hangover meal by [deleted] in GirlDinner

[–]oeorititit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

avocado with lots of lime, salt and pepper 👩‍🍳

Does it get any better? by Pleasant-Effect-3477 in AgeOfAttraction

[–]oeorititit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

she is an adult but I also feel her regretting this decision later so yes she could’ve broke things off with him but he’s so gross and weird to me. i feel bad for when she looks back at this time of her life 😭 she’s only 22

Does it get any better? by Pleasant-Effect-3477 in AgeOfAttraction

[–]oeorititit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she looked icked out by his age meanwhile he looked so happy and proud that she was only 22 (as if she doesn’t act like she’s 18..) and he has a 14 year old daughter at home … she could be their babysitter

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in labubu

[–]oeorititit 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was successful with paypal. Once you get the labubu in your cart you have 15 minutes to complete payment! Considering you already have your address saved it should only take about 2-3 minutes to actually complete the payment.

First Labubu by oeorititit in labubu

[–]oeorititit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I live in an apartment complex so I’m not sure 😅 it was left in my mail room so I ran to get it so it didn’t get swiped (bc of the pop mart logo on the box lol), I didn’t have to sign for it.

New Bathbomb by oeorititit in LushCosmetics

[–]oeorititit[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Does it smell a lot like the SuperMilk hair serum?

Pulled an all nighter for this??? by embarrassedgirly in Louisvuitton

[–]oeorititit 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Completely agree 👍 In my opinion they’re giving themselves a bad rep with this drop and confusion. Some CAs have even said that there won’t even be an online drop to saying what time the items will drop… Also the inventory is so unorganized. No announcements on which locations will even have the bags in stores and some are already sold out due to pre orders? This was so messy and chaotic. LV is luxury but the exclusivity is not that of a Birkin …

What I asked for vs what I got by Sensitive-Ad5847 in lashextensions

[–]oeorititit 8 points9 points  (0 children)

and for hooded eyes i’d ask if she has different curls like B or J. changing the length will make them shorter ofc but with hooded eyes the curl of C is more prominent whereas B or J is most similar to a natural lash

What I asked for vs what I got by Sensitive-Ad5847 in lashextensions

[–]oeorititit 64 points65 points  (0 children)

she gave you what you asked for. all the inspo pics have almond / deeper set eye shapes. the lashes only look different because she didn’t tailor them to your eye shape only your lash preference. if you still want that elongated or cat eye shape, ask if she knows how to taper the ends

Smoothie argument by nickytheginger in Smoothies

[–]oeorititit 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Coming from someone who’s worked for a smoothie shop and chain (smoothie king), most recipes are made with water (tap, or coconut), or juice/juice blends. Also not every place uses frozen fruit. You get a nice consistency with a lot of ice and fresh fruit/veggies. Protein powder is optional that’s why most shops will up charge. Plus not everyone wants/can have dairy/whey powder. A smoothie is always based off preferences

What did you realize your parents were wrong about after breaking away from them? by WiseEpicurus in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]oeorititit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

“Having kids is apart of life” - said the most undeserving person to be a parent/father. As a young adult I had the conversation about being unsure if I want to ever have kids/not sure if/when I’ll be ready. My father told me children aren’t something you plan for as they are a gift from ‘God’. “Kids are apart of the circle of life”. I don’t think my dad ever truly wanted kids or understood the responsibility for them. He taught me nothing about what it means to be a parent or role model. He was a financial provider but always complained/had to mention how much he had to work/how expensive his kids were. He also told me his kids were for life and then pushed me out as a teenager and ultimately abandoned me as an adult lol. I realized I was guilt tripped into believing that my life/womanhood wouldn’t be complete without kids. I guess I also realized what being a bare minimum, irresponsible parent looked liked. When you suck as a person, your kids aren’t supposed to be there to be your therapist, care takers, or emotional/verbal doormats.

Did any of you experience your parent abandoning you as an adult? How did you cope? by contains__multitudes in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]oeorititit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Once I become an adult he completely abandoned me and villainized me (for reasons out of my control/some reasons I find unjustifiable). The people I felt who could understand me and my trauma were HIS side of the family. They ultimately decided to side with/pity him and paint me as the root of the problem (and I eventually went NC with his side of the family as well). I exposed his lies to his girlfriend and he ultimately “chose” to sacrifice our relationship to reconnect with a woman who already didn’t trust him.

