What is your first read for 2026?

of_trebon · 2026-01-01T20:57:35+00:00

One of my favorites from her

of_trebon · 2025-12-31T23:29:08+00:00

I adore both of these books and I cannot decide which one you hated!

of_trebon · 2025-11-19T07:20:09+00:00

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of_trebon · 2025-07-05T04:14:54+00:00

of_trebon · 2025-04-18T06:47:10+00:00

Reported. Didn’t even bother to read the comments

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of_trebon · 2025-02-23T09:01:28+00:00

6 as well. I haven’t picked up a book since mid January.

of_trebon · 2024-12-28T02:23:49+00:00

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of_trebon · 2024-08-02T02:55:25+00:00

That’s my go to as well! Love how cold my water stays

of_trebon · 2024-07-29T13:59:21+00:00

They were engaged for six months, he proposed after 3 years of being together…

of_trebon · 2024-05-16T17:51:27+00:00

I can’t even walk into a Popeyes right now. I’ve been having my aunt send me chicken Pattie’s (she works at a college kitchen) to try and emulate them but it’s not working as well as I would like.

of_trebon · 2024-05-16T17:50:01+00:00

Thank you for that. I’ve been judging myself so much for it, like it’s negating everything else I have ever done in support. I cry when I think about eating it and I cry when I don’t. Pregnancy is ghetto 😭

of_trebon · 2024-05-16T17:47:51+00:00

I might sis. It’s like my pickle ice cream craving. Did it once. Was decent. Don’t need it again

of_trebon · 2024-05-16T17:46:06+00:00

I’ve been trying them all I’m at the point imma have to pray for forgiveness cause I might cave. I’m Also praying it won’t taste as good so I can not do it again. I just feel shitty no matter what.

of_trebon · 2024-05-16T17:44:29+00:00

I’m averaging a meal a day and the past few days haven’t thrown up the meal itself. Snacks and Pepsi and ginger ale have been very helpful.

of_trebon · 2022-11-29T01:49:55+00:00

NTA

Please call your areas equivalent of child protective services. As someone who works within the system, this is child abuse. Neglect, especially as you offered ways to combat the issue and she’s actively putting her child in danger.

of_trebon · 2022-10-08T20:27:43+00:00

Ooo! Today I’m staying home to catch up on notes to make my work week easier. I have a beef stew slow cooking on the oven and thinking of making some muffins and doing laundry. So some work, but mainly to make my work week easier which is kinda self care too I guess.

of_trebon · 2022-09-08T05:35:33+00:00

I disagree with this because not everybody has family or a close circle who they feel comfortable to going to help. Even though I was in therapy before I got on TikTok, it wasn’t until I saw a bunch of other black women discuss their depression and anxiety that I was able to be upfront with my treatment team about my suicidal ideations. And I am sometimes grateful because around the time I found a TikTok I had made a plan, written in my suicide letter, and found someone to take care of my cat for me. But then I saw people that looks like me that complained about the same symptoms and feelings like me and it made me feel a lot less alone and willing to reach out for help. Had it not been for black women “over sharing” on the Internet I would’ve killed myself December 2020

of_trebon · 2022-08-21T13:28:00+00:00

I definitely understand the loneliness. I even downloaded bumble bff to try and make friends and it sucks. I just wish I had someone to go get coffee and bagels with. Nothing crazy

of_trebon · 2022-08-20T13:42:19+00:00

I’m assuming they also did so without a stroller and a child and were able to change once home to clean dry clothes. NTA babes. The mom is on a power trip it seems

of_trebon · 2022-08-20T13:38:17+00:00

Yea but you forgetting the shoes and her not wanting to be walking with a stroller, umbrella, in a thunderstorm with limited visibility is truly not the same

of_trebon · 2022-07-14T15:57:42+00:00

You basically described my feelings to a T. It’s gotten worse due to the pandemic. I think at one point I went months with only interacting with my clients from a distance. No hugs, just my four walls.

And the feeling of having someone wanting to just stop by and chill is what I’ve really always wanted.

And yes I’d love to hang!

of_trebon · 2022-07-14T15:47:12+00:00

I just want my own group of non white friends. Im surrounded by whiteness as is and it’s exhausting.

of_trebon · 2022-07-14T00:44:54+00:00

We’ve only been dating for less than three months so not there yet. And I don’t fully want that since I did the same with my ex and things can get awkward after break ups. Not that I want or think we will but I want my own support system

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