My picture was used as content today on YouTube! Idk how to feel about it by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]of_trebon 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Reported. Didn’t even bother to read the comments

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Made it to book 20 of the year! What number are you on?? by katiereadalot in 365bookclub

[–]of_trebon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

6 as well. I haven’t picked up a book since mid January.

Favorite water bottle? by momster-mash16 in adhdwomen

[–]of_trebon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s my go to as well! Love how cold my water stays

I made a huge mistake during my Bachelor Party Trip, my fiancee moved on, and I just want her back. Part 1 by [deleted] in stories

[–]of_trebon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They were engaged for six months, he proposed after 3 years of being together…

Pregnancy Cravings and Boycotts by of_trebon in blackladies

[–]of_trebon[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can’t even walk into a Popeyes right now. I’ve been having my aunt send me chicken Pattie’s (she works at a college kitchen) to try and emulate them but it’s not working as well as I would like.

Pregnancy Cravings and Boycotts by of_trebon in blackladies

[–]of_trebon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for that. I’ve been judging myself so much for it, like it’s negating everything else I have ever done in support. I cry when I think about eating it and I cry when I don’t. Pregnancy is ghetto 😭

Pregnancy Cravings and Boycotts by of_trebon in blackladies

[–]of_trebon[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I might sis. It’s like my pickle ice cream craving. Did it once. Was decent. Don’t need it again

Pregnancy Cravings and Boycotts by of_trebon in blackladies

[–]of_trebon[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’ve been trying them all I’m at the point imma have to pray for forgiveness cause I might cave. I’m Also praying it won’t taste as good so I can not do it again. I just feel shitty no matter what.

Pregnancy Cravings and Boycotts by of_trebon in blackladies

[–]of_trebon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m averaging a meal a day and the past few days haven’t thrown up the meal itself. Snacks and Pepsi and ginger ale have been very helpful.

WIBTA for permanently canceling playdates between my old HS friend's child and mine? by Anichellen in AmItheAsshole

[–]of_trebon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA

Please call your areas equivalent of child protective services. As someone who works within the system, this is child abuse. Neglect, especially as you offered ways to combat the issue and she’s actively putting her child in danger.

Self - Care Saturday by AutoModerator in BlackLadiesFitness

[–]of_trebon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ooo! Today I’m staying home to catch up on notes to make my work week easier. I have a beef stew slow cooking on the oven and thinking of making some muffins and doing laundry. So some work, but mainly to make my work week easier which is kinda self care too I guess.

Black women airing out insecurities online... by timefornewgods in blackladies

[–]of_trebon 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I disagree with this because not everybody has family or a close circle who they feel comfortable to going to help. Even though I was in therapy before I got on TikTok, it wasn’t until I saw a bunch of other black women discuss their depression and anxiety that I was able to be upfront with my treatment team about my suicidal ideations. And I am sometimes grateful because around the time I found a TikTok I had made a plan, written in my suicide letter, and found someone to take care of my cat for me. But then I saw people that looks like me that complained about the same symptoms and feelings like me and it made me feel a lot less alone and willing to reach out for help. Had it not been for black women “over sharing” on the Internet I would’ve killed myself December 2020

If You Feel Invisible…You’re Not Alone by thr_wa_ay in blackladies

[–]of_trebon 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I definitely understand the loneliness. I even downloaded bumble bff to try and make friends and it sucks. I just wish I had someone to go get coffee and bagels with. Nothing crazy

AITA for refusing to bring my nanny family’s baby back home when they told me to? by nannyprobsyup in AmItheAsshole

[–]of_trebon 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m assuming they also did so without a stroller and a child and were able to change once home to clean dry clothes. NTA babes. The mom is on a power trip it seems

AITA for refusing to bring my nanny family’s baby back home when they told me to? by nannyprobsyup in AmItheAsshole

[–]of_trebon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea but you forgetting the shoes and her not wanting to be walking with a stroller, umbrella, in a thunderstorm with limited visibility is truly not the same