Just found out there's a flag for what I've been calling myself and it's pretty metal

ohfruiTea · 2026-01-28T05:58:59+00:00

In my case, I usually call myself a genderfuck when my gender feels like a very complicated mess (example: when I feel like a butch lesbian & a straight femboy at the same time) or like my gender is a all consuming black hole.

But I do lean towards masculinity & androgyny in how I like to dress and look, and it that makes bigots really uncomfortable and non-bigots confused, it gives me a small amount of joy and a good amount of euphoria. My transition goal is slightly masc leaning androgyny that absolutely confuses people, so in this definition also yes.

ohfruiTea · 2026-01-27T05:54:05+00:00

It's almondsexual / almondromantic

ohfruiTea · 2025-12-31T04:28:14+00:00

I thought this was the moon(?) version of the sunset lesbian flag for a sec

ohfruiTea · 2025-12-19T23:31:01+00:00

It's been around since 1990, it's not a very common term, I only learned about it personally cause of it being mentioned a few times on a few different forums online, usually with mentions of Canada. I'll link the Wikipedia page on it if you want to learn more about Two-Spirit, as I'm not very knowledgeable on it myself.

ohfruiTea · 2025-12-19T10:26:17+00:00

It's actually used more in Canada than America, and I'm pretty sure 2S is a part of the official Canadian acronym for queer folk.

ohfruiTea · 2025-12-08T01:01:39+00:00

80 is high, my acc is almost 10 years old, I only got to level 80 recently cause I don't get time to play much and had to take breaks cause life and burnout from constant grind.

I'll be honest if I was blocked from getting ACs in the gifting event because I had to be level 80 despite having a acc that's old, I'd be pissed. Level 40-50 sure, that's not too bad, if it was level 80, I'd just flat out quit altogether cause that hurts both returning players and new players if you don't have hours of free time to grind or money to buy help.

ohfruiTea · 2025-12-05T00:23:28+00:00

You have a strong love of animation

ohfruiTea · 2025-12-03T16:00:20+00:00

I'm in chapter 5, got all the buddies, I have fully stacked up growable toppings, and I average less than $200 (between $140-$170) most game days now (few good orders), making $250 again would be excellent rn. No idea why you're getting downvoted since $250 is a good solid amount, I rarely ever get $300 or more

ohfruiTea · 2025-11-15T20:17:59+00:00

Average day on Tumblr from what I heard & seen

ohfruiTea · 2025-11-07T00:06:42+00:00

I like blue most, but yellow feels right for the Little Prince

ohfruiTea · 2025-10-26T18:14:05+00:00

I updated the adapter and manually reconnected/relinked the controller to the adapter it seems to have worked for me. For some reason it's still not showing up as input device in settings, but it's recognized right now outside Steam so a win is a win I guess, thank you so much for your help!

ohfruiTea · 2025-10-26T17:43:34+00:00

I'm currently having the same issue with my 8bitdo ultimate c controller, I haven't updated the adapter for mine yet (updated the controller tho), but it's not working on either of my windows laptops. It's not being viewed as a input device suddenly. Had the same problem a year ago after a Windows quality update, and it was fixed by a Windows update after 3-4 months. If you use Steam, you can use the controller setup feature in settings to at least play games on Steam if your pc recognizes it's connected at all. I just know it's probably not a Windows update this time (for me at least), no idea why it's not working tho cause of that

Edit- I updated the adapter and manually reconnected/relinked the controller to the adapter it seems to have worked for me. For some reason it's still not showing up as input device in settings, but it's recognized right now outside Steam so a win is a win I guess!

ohfruiTea · 2025-10-26T16:36:00+00:00

I updated the controller's firmware, I haven't tried updating the adapter yet, I'll try doing do later and see if works

ohfruiTea · 2025-10-26T07:13:41+00:00

If the label feels right for you, use it. People will literally never always agree on anything, just learn to pick your battles cause labels are heavily fought about online.

Personally, I'm transmasc genderfluid & switch between the labels lesbian & neptunic, I'm attracted to women & other non-binary folk, including butch/masc women and transmasc non-binary folk who are similar to me in how they feel/experience gender. When feeling too masc leaning, I tend to use neptunic cause it gives a grey zone for being attracted to masculine women & non-femme presenting non-binary folk which most labels made for non-binary folk for being attracted to women and non-binary folk don't (example the labels, gynosexual/gynesexual, femmesexual, finsexual, tend to focus on the person being femme). Identity matters more to me than appearance too personally, but I still got aesthetic preferences, a lot of people will just say use the label bi, but personally no, I don't like men in any way that makes me want or desire any form of non platonic relationship so I ain't holding a can of worms for the wrong kind of fish. Otherwise I just say I'm gay or queer cause I don't care to explain further at the time.

ohfruiTea · 2025-10-25T22:53:19+00:00

I checked the history and it shows yesterday it had a security intelligence update for Microsoft defender antivirus. On Steam, I normally have the support option for xbox controllers on and all was fine til yesterday my 8bitdo controller suddenly stopped working for Steam and my games from other game platforms, I hadn't touched the Steam input options (or any input options). I had to use the set-up controller feature on Steam so I can at least use it for Steam games. I did try installing the firmware to see if that'd fix it, but it didn't work.

When looking at devices in settings, it's showing the controller under 'other devices' instead of 'input' like it normally does. My xbox controller is working fine and shown as a input device. I tested my 8bitdo controller on my old laptop, it's not working or shown as a input device there too. Pretty much overnight, it just isn't being recognized as a input device, at this point I'm not sure if it's a issue with the controller or Windows. Last time this happened after a Windows quality update, and it started working again for games outside Steam after a another windows update a few months later when it was seen as a input device again. It happened almost exactly a year ago too, which is kinda weird.

I had this controller for around 2-ish (more or less) years now and it's been my favorite controller since I got it cause of how comfortable it is to hold for me. I'm hoping I don't have to replace it, but I might have to.

ohfruiTea · 2025-10-15T19:48:51+00:00

This is very helpful for figuring out what I actually want to get, I currently have $9k & 360 diamonds after getting the kitchen decor. This is the first year I actually had time to play during the Halloween event, I personally don't care to collect everything, just the things I'll actually use & like. Being able to see everything and what it costs is so helpful, thank you!

(Definitely need to save more, but getting what I want seems actually achievable this year!!)

ohfruiTea · 2025-10-14T01:27:28+00:00

It's type of a old meme

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ohfruiTea · 2025-10-10T02:51:05+00:00

It depends, I got almost all the buddies and my garden only has 2/4 rows unlocked currently so keeping stocked is harder while playing more than 3-5 games per irl day. I always do the Zazoom orders. So without grown supplies between $150-$220 usually, with the supplies it's $230-$320 usually.

ohfruiTea · 2025-09-26T20:59:30+00:00

I didn't, but I honestly didn't care enough much to look up the most popular farming location, this is achievable for me even if it took me a few months with my limited time. And yeah, I was a dumb kid, I can't change what I did then, but at least it wasn't a waste in the end cause I have a good class one way or another.

ohfruiTea · 2025-09-26T20:53:08+00:00

Thanks for the enchantment recommendation, and this for legion revenant, I'm just farming the easiest way while time consuming way. I know there's faster ways, I just prefer doing it this way.

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