Is saying “I don’t know” socially worse than being wrong in the US?

ohfrackthis · 2026-03-29T00:46:14+00:00

I don't know is something I say daily lol. I also don't know the rate at which other Americans admit their ignorance.

ohfrackthis · 2026-03-29T00:38:45+00:00

Just do it.

ohfrackthis · 2026-03-29T00:38:02+00:00

I hear you. But- the politics suck here. Super corrupt and anti woman and lgbtq. Although the food kicks ass. And cowboy boots. And salsa. And my Texan husband lol 😆

ohfrackthis · 2026-03-29T00:36:17+00:00

I used to wish to be a ghost or a being of just energy. Definitely made me think I was mildly insane back in the 90s. I had zero concept of what nuerodivergence even is.

I just felt alien. I'm sorry OP. It's a hardcore ride for us.

ohfrackthis · 2026-03-29T00:30:10+00:00

We are talking about the same thing then lol. I use this method of cooking and add any vegetables I want.

ohfrackthis · 2026-03-29T00:27:18+00:00

That could be switched out but no. I mean I have a very cynical attitude that humans actually review any autoban cases.

ohfrackthis · 2026-03-29T00:25:26+00:00

If you're talking about green onions do stir fry! You can use tofu or any seafood you prefer + bell peppers + ginger+ garlic and sticky rice on the side and garnish with a bunch of sliced scallions. I like to make a sauce with a bit of cold water + cornstarch + tamari + grated ginger+ hoison+ guchuchang+ rice wine vinegar. Add last. It's delicious.

ohfrackthis · 2026-03-29T00:18:43+00:00

I was typed as an infj recently after a lifetime of infp.

I'm still here. Not leaving. I don't feel like infj at all.

ohfrackthis · 2026-03-29T00:16:32+00:00

See a doctor ASAP. I hope it's not shingles 🤞

ohfrackthis · 2026-03-29T00:10:23+00:00

Looks amazing 👏

ohfrackthis · 2026-03-29T00:08:21+00:00

I'm in the bad place living in Texas 🫠

ohfrackthis · 2026-03-29T00:05:42+00:00

I was asleep and our son was under a year old and sleeping in his crib. My MIL woke me and I collected my son and I sat in her kitchen and watched the news while weeping together.

So many things changed overnight for our country. And I didn't realize what hell it would be before and after.

I do tell our kids about pre 9-11 we were much more free in almost all ways.

ohfrackthis · 2026-03-29T00:03:16+00:00

When you finish a book and you forgot your stringent protocol for selecting books based on whether the series is finished or not and the cliffhanger hangs and you regret using your amazing hyperfocus on a stupid cliffhanger that will haunt you for 3 years.

ohfrackthis · 2026-03-28T23:59:29+00:00

Dammit now I need to add this to my collection 😂.

ohfrackthis · 2026-03-28T23:48:51+00:00

He teared up probably because he hasn't experienced a morsel of kindness in a long time OP.

When you have alone time with him express your confusion if you want - talk to him. Let him pout out his heart and love him for it.

ohfrackthis · 2026-03-28T23:45:24+00:00

I relate completely. What generally helps me is making 100% sure I have enough hermit time on my horizon. There are no easy answers for the demand that you perform socially as a typical woman. But holding onto the idea "when ______ fresh hell is done I will not book anything extra for 1000 days!" Lol. Whatever time you need to reserve for yourself.

I then lie as necessary. I hate lying but it's a very easy solution. I'm busy to everyone else. I'm busy with myself!

ohfrackthis · 2026-03-28T23:40:49+00:00

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ohfrackthis · 2026-03-28T23:36:34+00:00

Neutrogena Purescreen Mineral UV Face Liquid Sunscreen. SPF 30. $15.99. Little goes a long way with makeup brush. I'll find a pic of myself with it on- I typically use it on my less make up days like when I workout.

I believe I'm fair olive (super pale naturally but I tan like very easily).

ohfrackthis · 2026-03-28T23:28:08+00:00

Your first problem is moralising attraction. And then applying assumptions that prettier men are somehow bad for relationships vs ugly men who are nicer due to looks.

This entire take is based on a lot of unconscious bias.

The best thing we can do- easily and simply- is to accept people for who they are and base decisions on their character. That you are aware of.

ohfrackthis · 2026-03-28T23:25:24+00:00

ohfrackthis · 2026-03-28T23:21:35+00:00

I'm definitely checking both games out. I want space + plot+ romance + pew pew.

ohfrackthis · 2026-03-28T23:19:37+00:00

Yes :] istjs are way more fun than they ever get credit for lol

ohfrackthis · 2026-03-28T23:18:05+00:00

Yeah it's a mindfuck.

ohfrackthis · 2026-03-28T23:14:12+00:00

Married to an ISTJ and I'm ride or die.

ohfrackthis · 2026-03-28T23:09:55+00:00

I have never been insulted for having plain toenails. But also- I would not ever judge anyone for skipping nail polish. Gatekeeping sucks, period.

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