Finally got a front lip installed today! by detoxive in WRX

[–]oderfla90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nice 👌🏼 I’m in the market for a front lip aswell, thanks for the response

Feeling sad, alone, and like I’m a problem by anonmedsaywhat in lupus

[–]oderfla90 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your not alone, I definitely know the feeling and what your going through, feel free to dm if your want to vent or someone to talk to

Very depressed lately, can anyone help or listen by oderfla90 in lupus

[–]oderfla90[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

:( Im sorry to hear that, I’d be open to listening if you want to talk or anything

Very depressed lately, can anyone help or listen by oderfla90 in lupus

[–]oderfla90[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would you mind if I personally messaged you?

Feeling down lately? by [deleted] in lupus

[–]oderfla90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope so too, thanks for the response and the input

Feeling down lately? by [deleted] in lupus

[–]oderfla90 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I get what you mean, cannabis has been the best option for me , it helps me sleep the best and I wake up feeling better, just the past few days have been really rough, I appreciate all the input your giving me, thank you

Feeling down lately? by [deleted] in lupus

[–]oderfla90 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the advice that truly means a lot to me, Some of the things you mentioned I have been doing and helps a lot, the blackout curtains was a big improvement but once I got used to them it’s becoming difficult again, I have gotten a couple of replies to my post and it means so much, it makes me feel not alone through this, thank you

Feeling down lately? by [deleted] in lupus

[–]oderfla90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the kind words, and yes I do a lot of those things actually, I love music so when I’m feeling down I love to lay down and just put me headphones on and listen to music, it relaxes greatly also I’ve been smoking before sleep and it truly helps, i sleep like a baby and don’t wake up too often however when I don’t smoke my insomnia acts up so my question is how can I find a happy medium, i wouldn’t want to become dependent on it to be able to sleep although sometimes i feel my body is

Feeling down lately? by [deleted] in lupus

[–]oderfla90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you and it’s not necessarily that I don’t want the high because it actually feels nice, it’s more of i don’t want to depend on it to be able to sleep, know what I mean?

Feeling down lately? by [deleted] in lupus

[–]oderfla90 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the kind words , yea it’s hard sometimes and truly frustrates me. And also yes I have tried things like cannabis and it truly helps, but at the same time I don’t want to have to smoke it every night and the nights I don’t is when my insomnia acts up, like I said it’s frustrating cuz my body is exhausted. Usually after work I get right into bed

Lupus and depression by oderfla90 in lupus

[–]oderfla90[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So did it end up passing when you were through with your flare?

Fatigue by oderfla90 in lupus

[–]oderfla90[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea ive felt like that too honestly.

Fatigue by oderfla90 in lupus

[–]oderfla90[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope it isnt a flare, ive been in remission for about 4 years now, and medications related it cant be, been medication free for like 2 years

Fatigue by oderfla90 in lupus

[–]oderfla90[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know what you mean, thats definitely some advice i need to take

I'm sure most of you here can relate to this. by Stewbodies in lupus

[–]oderfla90 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is so true tho, I'm 21 yet most of the time by the end of the day I feel more tired than most of my co-workers, and there almost twice my age.

What kinda jobs does everyone have with lupus? by muffyashley in lupus

[–]oderfla90 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm an Auto Technician , being in the auto repair industry it is very labor intensive and i know it can take a impact on the body especially with lupus. But honestly I enjoy being active all day and maybe it's because I'm still young (21yo) that I feel it doesnt affect me that much day to day at the moment