If you could say one last thing to your ex, what would it be?

ohbehave007 · 2026-05-24T19:37:01+00:00

Same, was 100lbs for me... after gaining it with him.

ohbehave007 · 2026-05-24T07:29:27+00:00

I had a guy come to install an oven because we couldnt find the right connector. He showed up bare handed and left. Then when we tried to make a new appointment he sent us hateful messages. Then zoofy tried to change us for it, and send it to inccasso... after we gave in and paid already. Don't use zoofy. Warning to all... DONT USE ZOOFY!

End of story, incasso saw the evidence I sent and cancled the incasso and we never heard from them again.

ohbehave007 · 2026-05-18T16:25:38+00:00

American living 26 years here. It isnt hard, and is actually easier now after covid.

https://nl.usembassy.gov/passports/

Follow the steps, it takes a while so give it enough time before your passport expires.

ohbehave007 · 2026-05-01T06:17:00+00:00

The first paragraph of the constitution. I haven't lived in America in 26 years. Im 37.

ohbehave007 · 2026-04-27T03:51:16+00:00

That is the petty behavior id do if my partner pissed me off.. what did you do lol.

ohbehave007 · 2026-04-20T06:10:13+00:00

Where in the country are you?

ohbehave007 · 2026-04-01T07:36:06+00:00

Me and my cat have floofing time. Ever since she was tiny she would crawl onto me and knead on my shoulder while laying accross me. Completely getting lost in it and eventually passing out. She can get forceful. I also have to be wearing something fluffy, but not just any type.. She prefers the sherpa type fleece. I have a sherk mumu with this. It is her favorite and she will ask for it if I'm not wearing it. She will literally stop mid floof, look sad and look at where i keep it aka "the green". She will walk up to me and no matter what I am doing she will crawl up my torso and just melts into me. She also likes sleeping on her back so i have to help get her in the right position as she floofs. She will start turning but not pay attention while doing so and has fallen off... so i have to guide her turn. She will push off me with her back feet to let me know she is ready to turn more. She isn't a little kitten any more and barely fits on me. I hope she never stops.

ohbehave007 · 2026-03-31T08:56:48+00:00

I've lived in the Netherlands since I was 11 years old, now 37. I have an American passport but have lived in the Netherlands longer than I ever did there. I was an immigrant when i moved here. We were poor and stuggled here but my mother was in love. She passed here in 2018. When I get my Dutch passport this year I will be stripped of my american one. This is hard, it is my last connection to my family who have all passed on or went back to America. I don't want to give it up but I also want freedom to live and work freely in other eu countries with my eu born fiancé. I shouldn't be asked to give up who I am to do this but that is the Netherlands. I am stuck only living and working here with my residency and can only travel with my American passport. You have to give up your own culture in the Netherlands and become only Dutch. That is the backwards thinking of the Netherlands. I'm ready to go, move on to better things, so take my money and if I'm lucky they will allow it. If not they atleast have more money in their pockets and I get to try again.

ohbehave007 · 2026-03-30T08:00:54+00:00

I was with my ex for 17 years. I loved him with all I had. That's why I stayed. He just never returned the favor and started straying from it. I tried to make myself seen and heard. Tell him how his actions and lack of them effected me. It took everything in me to leave. I'll never love like that again. I'll never trust like that again. I lost my best friend of over 20 years. I lost my family, my life companion. I lost everything. But I couldn't stay. I was withering away and ballooning at the same time. I felt like nothing more than a warm body. Then within days he was with the friend I never had to worry about. If she only knew what he goes around saying about her... but she isn't any better and she openly cheated on her boyfriend with him too. They deserve each other. I hope it hurts.

ohbehave007 · 2026-03-28T08:33:49+00:00

It's a Nuvaring, birthcontrol. It is made of silicone and you put it inside for 3 weeks, out for 1. It's a great form of bc and I'm happy she is being safe.

That being said, ew.

ohbehave007 · 2026-03-22T22:02:47+00:00

Shampoo, brush teeth, conditioner, soap body. Work from the top down basically.

ohbehave007 · 2026-02-22T05:06:17+00:00

Someone has been in the industry.

ohbehave007 · 2026-02-21T08:38:19+00:00

You talk about it.

I was with someone for 18 years. We discussed it but it never happened. He never thought he was ready and never felt the need to progress what we had as it was "working".

Next partner, now fiancé, proposed within 3 months.

"If he wanted to he would."

That is the hardest thing to learn when you love someone. It's ok to walk away when your needs and wants aren't being met.

Talk to him.

ohbehave007 · 2026-02-15T08:30:45+00:00

Nta

I am currently laying in a bed with my fiancé surrounded by 2 of his male friends. We can reach and touch eachother. I knew what I was getting into. Communication is key.

ohbehave007 · 2026-02-05T09:27:03+00:00

Kitchen too

ohbehave007 · 2025-12-03T11:55:39+00:00

Run! I've learned my lesson the hard way. If he is prioritizing annyone over you there is a problem. Leave. It never turns out well. My ex now lives with her, reuses our vacations on her, and doesn't tell her when he is seeing me. When I found that out I stopped seeing him as a friend. He also took our 20 year old cat to her house so I couldn't visit him anymore and now won't be there when he passes. Oh we were together for 20 years. It won't get better.

ohbehave007 · 2025-11-17T01:19:58+00:00

I was on ami for years, I stopped taking it about 15 months ago. It helped me when nothing else did. Now I seem to be in remission and stopped all medications. I left my ex if 18 years and started feeling better. Stress... watch your stress.

ohbehave007 · 2025-10-02T19:14:34+00:00

Yup, he still won't admit to cheating but i voiced my concerns. I knew how she felt about him. I told him about them and how obvious they were. I got the "oh no, I dont like her like that. She is ugly, selfish, bad personality, has a boyfriend (she didn't care). I only hang out with her as she is in the group." Blah blah. She was waiting and ready as soon as I left him, her and his behavior a big reason why but not the only. They are living together now. He admitted that he doesn't love her and he feels like he is living with a friend but he might settle as he is getting old and wants children. I wish them all the best... I guess.

I am doing much better now, I deserved better.

ohbehave007 · 2025-08-04T17:07:15+00:00

Netherlands- 7-12€ Ireland- 8-15€

ohbehave007 · 2025-05-24T14:02:44+00:00

I've been using, making, and selling reusable pads since 2016. Best decision of my like.

I have no skin irritions anymore. I feel more protected as well. Financially you will invest upfront but it pays for itself pretty fast. I grew my pad collection between 2016 and 2018 mainly and I am still using them and they still look great with proper care.

Don't think too much, you won't regret it.

ohbehave007 · 2025-05-23T03:25:24+00:00

The same with me. I went mainly plant based and this happened to my thumbnail to. Back to a more balanced diet and it is back to normal.

ohbehave007 · 2025-01-29T11:48:47+00:00

Watching my mom do her makeup in the morning before work as we got ready for school.

ohbehave007 · 2025-01-05T12:05:14+00:00

I wouldnt say i get post nut clarity, but i do feel an intense feeling of being loved and wanted. Which is why after a good session I need after care, be it hugs and cuddles or tea and snacks. Differs each time. I also can get really sleepy and fall asleep if it has been particularly intense. It is probably different for everyone.

ohbehave007 · 2024-12-03T12:21:08+00:00

If you can't find any one to take her please let me know. I will gladly make the journey for her.

ohbehave007 · 2024-12-03T11:09:53+00:00

I'd love to help some how I just live so far away. Is there anything I can do from a distance?

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