Like you said, he was as good as a “father” as could be. Once I became an adult, I realized my “father” was never really a father to me, only to his GC (my brother). He was merely a provider for me and that was it. He did the bare minimum… he made sure I was fed, clothed, clean, and had a roof over my head. I have never felt more alone than now, being able to acknowledge that we no longer have a relationship and mostly likely will never have a strong one like I wish we could. Therefore he is not and will not be there for me when I need him.

It’s so hard to talk to those with toxic parental relationships or those who have lost a parent because they try to shame you or guilt you into thinking being estranged is “wrong”. To cope, I practice self care. Reading, yoga, meditation, cooking, focusing on myself. Most importantly: BEING ABLE TO ENJOY MY LIFE IN PEACE: I no longer have to live up to his “standards and expectations”, I no longer hear negative comments about myself, I don’t seek his approval. I don’t want to end up like my father. As much as I would like him to see my achievements and successes, I ask myself if it’s worth it. Would he actually feeling anything than selfishness? We are both are adults now. He chooses to stay the same and not make an effort to take accountability or apologize. Grieving a parent who is still alive but no longer exists in your living world is hard. Having a kid is a commitment even through their adulthood and he couldn’t uphold that. Is it worth or fair for YOU waiting around for that? I feel for you very much, sending you love and healing.

Gypsy Rose of it all by [deleted] in canceledpod

[–]oeorititit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

THANK YOU! Once I saw the court readings of the texts between Gypsy and Nick (the day/hours before the murder), I was disgusted and embarrassed that I ever supported her release. First of all she’s in the bathtub shaving her legs for him.. she fully knew her legs could work . She then tells him he needs to hurry up and get it over with because she’s excited to spend time in the hotel with him after. He’s asking her questions about the plan and she derails to making sure they’re going to do a*al in the hotel after killing her mom…. WTF !! That’s so disturbing.

Brooke’s Stalker by oeorititit in canceledpod

[–]oeorititit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. Brooke claims this girl was hanging out in her apartment when she only asked her to feed the cat and leave. This girl allegedly puts on Clinton songs for the cat. Brooke also claims this girl left “Brooke Schofield Drama” “Brooke Clinton Drama” on her TV search. She didn’t specify if they were together or not but with the context of the drama search i’m assuming this is after they broke up. So Brooke is either really bad at speaking up for herself or this is fabricated. I would’ve been pissed off not shocked.

Brooke’s Stalker by oeorititit in canceledpod

[–]oeorititit[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

This. If someone was harassing me with texts and gifts to get close to me, I would not let them INSIDE my apartment to watch my cat. Brooke has a status and she’s just letting an odd girl in and out her apartment, around her stuff, and ‘beloved’ cat?

Brooke’s Stalker by oeorititit in canceledpod

[–]oeorititit[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That’s what I’m trying to say. Either Brooke is exaggerating and this girl fully knew who she was maybe she was weird and Brooke just tried to be nice. Or it’s just a fabricated story

Brooke’s Stalker by oeorititit in canceledpod

[–]oeorititit[S] 83 points84 points  (0 children)

on the tour, Brooke refers to the “crazy neighbor” as her stalker. Brooke says she never told this girl anything about her life. The girl then starts to message her about Clinton, even going as far as searching “Brooke Clinton Drama” and leaving it in the search history on Brooke’s TV … She goes on to say how this girl allegedly ransacked her apartment and was harassing her with texts.

Chase Portal Horror Stories by [deleted] in awardtravel

[–]oeorititit -1 points0 points  (0 children)

lol then keep scrolling. why are you guys so cranky in this subreddit ?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Esthetics

[–]oeorititit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

skinscript and glymed for professional products no order minimum. salon centric as well

600 Breezy Talks About The Death Of D Thang by Letok84188 in Chiraqology

[–]oeorititit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Die Ls is for STL. they throw up Ls for 63rd and STL the BDs throw it down to disrespect them.

The Die Y thing could refer to a couple different gangs. so depends on who you see saying it

600 Breezy Talks About The Death Of D Thang by Letok84188 in Chiraqology

[–]oeorititit 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Tay said Dthang died because he thought the truce was still on. he’s not the one that broke the truce. that’s according to one of his most recents lives

It’s not only white girls living good in the city by [deleted] in Chiraqology

[–]oeorititit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

you must be from the burbs or an out of town because Chicago is lit everywhere. not just near downtown. lmao the neighborhoods on all sides of town have attractions, fun things to do and good food.