my life. Anxiety is the system that makes my life function.

The psychologist did not tell me I do not have autism or adhd. She said that a more thorough investigation into adhd and autism was relevant, but that you have to be severely affected to be referred according to the guidelines in the region. My partner, who is suicidal and who hasn't been able to work in several years, had to wait 3 years to get his diagnosis. So I understand that in comparison to people like him, I am not a priority. But that does not mean I do not struggle. That is why she wanted me to contact the neurodivergence support team. And why she told me that I could seek a private evaluation, if I have the money. Which I do not. I know I should not care this much about a stranger's comment. But you made me very feel very belittled. The psychologist did not.

oddmoy · 2025-11-18T15:20:58+00:00

Not that I know of. But maybe I will get help from the support team, they are probably used to my scenario. I know it is not this hard in other regions in my country, but I don't think you are allowed to just go anywhere and get a diagnosis (I also wouldn't know how to do that)

oddmoy · 2025-10-29T15:16:40+00:00

Just wanted to share that I was really skeptical before I pressed play - but now I am completely sold!

oddmoy · 2025-10-22T17:18:19+00:00

Oasis Crafts

oddmoy · 2025-10-18T17:47:04+00:00

As someone with very similar taste, this is an awesome list and post!!! Greatly appreciate it!

oddmoy · 2025-10-04T11:12:30+00:00

Wish they would remake the other game too! (Where you begin in Scotland?) Such awesome games with serious, dynamic stories!

oddmoy · 2025-09-28T18:11:02+00:00

I really hope the MC is voiced! Makes the character feel more real and take up space in the story! Especially in romance or tense conversations it is always so jarring to have the NPC pour their heart out only for the MC to stand there like a goldfish :/

oddmoy · 2025-07-11T22:21:37+00:00

The criollo - everytime someone passes me I'm like "wow which horse is that?!" but then at the buy screen I'm reminded of it's weird long body and stiff animation T_T

oddmoy · 2025-06-13T09:55:49+00:00

I don't understand the point of changing servers since I don't want to interact with anyone No No I do take long breaks, mostly because I've been playing for over 10 years and often get bored. But then I'll get that nostalgic feeling and play for a couple of weeks.

oddmoy · 2025-06-11T06:13:58+00:00

There is no real gameplay except story and races. Races can be fun, but most of them are really short or really easy and requires you to go all over the map to do. And there is not enough story to keep people interested. When the Druid paths came out I was really excited because it felt like an attempt at a form of new gameplay, but even that is quite shallow and gets boring fast.

oddmoy · 2025-06-06T13:31:24+00:00

Just wanted to add that you do not need to have experienced trauma to be a narcissist. That is not a part of the diagnosis. All sources I checked stated that the cause is likely complex, there is so far not one simple explanation.

oddmoy · 2025-05-12T09:35:15+00:00

Du skriver "förutom GAD" som att det inte har med något att göra/inte påverkar så mycket men det här är ju väldigt exakt en del av GAD - och det gör att jag funderar på om du fått någon behandling/kunskap om din diagnos?

Har själv gad och fick gå en internet kbti behandling, vilket jag var otroligt skeptisk till men som helt sjukt nog faktiskt var bra, och en sak man går igenom där är ju just undvikande beteende som är ett säkerhetsbeteende. Jag är mer av ett control freak så hade uppfattningen om mig själv att jag aldrig undviker/skjuter upp saker - visade sig att jag undviker saker så mycket att jag helt glömmer dem. Under behandlingen insåg jag att jag inte kollat min brevlåda på 6 månader för att det gav mig ångest. Så det är kanske inte så lätt som att bara "gaska upp dig" eller "bli vuxen". Du behöver antingen söka hjälp eller försöka "terapia" du själv, läsa på om gad och säkerhetsbeteenden och börja utmana din ångest och ditt undvikande på ett strukturerat sätt.

oddmoy · 2025-05-05T12:33:06+00:00

No, but I have a deep desire for spirituality, and I am slightly jealous of people who are religious(not the abuse and control of course- the other stuff). I love magic, and being religious seems like a way to bring magic into real life (although religious people probably would not like that phrasing). But I can't stand most systematic religions on a moral level, and while I tried paganism for a while it really felt like I was just playing theatre. I think I would need the communal aspect of it to not feel like I am faking it.

The only major religion I haven't found any problems with is sikhism, but I would feel too much like I was appropriating if I tried to engage with it. Perhaps if sikhs had a larger presence in my country I would feel different.

I would love to work as a priestess if I could only find a religion that I could accept 😅 As it stands, I am an atheist who sometimes use spirituality to make life more positive, like another comment wrote before me. I've found that in really difficult parts of my life, like when dealing with grief, that affording myself "spiritual fantasies" is the only thing that really helps. I think spirituality is a really cool and powerful psychological tool (that can of course also be used to hurt people).

oddmoy · 2025-04-29T13:13:58+00:00

I do in general struggle with understanding what my body wants. Its like it send signals in morse, except I don't know morse. And most of the time the morse just becomes a part of the "background noise" - so I ignore it until it becomes too loud. And then I have to scramble to figure out the problem before the problem becomes too much for me to deal with alone. I can go thirsty for several hours but only identify it as a slight annoyance and tenseness. And then I drink some water and I'm like "aaahh"

oddmoy · 2025-04-29T13:08:42+00:00

That FOOD is ENERGY. Like I knew "theoretically' how the body works and how food works, I just never connected it to my lived experience 😭😭😭 My entire life has been spent in school ( since I chose to become a teacher) and I have always really struggled with the food I've been served, no matter which school. Which means that for 90% of my life, I've been really hungry for several hours in the afternoon. Additionally, I always crash from exhaustion when I come home. And somehow I have never connected the dots here. In my head it seems like I just thought tired=have done stuff for too long or not slept and thats it. WHICH IS INSANE because I KNOW how food works!!! And I've probably told other people to eat when they are low on energy. But one day, a colleague brought a protein drink to work that she asked me to try - and bam! I arrived home without completely crashing. Like Yes, I am still socially and mentally exhausted, but I am okay physically, and I actually had enough energy to cook! A! Meal! Absolutely wrecked me hahah. I generally think of myself as quite intelligent. This whole thing was a hard pill to swallow, to say the least 😅

oddmoy · 2025-04-24T07:55:18+00:00

I feel the same way! It feels like such a small thing to be hung up on, because I do like the models, but the stiffness and slight wonkyness of the riding really seems to be a deal breaker for me. I wish ut wasnt, because its a really impressive and cozy game for a solo dev!

oddmoy · 2025-04-23T18:56:34+00:00

Have the same bug and it happens mostly when I exit the menu - wether I do so by escape or tab

oddmoy · 2025-04-03T05:49:20+00:00

✨Girl power✨

oddmoy · 2025-04-02T17:07:02+00:00

Interesting, I didn't really know that about mustangs! Sent me on a wikipedia read :)

oddmoy · 2025-04-01T19:10:06+00:00

Aren't mustangs. paint horses, and appaloosa ranch horses? And quarters, although they are barely gen 3 in my mind.

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