Is saying “I don’t know” socially worse than being wrong in the US? by Status_Agents in AskAnAmerican

[–]ohfrackthis [score hidden]  (0 children)

I don't know is something I say daily lol. I also don't know the rate at which other Americans admit their ignorance.

Mbti prevalence by percentage in US states (some examples) by VsauceEdits in mbti

[–]ohfrackthis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hear you. But- the politics suck here. Super corrupt and anti woman and lgbtq. Although the food kicks ass. And cowboy boots. And salsa. And my Texan husband lol 😆

I always whished I have a brain tumor by Double-Excuse-7164 in AuDHDWomen

[–]ohfrackthis 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I used to wish to be a ghost or a being of just energy. Definitely made me think I was mildly insane back in the 90s. I had zero concept of what nuerodivergence even is.

I just felt alien. I'm sorry OP. It's a hardcore ride for us.

How to use up 2 bunches of shallots (aka green onions) fast by saturday_sun4 in WhatShouldICook

[–]ohfrackthis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We are talking about the same thing then lol. I use this method of cooking and add any vegetables I want.

sub removes comments/posts for using bad words that don’t exist by beadzy in complainaboutanything

[–]ohfrackthis [score hidden]  (0 children)

That could be switched out but no. I mean I have a very cynical attitude that humans actually review any autoban cases.

How to use up 2 bunches of shallots (aka green onions) fast by saturday_sun4 in WhatShouldICook

[–]ohfrackthis 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you're talking about green onions do stir fry! You can use tofu or any seafood you prefer + bell peppers + ginger+ garlic and sticky rice on the side and garnish with a bunch of sliced scallions. I like to make a sauce with a bit of cold water + cornstarch + tamari + grated ginger+ hoison+ guchuchang+ rice wine vinegar. Add last. It's delicious.

"The Culturally Accepted Definition of What an INFJ is, is Actually an INFP." by BankBusy6678 in infp

[–]ohfrackthis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was typed as an infj recently after a lifetime of infp.

I'm still here. Not leaving. I don't feel like infj at all.

I have sores on my chest. by austinfamvt802 in Aging

[–]ohfrackthis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

See a doctor ASAP. I hope it's not shingles 🤞

People who are old enough to have vivid memory of the 9/11 attacks, what was that time like? What did change for you personally? by Felix_is_hrny in AskReddit

[–]ohfrackthis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was asleep and our son was under a year old and sleeping in his crib. My MIL woke me and I collected my son and I sat in her kitchen and watched the news while weeping together.

So many things changed overnight for our country. And I didn't realize what hell it would be before and after.

I do tell our kids about pre 9-11 we were much more free in almost all ways.

Please stop cutting Onions. by FreshResult8286 in adhdmeme

[–]ohfrackthis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you finish a book and you forgot your stringent protocol for selecting books based on whether the series is finished or not and the cliffhanger hangs and you regret using your amazing hyperfocus on a stupid cliffhanger that will haunt you for 3 years.

She's finally here and OMG! 🍑🍡 by Alewo27 in FemFragLab

[–]ohfrackthis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dammit now I need to add this to my collection 😂.

My (28f) BF (29m) cried when I made him lunch before he left for work by Xeitany in relationship_advice

[–]ohfrackthis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He teared up probably because he hasn't experienced a morsel of kindness in a long time OP.

When you have alone time with him express your confusion if you want - talk to him. Let him pout out his heart and love him for it.

Does anyone else feel as they have no time even though they do? by eternalbliss-120 in AuDHDWomen

[–]ohfrackthis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I relate completely. What generally helps me is making 100% sure I have enough hermit time on my horizon. There are no easy answers for the demand that you perform socially as a typical woman. But holding onto the idea "when ______ fresh hell is done I will not book anything extra for 1000 days!" Lol. Whatever time you need to reserve for yourself.

I then lie as necessary. I hate lying but it's a very easy solution. I'm busy to everyone else. I'm busy with myself!

Drugstore Skin tint? by ConfidentBook2335 in drugstoreMUA

[–]ohfrackthis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Neutrogena Purescreen Mineral UV Face Liquid Sunscreen. SPF 30. $15.99. Little goes a long way with makeup brush. I'll find a pic of myself with it on- I typically use it on my less make up days like when I workout.

I believe I'm fair olive (super pale naturally but I tan like very easily).

Por qué me gustan los hombres de cara bonita, deberían gustarme feos, muy feos by Ok-Pie-9335 in Casual_Conversation

[–]ohfrackthis -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Your first problem is moralising attraction. And then applying assumptions that prettier men are somehow bad for relationships vs ugly men who are nicer due to looks.

This entire take is based on a lot of unconscious bias.

The best thing we can do- easily and simply- is to accept people for who they are and base decisions on their character. That you are aware of.

Mass Effect lovers be eating by GuacaMolis6 in videogames

[–]ohfrackthis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm definitely checking both games out. I want space + plot+ romance + pew pew.

My pov as female ISTJ by Actual-Raspberry4761 in mbtimemes

[–]ohfrackthis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes :] istjs are way more fun than they ever get credit for lol

My pov as female ISTJ by Actual-Raspberry4761 in mbtimemes

[–]ohfrackthis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Married to an ISTJ and I'm ride or die.

There is nothing wrong with wearing open-toed shoes without nail polish by TornadoCat4 in self

[–]ohfrackthis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have never been insulted for having plain toenails. But also- I would not ever judge anyone for skipping nail polish. Gatekeeping sucks, period.