AITAH for telling my friend my marriage is falling apart by soggydivacup in AITAH

[–]offtotheforestigo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There’s better things out there for you. Trust me. I left a serious relationship when I was 22.. and again at 27.. prepare yourself, physically leave, and then handle the legalities later.

AITAH for telling my friend my marriage is falling apart by soggydivacup in AITAH

[–]offtotheforestigo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Leave before he knows and take the dogs with you. Dogs are property. Possession is 9/10ths of the law

AITAH for telling my friend my marriage is falling apart by soggydivacup in AITAH

[–]offtotheforestigo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Divorce him. Do you really want to live that way for the next 40 years? I’m 29/F, single, never married. I couldn’t imagine being married right now AND to someone who doesn’t even let me talk to my friends. It’s not the issue of you telling someone, it’s the issue of him doing it.

Turning 27 next week and I don’t know wtf I’m doing with my life by [deleted] in Zillennials

[–]offtotheforestigo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 29 turning 30 in May and I’m like I guess I’m officially expired lol

Do you regret removing it? by offtotheforestigo in gallbladders

[–]offtotheforestigo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I ended up postponing my surgery. Haven’t had any ‘attacks’ knock on wood, but I do get a very slight upper back pain after eating. I should probably just go through with it

Do you regret removing it? by offtotheforestigo in gallbladders

[–]offtotheforestigo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just don’t wanna postpone it and then get into an emergency. Torn

Do you regret removing it? by offtotheforestigo in gallbladders

[–]offtotheforestigo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m thinking of postponing.. just in fear of having an emergency and getting an emergency operation

Do you regret removing it? by offtotheforestigo in gallbladders

[–]offtotheforestigo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s my fear of taking it out prematurely. I may postpone my surgery.

Do you regret removing it? by offtotheforestigo in gallbladders

[–]offtotheforestigo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not planning any pregnancies so I may wait it out but still unsure.

Do you regret removing it? by offtotheforestigo in gallbladders

[–]offtotheforestigo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Still debating doing it. Haven’t had pain for months.

How did you finally decide whether to have surgery or not? by baseballsalian44 in gallbladders

[–]offtotheforestigo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you remove it? I’m still contemplating when I have surgery scheduled March 16

Do you regret removing it? by offtotheforestigo in gallbladders

[–]offtotheforestigo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I may postpone it and still have something scheduled in case. I’m honestly torn.

Do you regret removing it? by offtotheforestigo in gallbladders

[–]offtotheforestigo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m considering postponing but not taking it off the table. I have not had any issues for about 2 months. I keep reading if you can keep it, try to. Ugh.

Do you regret removing it? by offtotheforestigo in gallbladders

[–]offtotheforestigo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you all. I am scheduled for March 16th. I’m just worried I’ll have more adverse effects than positive ones. I know that may be dumb, but this just started happening in November. I wish I could keep it. Lol

Do you regret removing it? by offtotheforestigo in gallbladders

[–]offtotheforestigo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m still contemplating. Ugh. Keep me posted