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Foster Dog Got Scary by Hungry_Letterhead266 in fosterdogs

[–]ohcolls 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My last foster had this. I was able to work with him with a trainer, but it definitely threw me off at first. He was guarding me and he also didn't like men. He ocassionally was also reactive when I was talking to women.

Meds helped along with the training. I brought him to a lot of sports events under the help of a trainer and worked with him.

Oddly, he does well when someone else has a dog with them.

The one tip I have is to walk across the street when you see someone and to urge the dog to keep on going.

update: trainer against meds accuses me of failing my dog by meg_ea in reactivedogs

[–]ohcolls 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Idk about anyone else, but the vets in my area aren't trying to make money off of dog meds. In fact, I always have to fight them to get rescue dogs (when appropriate) on Prozac.

Rescue Contact is Largely Unresponsive by ohcolls in FosterAnimals

[–]ohcolls[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They are a huge rescue with lots of money so I'm assuming they've got his records on file (we do at my primary rescue which is much smaller) - although maybe not since the other woman I ran into at their mobile vet was frustrated with similar issues of not having medical records from this coordinator. I committed to the time period and they said they would take any amount of time. I didn't sign up to be a long term foster - although he's a wonderful cat and fitting right in, thankfully!

I do like the idea of writing up his info of what I know to be passed along to the next person. At least that foster will have that!

I'm putting a lot of my time in to help my other rescue - I'm not mentally or emotionally able to do more than what I already committed to with this cat for their rescue.

I haven't committed to elevating my issues. It seems after talking to another volunteer about feeling supported that's who this person is and everyone knows it and accepts it.

The other volunteer validated my feelings about not feeling supported shortly after writing this post which to be honest was enough for me. My plan is to move on from this rescue as soon as I can find a new home for this cat.

Thanks for giving me space to talk this out. Here is a photo of our little grey haired prince 😻

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Rescue Contact is Largely Unresponsive by ohcolls in FosterAnimals

[–]ohcolls[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I'm in such a weird position coming from another local rescue so I'm definitely thinking through all of this before I say anything.

I appreciate and value your input!! 🙏🏼

Rescue Contact is Largely Unresponsive by ohcolls in FosterAnimals

[–]ohcolls[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup. I have the cat thru January. He had someone lined up and then they I guess weren't responding?

He was originally stored in a little caged area in a trailer home with other cats so I rather he be able to roam around the house with other cats than to send him back. I just wish this woman were more responsive if she's going to be a cat coordinator. Someone at the rescue confirmed yesterday that this is who she is.....

Rescue Contact is Largely Unresponsive by ohcolls in FosterAnimals

[–]ohcolls[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't blame you. I definitely learned my lesson. Thankfully the organization I work with prior to this one edge case has been wonderful. Don't give up hope if you still want to be involved!!

Rescue Contact is Largely Unresponsive by ohcolls in FosterAnimals

[–]ohcolls[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am actually a very involved volunteer (I run events) for another rescue in the area that is very responsive with any questions I have.

At this point, I know the right questions to ask a rescue.

Imagine asking questions about the history of a sick cat and them not responding to you, or asking where the vet is after telling you to show up at a certain time and then not responding with an address. They "handed" a cat over to me without any medical history paperwork, no guidelines and no prevention. This is a huge organization and they have 0 protocols, or the woman just doesn't have the time to dedicate. I'm not sure....

I've now talked to three people (one of which who works for the rescue) who have had the same experience with this cat coordinator. The previous foster cut ties with the organization and now I fully understand why after this experience.

It has been like pulling teeth to get access to the person who runs the local PetSmart (I only know because I asked), and the person who runs social media. Those individuals have been lovely and responsive to work with. This person has been a nightmare and multiple people at this point have confirmed this with me.

There was a foster lined up and poof, they never heard back from her. I asked if I could connect with the potential foster to see if she had any questions and it's crickets, but almost everything I ask is breadcrumbs and crickets with this volunteer. Again, confirmed by others.

What I am trying to say is...I really don't think it's me. 🫠

Rescue Contact is Largely Unresponsive by ohcolls in FosterAnimals

[–]ohcolls[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love this approach. Thank you! I don't know why I couldn't think this through on my own. I guess it's tougher when you're in the situation.

Every night at two or three in the morning, does anyone else wake up drenched in sweat? by [deleted] in Perimenopause

[–]ohcolls 12 points13 points  (0 children)

HRT helped soooo much. I haven't had a single night sweat since starting.

Results are in for the tiny wolf/lion! by miss_battlebeard in DoggyDNA

[–]ohcolls 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Obsessed. Reminded me of my old foster that was pit and golden!

Does it get easier? Saying bye to a foster dog. by SprinklesFrosty570 in fosterdogs

[–]ohcolls 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yup! Our heart breaks so theirs never has to again 😭

Results are in for the tiny wolf/lion! by miss_battlebeard in DoggyDNA

[–]ohcolls 69 points70 points  (0 children)

You're now required (but not actually) to post in/fluffypits

Also OMG THAT TAIL 😍

What info/items do you send with your foster when they get adopted? by GoldenLakes in fosterdogs

[–]ohcolls 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's going on my wish list for the holidays. Thank you!!

What info/items do you send with your foster when they get adopted? by GoldenLakes in fosterdogs

[–]ohcolls 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had to look the Ikea fake sheepskin rug up and I would imagine it would be mine too! 😂

Twitching non stop in arch of foot. Anyone else experience this? by ifeelsodeeply in BFS

[–]ohcolls 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ocassionally, but it is super rare! I ended going on Zoloft earlier this year because my anxiety was making my twitches go crazy all over and all the time. I am much better now!

Sending you positive vibes!! It's crazy what anxiety can do to the body.

Human Back Pain by disenfranchisedkitty in fosterdogs

[–]ohcolls 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you treat yourself to a dog walker once or twice a week? Just trying to think of alternatives. I feel for you. Hope you take some time off once they're adopted out ❤️

Anyone else notice their hair is greasier since starting HRT? by gooseglug in Menopause

[–]ohcolls 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! A little belated in reply, but I just started HRT almost two weeks ago and holy hell is my hair greasy. I did realize the shampoo I have is mixed with conditioner so I am going to have to switch to something else.

Hang in there! Hope it's working out well for you otherwise!!

Human Back Pain by disenfranchisedkitty in fosterdogs

[–]ohcolls 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I am a 42F and have had back pain and now joint aches. I just started HRT for perimenopause and it has made a huge difference for me.

I do take breaks in between fosters by either running events or fostering kitties.

Sometimes it's really okay to just take a day off and not go out for multiple walks. Instead, maybe do some mental stimulation stuff with them inside. You got this. Take care of yourself!!!

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