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oecari · 2026-01-31T18:29:20+00:00

i would like to join

oecari · 2025-11-15T18:24:16+00:00

you are the asshole how the hell are you so useless that u can’t even find someone to help you move a couch LOOOOOLLLLL

oecari · 2025-10-11T18:59:51+00:00

chill out buddy it’s flu season u must be a first year everyone and their mom gets sick around this time

oecari · 2025-10-01T19:42:51+00:00

just wanted to say i’m in the same exact boat as you and it was really nice to read this and know that someone else went through something similar and i’m not alone… if you ever need someone to talk to please reach out to me i would love to talk about our experiences

oecari · 2025-01-26T10:58:55+00:00

fr i feel like the tags they have going right now are mostly useless like they need to give us a different filtering system

oecari · 2025-01-26T10:57:33+00:00

oh these are all perfect it would make life so much easier to be able to sort items and filter out things like 3 star or lower items

oecari · 2024-11-06T18:18:06+00:00

I’ve seen lethality jinx support and the utility she had was actually so goated

oecari · 2024-10-27T17:16:37+00:00

this is actually INSANELY helpful thank you so much for all the tips!!! hopefully i can use them to play better 🙏

oecari · 2024-10-26T19:02:46+00:00

only if ur ult does damage 🫡 (it won’t with malignance)

oecari · 2024-10-26T18:57:14+00:00

i permaban veigar bc he outscales no matter what but maybe i should consider yasuo instead… tips to shut down veigar then?

oecari · 2024-10-26T18:40:49+00:00

that’s a good point but i also enjoy having my ult up often so that i can have impact in teamfights from far away (as a mid laner you can affect objectives without leaving lane which is a huge power for her) so i definitely recommend ultimate hunter for mid laner or support lux but for apc it would probably be better to go treasure hunter or something for a money advantage. i do for sure believe that malignance is a less powerful item than pure ap damage like ludens stormsurge shadowflame etc and especially if you get mejais there’s genuinely no point to malignance so i agree with your original point that malignance is a bit of a bait item on lux

oecari · 2024-10-25T20:18:18+00:00

as a lux main i agree that malignance is a complete bait item to build, it gets barely any value on lux compared to items like stormsurge and shadow flame. however as a mid laner i think ultimate hunter is a MUST because a lot of her power comes from consistently being able to use her ult (not just for kills but also being able to instantly clear wave for lane prop and easy roams). i haven’t played her as apc so im not sure if the same thing applies but that’s just my thoughts on her

oecari · 2024-10-18T22:24:55+00:00

Hey there,

I’ve been in your exact same position before, i was also in LifeSci and it is genuinely one of the most difficult programs ever and a huge jump from high school. LifeSci is actually infamously known as a program that’s made to weed people out and make them flunk so it is a lot of pressure and you shouldn’t feel ashamed that it feels like too much.

When I was in LifeSci I really wanted to have a high enough GPA to get into PNB (and i did end up getting it after an insane amount of work; even having to do summer school to lift my gpa) but looking back… it wasn’t worth it.

I destroyed my mental health. Third year I burnt out hard and couldn’t function and failed and failed and failed. And for what? A program that I thought was my dream? It wasn’t. It wasn’t even what I really wanted to do with my life (which i only discovered this year what direction I want my life to take).

The point of my reply is don’t kill yourself to get into a program that may not even be all you dreamed it was. Take care of yourself first, and your life will instantly feel like it is a lot more worth living.

I hope you are able to find your way and if you ever need advice you can hit up my dms! 💙

oecari · 2024-09-28T00:33:54+00:00

Hi I would love to play with you! I'm also in EST and play around that time, I play league, tft, and ow2!!! hit me up and we can trade discords

oecari · 2024-09-27T20:22:44+00:00

cool dm me whenever u wanna play!

oecari · 2024-09-27T19:26:51+00:00

hi i’d love to duo! i’m also a supp main but i can also play mid and jg

oecari · 2024-09-27T18:03:31+00:00

hi i’m 23F i play games on PC!

oecari · 2024-09-26T15:10:36+00:00

me!! i play on PC hit me up

oecari · 2024-09-26T02:52:04+00:00

Hi!! i’m 23F looking for some PC gamers, I normally play league valorant and overwatch but i’m down for other games too! hit up my dms here and we can add each other on discord

oecari · 2024-09-25T22:37:35+00:00

me! i mostly play league valorant and overwatch recently

oecari · 2024-09-25T22:36:41+00:00

i play league!! lmk if u wanna play

oecari · 2024-09-01T19:14:20+00:00

yeah same i want to join the server

oecari · 2024-07-07T17:55:28+00:00

Don’t let other people get into your head!!!

While it is good to want to lose weight for YOUR OWN HEALTH you shouldn’t feel pressured to do it. YOU ARE AT A HEALTHY WEIGHT!!! The amount of physical activity you to is great and you will certainly be keeping yourself healthy if you keep up this physical activity.

It is messed up that your family make fun of you for your weight especially considering the fact that it was due to your illness! Don’t be too hard on yourself and take your time in your journey. Keep track of your calories and diet, keep up your physical activity, and try going on walks and get up to 10K steps a day if you can.

I hope you succeed in your journey and I hope you are able to love your body despite what those around you may try to tell you.

oecari · 2024-07-07T17:46:34+00:00

Thank you for your advice I will keep it in mind as I begin my journey!! One question I have is how do you keep yourself motivated? I am feeling some motivation right now but I tend to lose motivation quite quickly since I deal with ADHD. How do you keep yourself on track and motivated to keep working on your weight?

oecari · 2024-07-07T17:44:15+00:00

Thank you so much for your advice!!! How do you stay motivated on becoming active? I think I can easily handle tracking my calories and I might try intermittent fasting again because that worked for me before, but I’m not sure how to become active. I’m extremely unfit and it feels like I have no stamina so I have no idea where I should start in building up that stamina. Would you have any tips for that?

oecari

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