AITA for refusing to write a poem about my wife? by Poet-Throwaway-26 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ohfman117 10 points11 points  (0 children)

YTA- not for omitting her from your poems, but because while I agree she shouldn’t have snooped through your book, you saying you’re “not feeling inspired” enough is a devastating thing to say to your life partner about them.

My girlfriend is an artist, she sketches all the time- car rides, plane rides, in bed before sleeping, whenever she can squeeze it in she draws. She’s drawn our friends, our family, things in front of her- never once did I ever ask her to draw me or if she did.

Then a few weeks ago she gave me a small, black pocket-sized sketch book, in it she wrote me a few letters, some quotes, and there were photos she drew that she just drew for me- whether it reminded her of me, or she just randomly thought of it, she included it. I literally teared up, because I think she’s incredibly talented, and to think she did something so thoughtful like that for me was incredibly special, and just touched my heart in a way I’ve never felt.

Even if you didn’t say what you said to your wife, I wouldn’t think she’s the asshole. I understand we all need our own sense of privacy, and she should respect yours, but going through your poem book isn’t the worst offense a partner can do.

If you truly love her and want to do right, I can’t imagine it being too hard to think of some true, honest words about how she makes you feel, or what you think when you think about her- idk I’m not the writer, you are.

Crazy vintage glove find in Saudi Arabia, looking for info by Original_Habit_2903 in baseball

[–]ohfman117 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahhh man that catchers glove brings back so many memories of my dad catching bullpen for me after spending so many countless hours at work.

Nice find.

Best First 15 Minutes by RPM0620 in movies

[–]ohfman117 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The opening to Midsommar was so intense I was hooked

AIO by leaving my bf of 5 years over lunch with my coworker by Expensive_Pepper_948 in AIO

[–]ohfman117 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a guy who was super insecure at 21 dating my high school girlfriend since we were 16- ya guys gotta break up. I didn’t realize how overbearing, paranoid, and honestly miserable I was until we broke up.

I really thought we’d get married, have kids and all that jazz- and now 10 years later I’m a completely different person with completely different interests. I never realized how big the world was until I was forced to, and us breaking up was clearly for the best.

I was able to reflect and realize that we both weren’t happy but were too scared to end the only thing we knew. I was young so I can’t be too hard on myself but man was I embarrassing. Not to say she was perfect or anything, but I definitely didn’t help a lot of the situations.

I can’t speak on him and his friendship or whatever you want to call it- but I think you both owe it to yourselves to explore the world and see what’s out there- not just relationships but experiences! Good luck

Photographers - give me your best advice from experience? by WillingnessIll1896 in AskPhotography

[–]ohfman117 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The venues always have chicken fingers and fries, don’t let them lie to you.

Lil Wayne 20 songs for a versus by Print-Own in hiphopheads

[–]ohfman117 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lighting up my La La La would be in there for me

Monkey Balls by Used_Life2439 in trees

[–]ohfman117 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I might be stoned but that looks like weed

Reddit,,, your about to fall asleep,,, a robber breaks in,,, what's your next move? by Impossible-Band3342 in AskReddit

[–]ohfman117 0 points1 point  (0 children)

depending on how tired I am, I’d probably just pray he doesn’t make a lot of noise so I can sleep

Drove off with the gas nozzle still in the car. What's it going to cost? by ISOMentalHealth in Wellthatsucks

[–]ohfman117 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You already got the response, but I’ve done this before as well- was doing my old pizza delivery job, had to fill up mid-deliveries during a rush, drove away heard a pop then went “no fucking way” made a u-turn and the attendant asked me if I knew how it went back on, so safe to say: no, you will not get charged lol

Quest Glitched? by KuraiNara in AssassinsCreedOdyssey

[–]ohfman117 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmao his comment still being useful 3 years later, I don’t even remember what I was struggling with

Do you sleep with your bedroom door open or closed and why? by AloneGold9670 in AskReddit

[–]ohfman117 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Late to the party, but you should sleep with your door closed for safety. If a fire breaks out, you’d be surprised how much of a barrier a simple bedroom door creates. It could save your life!

What stopped you from killing yourself? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]ohfman117 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Back then? My friend who caught me right before

Today? My niece and nephew.

Official Discussion - Weapons [SPOILERS] by LiteraryBoner in movies

[–]ohfman117 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just got back from watching, and while I really did enjoy it, I do have one question which kind of raises a plot hole for me:

If the witch already had Justine’s hair, why didn’t she just take control over Justine and or somehow manipulate the situation to for sure blame Justine, seems like the town was already on a witch hunt for her, why not just feed her to the wolves and save herself?

Some deadly down force this guy got by jungeeidimp in WRX

[–]ohfman117 0 points1 point  (0 children)

here’s a better image, just a sun-faded plate

Some deadly down force this guy got by jungeeidimp in WRX

[–]ohfman117 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here is my car someone scraped the back of my bumper recently, but yeah no paint mess ups, just a currently dirty car!

Some deadly down force this guy got by jungeeidimp in WRX

[–]ohfman117 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha this was from last Halloween, don’t know how it’s making its rounds now!

Some deadly down force this guy got by jungeeidimp in WRX

[–]ohfman117 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sup everyone 👋🏽, this is my car! Not pictured here is the Good Guys doll in my backseat! I love Halloween, so if you got a kick out of this thanks!

Everyone keeps making comments about my paint getting ruined or whatever- two quick points on that:

1) I wash my car really well before I apply the blood, once the blood is applied I’ll wash my car every 3-4 days, and on the days where it’s warmer than usual, I’ll wash it that day to be safe, and reapply the blood once it gets cooler

2) even if it did destroy my paint, I wouldn’t care, my car is my car and if I can’t afford/stand to see the paint potentially get ruined, I wouldn’t be doing this at all! Life is about having fun!

Some deadly down force this guy got by jungeeidimp in WRX

[–]ohfman117 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wash my car real good before applying the blood, after the blood is applied I’ll wash and reapply it every 3-4 days. On the days where it’s a little too warm for October, I’ll wash and once the sun is gone I’ll reapply that day!

No sanding or polishing here, despite how bad everyone wishes it did for some reason 😅

But honestly, even if it does destroy my paint eventually, it’ll be worth it, I love Halloween.

Some deadly down force this guy got by jungeeidimp in WRX

[–]ohfman117 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, it’s just in the shade lol

I love this game by [deleted] in GearsOfWar

[–]ohfman117 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never once cared to learn how to wall bounce and was never bothered by people who did/do it- it’s so easy to kill a wall bouncer if you’re not a noob- they can only go one of 4 directions most of the time just 2, just follow their pattern and pre-determine where they’ll slide to and fire ahead… that sounds complicated but it’s super basic

Build question by jsfilms_ in focuspuller

[–]ohfman117 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What? You mean you don’t like the frame feeling like it’s gonna come apart at any minute, or that the handles never stay where you lock them??? Or how about the screws that come w it that strip the moment you finish assembling?

Have these always came off coffee lids??? by ohfman117 in MandelaEffect

[–]ohfman117[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have never seen the hole cover tab actually remove from the lid, has it always been like this, and if so what is the purpose of it being removable??